Feb 6, 2020

CAN YOU BELIEVE FOREVER?

You believe now, you think you can do it, you're so excited of winning, you're so pumped up, you're so confident because it's not yet hard, the question is can you believe forever? can you retain your confidence when you're about to go down? you're only confident now because things are running smoothly but what if you encounter a rough road? what if suddenly you feel stuck and can't make a small progress? will you still believe in yourself? Anyone can believe in himself while the wind for sailing is still good but when the scary storm is already there... it's hard to believe in yourself anymore. The big question is can you believe forever? is your belief really solid? can you hold on to that believe even if there is no more reason to believe?

MOVING FORWARD IS BELIEVING

If you can just move forward a little bit and take some actions then that's already believing. Some people will brag and tell everyone that they still believe but they couldn't even take some actions. If you're not doing something then you're not believing... as simple as that. Because your goal and belief... if it is real then it will never stop, once you stop then your journey is over. So whenever you're having a hard time making progress, whenever you feel so stuck and lost... just move forward and that's it, keep pushing yourself all the time and never ever stop until you find yourself back in the momentum again. You will rise if you keep believing and taking actions, sometimes it will really feel heavy and bad but it is what it is, it's a challenge right, you're chasing a goal right? you need to believe forever, you need to be taking actions forever, this formula is so effective yet most people don't want to use it because they were so allergic of getting tired.

YOU WILL REALLY DOUBT YOURSELF SOMETIMES

You're just a human being, you will doubt yourself sometimes, it's normal, don't be ashamed of it, don't ever think that you already lost your confidence once you doubt yourself, don't worry because it will come back. Don't worry because your confidence will come back anytime soon if you keep taking actions. Just keep working hard, keep moving forward and you will get your confidence back, action will kill doubts and fears, inaction will build worries and feeling of inadequacy. So whenever you feel stuck and scared... just move, do it now, start now and everything will become ok again, as simple as that.

TIPS ON HOW TO BELIEVE FOREVER:

1. Focus on taking actions so you won't entertain a lot of worries and scary images that might play inside of your head, keep yourself busy, look for something you can do that will propel you to move forward towards your dreams.

2. Don't look at your situation if it's bad, never focus on the things that are making you weak. Feel inspire by looking on things that inspires you and motivates you to take steps.

3. Become delusional if you need to. Believe that it's going to happen to matter what, believe that you can have it even if you don't have enough evidences yet that it may happen in the future.

4. Always visualize that it's happening, remember that it's all in your head, if you can entertain the right thoughts then there is a big chance that you will become successful.

5. Focus. The reason why your belief is fading is because you're lacking the focus, you're looking at different things that are only making you feel scared, jealous, slow or unproductive. Focus on your work, have pride on your ability to do something for a very long time.

6. Ignore the naysayers. They will manipulate your mind, will try to destroy your will and will even criticize you at their best, they were only good in minding other people's lives but they cannot mind their own lives. Ignore them because they were useless as a dust.

7. Focus on taking one small action at a time, never mind if it is working or not, what matters is you are developing a habit of moving fast and just simply doing it without regrets. It may or may not work but just be happy that you were able to move and finish something because it will give you a little bit of confidence.

WHAT ARE THE THINGS THAT ARE DESTROYING YOUR BELIEF?

•  Focusing on the future, not loving your situation because it's hard and that's why you're entertaining the idea of quitting.
• Comparing yourself to other people.
• Listening to what other people say.
• Not being patient
• Judging your situation right away and wanting to leave the process.
• Letting your mind wander from one subject to another, you're not focusing on what you want, you focused on a lot of things that will not even help you, and that makes your confidence goes down, you're thinking about problems that are not even worth it.
• Procrastination, always remember that every time you waste your time... you lose your momentum and that kills your belief instantly.
• Always looking for help, always looking for an easy way. If this is your mentality then you will never believe in yourself.

CHALLENGE YOURSELF TO FINISH IT NO MATTER WHAT

No matter how long it takes... just finish it, no matter how hard it gets... keep pushing, your belief will never die if you keep moving forward. Never quit, never surrender, always remember that you're on the right path if you're taking actions. You can finish it if you will use your willpower, you can do it if you will not stop. Challenges will come, adversity will arise but if you keep your eyes on the goal then nothing can stop you. Don't be afraid of what might happen next, don't be afraid of what future might hold, just be yourself and give your best, you will make it if you wil. believe forever. 

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