Are you having a hard time living your life. Does your life sucks right now and you feel like being stuck in a mud forever? do you feel that every work is hard work and you feel that it's so stressful to the point where you don't want to do it anymore
ATTACHMENT MAKES EVERYTHING SUPER DIFFICULT
You're so attached with the outcome, you're so attached with the money or some kind of success that you defined by yourself. You're thinking about the results that's why you don't feel free. attached from winning, attached from the future, worrying about the next happening, worrying about what other people think of you. Worrying if you are right or wrong, fear of getting judged, fear of the mistakes etc etc. You're so attached with something and that's why you can't move, but if you will just let go and just do what you think is right... everything will become a lot easier, you will be able to decide fast, you will no longer become stiff, you will become fearless, you will become all about actions and not hesitations.
NEVER PROCRASTINATE JUST FOR A SECOND
Attack your dreams, attack your tasks for the day, be relentless as you can be and never look back again. Go all the way, never think too much, don't think about winning or losing and just persevere until the end. Procrastination is making your life so difficult, you're always thinking that you can do it tomorrow but every time you do that your attitude becomes worse and worse. Procrastination is the number one habit of losers, you will die and lose if you spend most of your time procrastinating. Just do what you can do, forget about the results, forget if your work looks ugly or has a lot of flaws. Remember, the idea is to beat procrastination all the time, the idea is to build a habit of just doing it no matter what. See if it works for you, just do it without conscience, this will make the resistance weak, it will prompt you to take actions right away. You will become faster, you will become earlier, you will become the most productive in the group.
PRUNE YOUR MIND TO IMAGES THAT YOU WANT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE
Only imagine the good things that you want to attract into your life. Being a negative guy is making you weak, slow and full of worries and fears. Imagine only the situations that you want to attract into your life. Never entertain ugly images to your mind, always think about what excites you and motivates you. Train your mind to filter unwanted thoughts, do this everyday. Only think about the things that you want to happen. This will change your actions, this will change your psyche, you will become a different person because you are seeing things different now.
CREATE YOUR OWN STYLE
Whatever technique or way of doing things you think will work... apply it, don't be afraid if you look so odd and weird, don't be afraid if they're judging you. You have to create your own style, practice your freedom. Feel free to do things according to your standards. Because it will be harder for you if you will follow some guidance that you don't even like. DO it your way no matter what, don't be afraid to look wrong, just do it and if it works... you will see that people will follow you too. It looks so wrong because it's new to their eyes but once they see that it is effective... they will also do what you're doing. Be confident to apply your own style, it's your life, you can do whatever you want with it.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO FAIL AND START OVER
I don't know why a lot of people were so afraid of failing, they don't know that it's the path to success. Failing will make you stronger and wiser, never avoid it. Fail as much as you can, think that failing is just part of the game, consider it as not a big deal and you will feel lesser pressure, everything will become a lot easier. There's nothing wrong with starting over again, it's ok, that's how life works. You really need to fail again and again until you become successful, it is what it is, it's hard but it's the reality. You can never shortcut the process, you can never cut corners because it will backfire at you in the end. Don't be afraid of failure, feel nothing about it, always think that you're getting better and wiser every time you fail.
BE PLAYFUL
Look at those children who are just playing, they were fearless right? they don't mind getting hurt, and even if they got hurt... they will try again, they never give up, all they want is to get what they want at all cost. They will try everything even if it's impossible. Be childlike when it comes to chasing goals, being playful will make you more creative and dynamic, you will take more risks, you will learn to love the process.
JUST DO IT WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATIONS
Don't expect to win, don't expect to lose, don't expect to get loved by a lot of people, don't expect that you will make it work right away. Just work, do it for the sake of just doing it. Getting rid of expectations will lessen the pressure and anxiety, you will feel more loose and comfortable. Just don't be afraid of what may happen next. Life is happening now, it's not about the past nor tomorrow.
DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHER PEOPLE
Focus on your own journey and story. Never mind the story of other people, so what if they have this or have that? so what if they're better than you? It's still up to you if you want to feel good about yourself no matter what you do or have. Comparing yourself to other people is the most disrespectful thing you can do to yourself, it's a disgrace, your journey is different from theirs so what's the point of doing that weak stuff? learn to enjoy what you have, learn to appreciate what you can do and never try to attached your life with the life of other people because it will only make you depressed. Things will get harder in your life if you do that.
STOP FOLLOWING THE JOURNEY OF OTHER PEOPLE
Focus on your own journey, you have to enjoy yourself. Enjoy your work, enjoy everything about your life. Don't hate yourself, stop feeling inadequate, appreciate yourself and everything that you do. Ignore what's happening to their lives, focus on your own life and try to make it big as it can be. Because their story will not help you at all, it will only eat a lot of your time. You might even become jealous if you see them succeeding. So the best thing to do is focus on your own life and create your own beautiful story.
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