Don't wait for a new life to come because it never will, if all you do is waiting and complaining and whining then nothing will happen to you, you will remain the same bum and clown forever, you will be stuck in a mud and your life will suck, that is the reality. If you want to experience a new life then you need to create a new character, change your perceptions, change the way you behave. Change the way you feel, think, speak and make decisions. In other words you need to become a new person, create new habits, you need to go into the unknown and stop staying in your comfort zone. Creating a new character is a little bit uncomfortable, and remember... when it is uncomfortable then it means you're progressing a little bit, so be happy when you're feeling bad because that means you're doing something good, you are becoming closer and closer to success.
Just like what Kobe Bryant did... he created the Black Mamba, he said that it was a villain role, he embraced the villain role, a role that was effective. It is an attitude about embracing hard work, being tough with his teammates so that they will work hard too and giving the opponents no sign of fear. Sometimes he is not even talking to his teammates because he is playing mind games, he is psyching them up, he is scaring them a little bit so that they will follow him and give their best. And it works, he manage to win 5 championships.
Because you can't be doing the same crap over and over again and expect new results, you can't be thinking the same as yesterday. You need to face the unknown, face the discomfort, embrace the pain and push yourself to become a new person. Once you're a new person your reality will change. That's why people who are succeeding were widely criticized, their friends were thinking that they change and become arrogant. But the truth is... they never change, they just learned how to win, they just learn how to create a new reality and people around them can't get it. If there is a progress of course there will be a change, if there is success a lot of people will criticize you because they can't catch up with your pace, they can't get your attention anymore.
CREATE A NEW CHARACTER CREATE A NEW STORY
If you've been bullied before it's because your character is bullyble, you're scared and you want to please the person bullying you. But what if you create a new character, a character who is not trying to please people a character who will stand up for what he believe in? what if you said to yourself... "ok I amok being alone but I will never follow you" What do you think will be the result? if you will play the same character as the child being bullied then you will get bullied forever. There is a makeover needed, you need to become tougher this time, you need to face fear. Always remember that facing your fears and embracing the pain is the path to freedom. So if you are willing to get hurt, get scared but fight back then you will never become bullied anymore. You need to threaten what threatens you, you need to retaliate and fight back... that's how to win in life and make a change.
That is why people who are having troubles losing weight and cutting their belly looks stuck forever. No matter what shoes they put on or what diet they try and coaches they hire... they can't get out of the rut they are in. It's because they can't create a new character. They always look for results but they're full of excuses, they want to trim their weight but they don't want to face discomfort. Remember that if you're not feeling any small amount of pain then you will never grow. That is the basic formula to success. You need to sore, you need to embrace discomfort, pain is the number one requirement of change.
CREATE A NEW SELF IMAGE THEN STICK WITH IT
Never use the same image as before. If you're slow before then become quick now, if you're wasting a lot of time before then be productive now. If you're not taking risks before then take risks now. There should be something new in you. People should notice that there is a weird thing going on with you. They should feel that you're using a different energy now. So if you want to look respectable then have some self respect with yourself, don't clown around, don't be someone who easily gets bullied, make a stand for your decisions and carry yourself like a real man. Be ready to strike anytime if you get disrespected, it is what it is, you will really look bad sometimes, that's how to change your life... you need to use brute force and bravery. Because if you want to live the same life over and over again then be nice, be slow and passive. But if you want to have a new life then you need to be aggressive and mean, be nasty, do whatever you want but never try to do some illegal. Just focus on what you want, focus on the life you want to live and give your very best to get it.
HABITS AND PATTERN OF THINKING IS CRITICAL
Look at yourself, look at your habits, look at your mind, how do you think? your habits plays a major role to your success. The way you think and behave is your reality. So if you keep thinking about the people who hurt you from the past then your life will never change because you'r so attached with the past. If you keep on doing the same habit like being lazy, watching TV, gossiping, reading useless emails and messages then you will get the same result.
There is a sense of urgency about changing your mind. Think about abundance, think about self love, self respect, hard work and commitment. Think about succeeding, think about getting what you want and never stop working hard, enjoy hard work, never complain and whine... be a new person now. New life can be created by building a new character, something that is too different from your character in the past.
Just like what Kobe Bryant did... he created the Black Mamba, he said that it was a villain role, he embraced the villain role, a role that was effective. It is an attitude about embracing hard work, being tough with his teammates so that they will work hard too and giving the opponents no sign of fear. Sometimes he is not even talking to his teammates because he is playing mind games, he is psyching them up, he is scaring them a little bit so that they will follow him and give their best. And it works, he manage to win 5 championships.
Because you can't be doing the same crap over and over again and expect new results, you can't be thinking the same as yesterday. You need to face the unknown, face the discomfort, embrace the pain and push yourself to become a new person. Once you're a new person your reality will change. That's why people who are succeeding were widely criticized, their friends were thinking that they change and become arrogant. But the truth is... they never change, they just learned how to win, they just learn how to create a new reality and people around them can't get it. If there is a progress of course there will be a change, if there is success a lot of people will criticize you because they can't catch up with your pace, they can't get your attention anymore.
CREATE A NEW CHARACTER CREATE A NEW STORY
If you've been bullied before it's because your character is bullyble, you're scared and you want to please the person bullying you. But what if you create a new character, a character who is not trying to please people a character who will stand up for what he believe in? what if you said to yourself... "ok I amok being alone but I will never follow you" What do you think will be the result? if you will play the same character as the child being bullied then you will get bullied forever. There is a makeover needed, you need to become tougher this time, you need to face fear. Always remember that facing your fears and embracing the pain is the path to freedom. So if you are willing to get hurt, get scared but fight back then you will never become bullied anymore. You need to threaten what threatens you, you need to retaliate and fight back... that's how to win in life and make a change.
That is why people who are having troubles losing weight and cutting their belly looks stuck forever. No matter what shoes they put on or what diet they try and coaches they hire... they can't get out of the rut they are in. It's because they can't create a new character. They always look for results but they're full of excuses, they want to trim their weight but they don't want to face discomfort. Remember that if you're not feeling any small amount of pain then you will never grow. That is the basic formula to success. You need to sore, you need to embrace discomfort, pain is the number one requirement of change.
CREATE A NEW SELF IMAGE THEN STICK WITH IT
Never use the same image as before. If you're slow before then become quick now, if you're wasting a lot of time before then be productive now. If you're not taking risks before then take risks now. There should be something new in you. People should notice that there is a weird thing going on with you. They should feel that you're using a different energy now. So if you want to look respectable then have some self respect with yourself, don't clown around, don't be someone who easily gets bullied, make a stand for your decisions and carry yourself like a real man. Be ready to strike anytime if you get disrespected, it is what it is, you will really look bad sometimes, that's how to change your life... you need to use brute force and bravery. Because if you want to live the same life over and over again then be nice, be slow and passive. But if you want to have a new life then you need to be aggressive and mean, be nasty, do whatever you want but never try to do some illegal. Just focus on what you want, focus on the life you want to live and give your very best to get it.
HABITS AND PATTERN OF THINKING IS CRITICAL
Look at yourself, look at your habits, look at your mind, how do you think? your habits plays a major role to your success. The way you think and behave is your reality. So if you keep thinking about the people who hurt you from the past then your life will never change because you'r so attached with the past. If you keep on doing the same habit like being lazy, watching TV, gossiping, reading useless emails and messages then you will get the same result.
There is a sense of urgency about changing your mind. Think about abundance, think about self love, self respect, hard work and commitment. Think about succeeding, think about getting what you want and never stop working hard, enjoy hard work, never complain and whine... be a new person now. New life can be created by building a new character, something that is too different from your character in the past.
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