Feb 21, 2020

NEVER CARE ABOUT WINNING OR LOSING, IT'S THE PROCESS THAT MATTERS THE MOST

If you're always losing every now and then, if you can't stomach it anymore... remember that you're not in control of the outcome, the only thing you can control is your effort. Always remember that you already won whenever you give your 100 percent effort. Just enjoy the process if you can't win and victory will manifest later. It's hard because you're expecting too much, it's hard because you're so afraid of losing. But if you will just feel free and detach from the outcome then you will be able to express yourself even more. Stop caring because it's the stupidest thing that you could ever do. If you care too much about what people say then you're dead, you will freeze yourself. Because process is what matters the most, winning is just a bonus. And in real life, losing is still winning, you still gain something, you learn from it, you become tougher because you fought hard until the end, you're a better person now even if you lose because you gain a new experience and you feel some pain. Pain means growth, it means progress.

If you win you win, if you lose you lose, what's the big deal? you are still alive and you can still try again tomorrow, there is nothing to lose here. You are only losing if you'er wasting time doing nothing. So stop wishing for success and focus on the process... that's what a real winner does. Never quit and always give your best, never care if you're slow or if you're stuck in a rut, you will eventually find out what is working. Just keep pushing yourself to the limits and enjoy making small progress. Time is fast, you will even be surprised at how fast you were able to succeed, so just enjoy your journey and never quit even if it's too hard. That's what legends do... they do the impossible, they keep pushing even if nothing is working, they push and push and push until they finally become victorious.

IT'S STILL ON YOU IF YOU'RE GOING TO WIN OR NOT

Your effort is the barometer of your success, your commitment is the gauge of your victory. How committed are you? can you work until the end? can you promise to yourself that you will never quit no matter what? because it's easy to get arrogant while winning but what if you're already losing? The only thing that is left for you is your ability to move and decide of you're still going to fight or not. It's on you if you will push harder and get that victory. Always remember that the power is in your hands, it's on you if you're going to become great or not. Keep in mind that you will never win if you will not move so what are you waiting for? do the process now and make success or else you will become a loser forever.

LEGACY DON'T MATTER

So what if you won 5 MVPs? so what if you're so rich and famous and powerful? you will die one day and your legacy will die with you, you can never carry your riches with you. Winning or losing doesn't matter at all, what matter is what's happening now. You have to be in the moment and enjoy our life as much as you can. There should be no pressure on you to win, forget about winning because it will never be permanent, even the legendary players were forgotten, even the  most respected actors were disrespected. Stop thinking that winning is the only thing that matters because it's not.

Legacy is just an illusion, what's the real meaning of it? any legacy will never have an impact if you don't recognize it. So take risks and never care about your legacy, so what if you lose? so what if you didn't achieve anything? it doesn't matter at all. The most important thing is how are you going to enjoy your life and being at the present moment no matter how challenging life is.

YOU CAN ENJOY BEING AT THE BOTTOM

It all depends on how you think of it. You can enjoy losing, have fun with the process and simply give your best and there is nothing else to worry about. Being at the bottom doesn't mean you're a loser, especially if you're trying to climb your way to the top. It doesn't matter if you're on top or at the bottom, what matters is you keep moving forward all the time and you embrace every challenges in front of you. Never back down to any challenge, never stop chasing your goal. Being at the bottom is fun and challenging, the good thing about it is you can never fail anymore, the direction waiting for you is going up.

IT'S EASIER TO WIN IF YOU'RE NOT THINKING ABOUT IT

Stop thinking about it because it will add pressure on your side, focus on enjoying every second of the process. If you want it so bad then you will become more conservative of your actions, you will not become natural anymore and that is a bad thing. Taking action is better than anticipation, the more you expect for it... the harder the process will be. Stop thinking about it, if it's yours it's yours. It will come on the right time, you just have to keep working now and make sure you are doing the right ways to attract success.

DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME

It's like you don't care at all if you lose, you just want to enjoy chasing it. Just like the lions... they were enjoying the hunting more than they enjoy the feast. Because they were built for that, they love the process and that's why they always bring food on the table. Always remember that it's easier to attract success if you're enjoying the process and not expecting anything. Don't worry too much, you will get what you deserve, if you really work hard for it then success will be yours. 

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