Dec 30, 2019

EMBRACE THE RANDOMNESS OF LIFE

Life is full of surprises, if you don't have traumatic experiences yet then it means you're still a virgin to life. Don't worry a lot of shocking events will visit you one day, and you should be ready for it. I am not scaring you and I am not saying that bad events will happen, what I mean is one day you will be surprised, may it be a good or bad surprise... you should be ready, embrace it because it is all part of your life.

Life is so unpredictable, a lot of situations will come to make you feel uncomfortable. For me the best skill that you must learn is how to embrace discomfort and randomness of life. You should always be ready to adapt when an adversity kicks in. You should learn how to accept any kind of situations without complaining about it. Because if you're always making every little stress a big thing... you will never have a peace of mind. Life is sometimes tricky, you think you're good and comfortable, you think you're doing fine but suddenly an unexpected event will occur and if your mind is not ready then you will freak out, you will go crazy and depressed, you will get lost and you don't even know what to do. Never let life control you, control your life, control the way you think and feel towards anything may it be bad or good. You still need to stay still despite of scary and uncomfortable moments. Don't let anything stun you, always remember what you want in life, recite your personal philosophy and believe in it to the fullest.

IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT READY

It's ok if you're not ready, just make sure that you will not freak out. Just make sure you can accept everything that may happen in your life. You can find a way how to embrace it and then do something positive about it. It's ok if you're scared or worried, just make sure you know what you want and you will still choose to go with a positive state of mind. Being ready is not an issue here, the only question is are you willing to embrace what is in front of you? are you willing to fight and do what is best for your life? Being ready is not a compliment, being able to adapt to any situation is. Don't be scared of anything, or I say be ready to become scared of anything and still think the right way, still move forward and do what is necessary.

A TOUGH PERSON IS NOT ALWAYS DOMINANT

You don't need to always look tough, you don't need to become a savage. Stop faking that you're tough, stop faking that you are this strong person that can overcome anything right away, stop thinking that everything will be alright if you just hide your feelings. What you need to do is eat your ego, accept that you're struggling or suffering and then don't quit, keep moving forward and embrace all the negative feelings inside of you. Don't be afraid to show your weakness, don't be afraid to show your imperfections and just deal with any kind of situation in front of you. So if you want to become tough all you have to do is stop quitting, stop giving up, face the uncertainty of the situation and become the best that you can be.

YOU'RE STRONG IF...

You're strong if you have the ability to adapt to anything, you can adapt with a hot weather or traffic or a poor surrounding. You're strong if you don't need anything to feel comfortable, you don't need a big house or a fancy car or a loving parents, you're just happy being alive and you're doing the right things everyday, you're trying to be useful to the people you love and you just keep getting better each day by giving your very best. You're strong if you can accept the things that you can't change, you're strong if you're willing to embrace the fear and pain that the current situation might give you. You're not bragging about it, you're not telling the world how much you can endure, you just feel it and think that it will make you a better person, you're confident that it will go anytime soon.

YOUR SITUATION WILL ALWAYS CHANGE

Not all the time you're at the bottom. Not all the time you're feeling bad, time will come and your situation will change, just stick with the process and never give up. Keep moving forward all the time, whatever you can do... do it to improve your situation. So embrace the randomness of life and always think that whatever is happening to you is the best moment of your life. It's because your life is happening now, it is not happening in the past nor the future. The best moment of your life is now, so stop thinking about what is missing in your life, stop thinking about what should happen in order for you to become happy. You have no choice but to deal with what is in front of you or else your life will become miserable even more. Learn to deal with any kind of situation and be happy that you're still alive, life is so unpredictable, you never know what may happen next. So regardless of what is happening to you... embrace it and appreciate it. Even if it is really bad... still be thankful of it because at least you are still experiencing life. Anything that happens to your life is still part of your life so be appreciative about it and never complain.

Never think that you are being cursed or punished. It is what it is, life is full of surprises, you can never make a correct guess about what's going to happen in the future. You can never have full control of your life. All you can do is live it and be thankful of it.

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME WHINING 

Your life will never change if you keep on blaming other people or things, you will never make a progress or move on if you're always playing the victim role. Only victims complain, only victims ask for sympathy. You can only have a better life if you stop whining and cursing your situation. Why not make the best out of your life? why not do something positive instead of crying and making dramas? look for the next step that will improve your life, look for something to chase, improve your life day by day and try to be at least happier by taking positive actions. If you're sad, if you're depressed, if you're full of problems... you can never change the outcome of your life if you'r always whining because it will become your habit, you will become a pessimist forever.

THE BEST THING ABOUT LIFE

The best thing about life is you can also win, you can also become happy if you will give yourself a chance. Never count yourself out, do something, create and innovate, invent something, go hard and try. Life will reward people who were positive and taking risks. Life is not all about pain, you can also become really happy and successful if you will just do the right thing. You have a chance, you are qualified to live a better life, all you have to do s work hard and do the right thing. 

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