You're too focused on what you don't need... that is your greatest hindrance to success. You're giving away your energy to things, people and activities that are not even making you one step closer from success. If you really want to become successful then you need to focus, you need to give everything you've got and you're willing to go the extra mile even if it's already too painful.
There are many things especially entertainment, amusement, activities that are serving as hindrances to your success. But you don't know it because you're too much having fun, fun that will lead to misery in the end.
Activities such as gossips, watching other people's lives, being bitter with someone, too much watching of TV etc. The thing is this, if an activity is time consuming and will not give you any benefit in the future then it's a complete waste of time and energy, you are taking your life for granted by doing that. You have to know when to start and when to stop. It's ok to have fun a little bit but be aware if you're wasting your time a lot because your time can never be refunded once it is wasted. Time is fast so you should be fast in taking actions too, never let your time fly without using it for the best.
ACTIVITIES THAT ARE FOOLING PEOPLE
1. Video games (if you are going to play, make sure you will get money from it, make sure you are going to make a career with it. Stop playing just for fun, put a business side on it. You're already wasting a lot of time, why not take it to the next level like what other people are doing who were earning money from video games?)
2. Gossips (your mind is being poison ed by gossips that will not even help you at all, it's turning you into a negative human being)
3. Sports (idolizing someone and getting affected if your idol is not performing well)
4. Bashing online (being negative and focusing on other people's lives)
5. Social media (facebook for more than an hour without doing something good)
6. Procrastination
7. Daydreaming
8. TV (what are you watching? is it helping you to finish your task? did you learn something valuable from it that you can use in your daily life?)
9. Too much vacation (don't be fooled b y people who are having a luxury vacation and posting it on social media, they were broke, they were really not happy, stop copying their lifestyle because it is only stopping you, it is just a waste of money and energy. It's ok to take a vacation if you really needed it and you really have a lot of extra money, but if you're broke then wake up, stop acting like you are rich because you are not)
10. Sleeping too much (sleeping too mcuh will make you weak, it will make you miss a lot of opportunities, successful people never sleep, they were always awake hunting for the best opportunities)
11. Shopping (online shopping, window shopping, mall, wasting money)
Sometimes you don't know how bad you waste your time, you feel good about it without knowing that it's setting you up for a miserable life. The thing is this... there is no in between, it's either your life goes up or goes down. Just because nothing bad is happening to you doesn't mean you're in good hands, you don't know that you are falling down little by little. So be aware if you're evolving or not because just like I said... there is no in between, there is no such thing as sustainability, there is no such thing as maintenance, it's either you evolve or you get worse... as simple as that. So don't ever think that you're fine because you don't have a problem, don't feel so comfortable because one day you will feel the impact of being lazy today.
So focus your time on activities that will give you improvement, focus your time on greatness, success, massive actions, chasing a goal, improvement, discipline, growth. You need to be conscious of your time consumption because most of the time you're doing something that is stupid and you're so entertained with it.
WHY IS IT HARD TO STOP SOMETHING STUPID?
You know that it is stupid right? yet why are you still doing it. You know that it will never give you anything right? yet you're still addicted with that kind of action. Human behave this way because were are programmed by our subconscious mind. You're always in an auto pilot mode, you're life is full of bad habits and you can't get rid of it because it was already embedded into your system s deeply, you're addicted with those bad habits and you feel so different if you can't do it. That's why drug addicts never stop sniffing cocaine even though they know that their lives were in danger by doing that, it's really hard for them because their bodies were feeling terrible and uncomfortable every time they try to stop themselves from doing the "cocaine thing". So look at yourself, are you doing stupid things or not? be honest with yourself, you don't need to feel perfect here.
Look at all of your activities, most of them were fun right? but those activities are keeping you stuck and stopping your growth, entertaining yourself too much is making you a loser. If you want to change then you need to embrace discomfort and pain, change is really painful that is why only few people change. Success is painful that is why only few people become successful, if it is easy then everyone else is successful by now, but only few made it because only few are willing to make sacrifices for their goal.
BE WISE WHERE YOU PUT YOU ENERGY ON
How are you using your energy? where are you putting your energy on? you have to be smart here, you have to be brutally honest with yourself and admit that you are wasting a lot of time and energy for non sense things.
Are you putting your energy on Netflix? TV? facebook? there is nothing wrong with that but keep in mind that entertainment will never give you anything, all it does is waste your time and entertain you a little bit but too much of it will make your life worse. Getting too much addicted with entertainment is the surest path of going down. 100 percent you are never going to win. So if you're going to use your energy why not use it for your own good? why not use it to improve your life? Focus is all you need, where the focus go the energy flow, so if you're focused on making riches then you will get riches, if you're focused on improving then you will improve. But if you don't know where you are focusing on, if your energy is going here and there and scattered around then you will never achieve anything. You have to stick with what is working, you have to stick with your goals.
So focus on becoming successful and you will become successful, as simple as that. Don't think about failing, don't think about the other process that is outside of your goal, just take it one step at a time and do whatever it takes to become successful. Push yourself to the limits, give everything you've got and never stop until you finally reach your goal.
ELIMINATE ALL THE GARBAGE
The garbage thoughts, the garbage process, the garbage habits, the garbage food... eliminate all of these if you want to become successful. Focus all of your time, energy and resources for something that will make your life better. Make your life simple, make it better by using the power of focus, focus on something that will give you a much better life, you what it is, you just have to wake up and be aware of what are you doing everyday.
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