Everything is mental. Every result that you produced was based on your mental capacity. What you think is what you attract so if you're on a situation that you need to make a decision... don't decide fast, never let the outside influences affect your way of thinking. Never let history, intimidation, pain, suffering, defeat, crowd, threats, possibility of losing money, heartache etc force you to make a very bad decision. You have to be aware that you are being pressured, always remember that there is always a space between pressure and taking action. There is a breathing room, all you have to do is stay calm and never let anything influence your mind, you have to trust instincts and never let a poor offer deceive you. Just because it is readily available and it's easy doesn't mean it's the right decision to do.
The fear of the future is what makes you scared. But if you will just focus on the now and give your very best and also enjoy whatever situation you are in then your decision will become right. Never make any move or decision if you are scared because it will lead you to a wrong path. Fear is just a feeling, it's nothing but a feeling, you need to be aware that you're the only one who's scaring yourself by being too emotional. Stop entertaining the wrong thoughts and all of your fear will go away, remember that what doesn't kill you can only make you stronger.
PAUSE FOR A BIT AND THINK SLOW
You don't need to decide right away, you can think, use your brain. Don't get stunned with something that is not really scary, you're scared because you're thinking too much and letting your fears dominate your brain, you need to slow down and calm yourself. Believe that you can make the right decisions, have no regrets with your choice and make a stand for what you really want. The key is to not be afraid and just be in the moment. You can never control everything but you can control your mind. Be aware of the war that is going on inside of your head. If you're always in a hurry or rushing or panicking then you will lose control, you will freak out and look like a clown, you will lose your power, you will be played by whatever wants to play you. You will become their toy, no matter how hard you resist you can never escape because your mind was already poisoned. Because something will always rush, something will always try to push you to make a stupid decision and the best way to stop getting affected by any of it is to remain calm all the time and feel your feelings, it's ok to feel bad, it's ok to feel uncomfortable a little bit, just deal with any kind of negative emotion and remind yourself that you are ok.
NOTHING CAN SCARE YOU IF YOU ARE AWARE WITH YOUR MIND
Fear scares you all the time because you're not aware with your mind, you're too focused on what you can't control but the reality is the only thing you can control is your mind. So what if your situation is really bad, sometimes all you can do is stay calm and do nothing and the situation will be taken care of by itself. Stay still my friend no matter how hard the situation is because that's the best thing to do. Instead of panicking and freaking out... you're only making your situation worse by doing that. So be aware with what is going on with your mind, detach from the outcome and focus on feeling good and giving your best. Face the pain, don't be afraid to face it, don't be afraid to take charge and take full responsibility with the situation. Enjoy the discomfort, be appreciative with the moment and good things will manifest.
So whenever you are scared... go back to your mind, dissect it, find what is scaring you and stay calm, accept what might happen, take the risk and let go. Fear is nothing if you are letting go and detaching from the outcome, let it happen if it will happen but don't be scared, don't let fear be the creator of your fate.
FEAR IS A TRICK
It's a trap, you're always following what scares you but deep inside you know that you're being manipulated but you can't do something about it. Always remember that fear is a trick and that you are always ok if you will just stay calm and maintain your composure. Focus on yourself, focus on how you feel, focus on what you can control and that is your actions and thoughts. The number one antidote for fear is calmness and perseverance. If you will just make a stand for what you want no matter how difficult it is then fear will subside, what scares you will go away. Fear is getting stronger because you're always looking for comfort and you feel that believing in your fear is more comfortable and the most logical thing to do. But if you will just stay calm and focus on your breathing then what scares you will start to go away little by little. This is not a rush, take your time, you don't need to push away fear that fast, you are only amplifying it by doing that. The way to eliminate fear is to focus on what you feel and forget everything around you. Remind yourself what you really want and never let any outside influences affect your mind. Your mind is very powerful if you will use it according to your instincts and never letting anybody affect it.
IF YOU WILL MAKE A MISTAKE THEN DO IT YOUR WAY
Just keep moving forward and do it your way, don't be afraid to make mistakes. If you're going to make mistakes then do it your way and never let other people do it for you. It's your life, follow your instincts, follow your dreams and always remember that a decision that was made by your heart is always the right decision. So if you feel that you need to make a decision on your own then do it. Don't be afraid of what people might say, don't be afraid of what's going to happen next. Embrace the moment and have no regrets once you made a decision, make a stand and let them feel that you have no intention of changing your mind, make them feel that you will live and die by your decision.
The fear of the future is what makes you scared. But if you will just focus on the now and give your very best and also enjoy whatever situation you are in then your decision will become right. Never make any move or decision if you are scared because it will lead you to a wrong path. Fear is just a feeling, it's nothing but a feeling, you need to be aware that you're the only one who's scaring yourself by being too emotional. Stop entertaining the wrong thoughts and all of your fear will go away, remember that what doesn't kill you can only make you stronger.
PAUSE FOR A BIT AND THINK SLOW
You don't need to decide right away, you can think, use your brain. Don't get stunned with something that is not really scary, you're scared because you're thinking too much and letting your fears dominate your brain, you need to slow down and calm yourself. Believe that you can make the right decisions, have no regrets with your choice and make a stand for what you really want. The key is to not be afraid and just be in the moment. You can never control everything but you can control your mind. Be aware of the war that is going on inside of your head. If you're always in a hurry or rushing or panicking then you will lose control, you will freak out and look like a clown, you will lose your power, you will be played by whatever wants to play you. You will become their toy, no matter how hard you resist you can never escape because your mind was already poisoned. Because something will always rush, something will always try to push you to make a stupid decision and the best way to stop getting affected by any of it is to remain calm all the time and feel your feelings, it's ok to feel bad, it's ok to feel uncomfortable a little bit, just deal with any kind of negative emotion and remind yourself that you are ok.
NOTHING CAN SCARE YOU IF YOU ARE AWARE WITH YOUR MIND
Fear scares you all the time because you're not aware with your mind, you're too focused on what you can't control but the reality is the only thing you can control is your mind. So what if your situation is really bad, sometimes all you can do is stay calm and do nothing and the situation will be taken care of by itself. Stay still my friend no matter how hard the situation is because that's the best thing to do. Instead of panicking and freaking out... you're only making your situation worse by doing that. So be aware with what is going on with your mind, detach from the outcome and focus on feeling good and giving your best. Face the pain, don't be afraid to face it, don't be afraid to take charge and take full responsibility with the situation. Enjoy the discomfort, be appreciative with the moment and good things will manifest.
So whenever you are scared... go back to your mind, dissect it, find what is scaring you and stay calm, accept what might happen, take the risk and let go. Fear is nothing if you are letting go and detaching from the outcome, let it happen if it will happen but don't be scared, don't let fear be the creator of your fate.
FEAR IS A TRICK
It's a trap, you're always following what scares you but deep inside you know that you're being manipulated but you can't do something about it. Always remember that fear is a trick and that you are always ok if you will just stay calm and maintain your composure. Focus on yourself, focus on how you feel, focus on what you can control and that is your actions and thoughts. The number one antidote for fear is calmness and perseverance. If you will just make a stand for what you want no matter how difficult it is then fear will subside, what scares you will go away. Fear is getting stronger because you're always looking for comfort and you feel that believing in your fear is more comfortable and the most logical thing to do. But if you will just stay calm and focus on your breathing then what scares you will start to go away little by little. This is not a rush, take your time, you don't need to push away fear that fast, you are only amplifying it by doing that. The way to eliminate fear is to focus on what you feel and forget everything around you. Remind yourself what you really want and never let any outside influences affect your mind. Your mind is very powerful if you will use it according to your instincts and never letting anybody affect it.
IF YOU WILL MAKE A MISTAKE THEN DO IT YOUR WAY
Just keep moving forward and do it your way, don't be afraid to make mistakes. If you're going to make mistakes then do it your way and never let other people do it for you. It's your life, follow your instincts, follow your dreams and always remember that a decision that was made by your heart is always the right decision. So if you feel that you need to make a decision on your own then do it. Don't be afraid of what people might say, don't be afraid of what's going to happen next. Embrace the moment and have no regrets once you made a decision, make a stand and let them feel that you have no intention of changing your mind, make them feel that you will live and die by your decision.
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