Dec 31, 2019

ENJOY YOUR OWN PROCESS

One of the best ways to enjoy your life even more is to enjoy your own process. Create your own process. You are free here, don't you ever stop yourself from creating something from scratch, be confident and allow yourself to invent your own steps towards success. You don't need to follow their rules, you don't need to follow their plans and copy their techniques, you have the authority to create your own path and become successful with it.

Because sometimes you are following other people too much even if you don't like their suggestions and style, you're copying them because you just feel that they are right and you are wrong. If you really want to feel how living life to the fullest is like then you need to become really confident about yourself and do whatever it takes to succeed in life. Your chosen process will be your process forever, you live and die with it, don't change it nor exchange it for something easier, you have to trust it even at the worst times of your life.

YOUR PROCESS WILL ONLY WORK IF YOU BELIEVE IN IT

The main reason why your process is not working is because there are some doubts, there is a fear that it might not work. You have to believe it 100 percent or even more, there should be no 5 or ten percent of doubts. If you doubt it just for a little bit then it will never work. You have to go all in with the process and keep working hard on it. If you really believe it then you will do it, you will work hard even if it's uncomfortable, you will still use it even if it's not working at the moment.

If you can't believe it now then just take actions, do the first step, doing the first step will raise your confidence in it. So keep working until you finally get your momentum and feel good about the process, never stop, keep moving forward all the time. One day you will see that the process you created is already working. It's giving you a little success and all you have to do is double your effort and you will get double results or even more.

So if you can't believe your process now then simply take actions, it doesn't matter if you feel lazy or lousy for the first few steps... just do it. You will be able to figure out how to make it work, you will learn how to enjoy it and endure all the pain that comes along with it.

IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE IT THEN YOU WILL NEVER STOP

You will keep doing it, you will just do it, you will never even think. You will go forward no matter what, you will persevere, you will face all the challenges, you will never take a break. You're all in 24/7, you're lock in 365 days a year, you're so hungry and you're so addicted to taking actions that you believe will give you success. You're not rushing the process, you are enjoying it. You believe that one day you will become successful with it, you are fully committed and you never feel stressed. You feel tired but you are not frustrated even if you can't make results. So look at yourself, are you always stopping? then it means you don't believe it too much, it means you're doubting the process because you're doing something else. You keep pushing even if it's hard, you keep looking for a way even if you're bleeding badly.

ANY PROCESS WILL WORK

Trust me, it will work if you're so dead serious about it and willing to go the extra mile using it. For example if you want to become slim, any chosen process of yours will work, if you choose to jog everyday then jogging will work. The key here is to do it forever and be patient, you may not see the progress right away but if you're committed enough and you're all in then it will work. Any simple process will work if you're doing it right and doing it consistently. Just like trying to become a millionaire, if your process is to simply work hard doing your job then it will still work, all you have to do is save money and that's it, it will take time but you will be able to save a million dollars if you are willing to wait and go the extra mile, you don't need to become a lucky or arrogant entrepreneur here, all you have to do is work and make your chosen process work. Just believe it, stop doubting it, stop rushing it, once you chose a process... go for it and do it forever until it gives you success.

IT'S ONLY BORING IN THE BEGINNING

It may be boring in the beginning but eventually you will learn how to enjoy it because it's what you do, you have no choice but to have fun with it or else you will quit in the long run. You can have fun doing anything, it all depends on your perspective and how you were able to trick your mind that what you're doing is fun. You can have a lot of fun doing your chosen process if you will give it a story, for example you are doing it so that you will become a better person, you are doing it because you want respect, you are doing it because you want success so bad. You have to attached a narrative to your process so that you will become motivated everyday. Create a story with it and enjoy it as much as you can.

Learn to embrace boredom, that is the key to success, that is the key to have fun with your process.

WHAT IF THE PROCESS DOESN'T WORK?

You have to do it again, there is no quitting here, you are not allowed to quit, you are only allowed to move. Taking actions is the only choice you have. It will work in the long run, just trust it and never stop. So stop making excuses now, stop making yourself believe that it is not for you or your process is wrong, you have to force yourself to go back to work and forget about quitting. Quitting is not an option here, if you really want your process to work then stop crying like a baby and do something. 

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