The answer is very simple... ACCEPTANCE and APPRECIATION. This kind of mindset can save you from depression, this kind of mindset can save you from committing suicide. A lot of celebrities from different parts of the world like Korea, Japan, USA, UK etc. were committing suicide, let's not name them to give them respect. The main reason for their suicide move is not depression, it's because they were looking for happiness everyday. And if you're looking for happiness then the more it will become elusive for you. They were looking for a perfect life, they thought that once they have this or have that then they will become happy. They thought that when everyone becomes good to them then they will become happy. Life doesn't work out that way, life is colorful, it is challenging, it will test you, it will mock you and bring you down to your knees.
LIFE IS DIRTY
It is full of challenge, it's full of ups and downs. Someone will disrespect you, you will fail, you will be treated unfairly, something unexpected will happen... life is so unpredictable. It is dirty but it is fun, you can play with your life, you can play with dirt, you can go with the flow or create your own flow. The good thing about life is you are free to do whatever you want with it, granted that you are willing to work hard and pay the price.
Accept that life is not perfect, you will meet some people that you don't want, you will get betrayed, you will get fooled, some people will belittle you but it's ok. On the opposite of negative is positive, there will still be some people who will help you, someone will still care, someone will still be your friend, you can still become successful no matter what. Not all the time you're at the bottom and experiencing hell, you will also have a taste of heaven if you are just patient and doing the right things.
SUCCESS WILL NOT MAKE YOU HAPPY
It's ok to chase it but don't ever think that your life depends on it, don't ever think that once you become successful then you're alright and you will have no more problems. Success is nothing but an illusion, you can feel successful now, it's just a feeling, you can celebrate small success. The reason why you can't become successful in your own way is because you think that success should be compared. You're too jealous of other people's success, you think that their success is better than yours, you think you are not enough. Of course you are enough, what you have is enough. If you can just fully appreciate yourself no matter how you look or how much money you have then you're already successful. There are some people who have it all but they feel miserable, they have the money, they have the fame, they have everything but they keep on thinking that there is something missing in their lives, they can't be satisfied of what they have. If you can't appreciate the small things in your life then you will never be able to appreciate the big things that will come, you will not even see it because your mind is always seeking for something bigger and hard to get. It's ok to dream big but never let your dream be the basis of your happiness. Always remember that you can be happy now if you choose to. Even if you have zero friends or zero money.... you can still become happy if you can just appreciate something in your life, stop looking for something that is missing and simply try to smile.
So never make success a big deal, chase it but never let it define your life or legacy, never let it become the barometer of your happiness. You can become happy without success, you can become happy without the people praising you.
BEING APPRECIATIVE TAKES AWAY ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS
Just being happy that you are still alive and experiencing life is a greatest shield for loneliness. Come to think of it... all you need to live is air. You don't need a big house or a lot of friends, you don't need appreciation from other people, you don't need 1 million subscribers in you tube, you live before without those things so how come you are being lonely because you can't have some of it?
Appreciate that you are still living despite of pain, appreciate that you are still breathing despite of sickness, appreciate that you can still work despite of the lack of money, appreciate that you can still solve your problems even if it is bothering you. You have to think on the other side if you want to change your emotions. Being appreciative is enough, having this kind of mentality brings you to the side of abundance, you will see more if you are appreciative, you will get more and be more, anything is possible if you are grateful for your life.
HAPPINESS IS NOT SUSTAINABLE.
Be aware that happiness is not forever, just because you are succeeding now and you are truly happy now because good things are happening to your life doesn't mean your life will become like that forever. Be realistic, there is still a possibility that you will experience some problems along the way, it's not being negative but it's the truth about life. Emotions are revolving, it is up and down. Sometimes you are happy sometimes you are sad for whatever reason, you are just a human being and you are allowed to feel everything.
But don't ever make dramas whenever you are sad, you are only amplifying that sad emotion, don't broadcast to the public how you feel, don't look for sympathy because it's too normal. Life will not support soft and weak people, all you need to do is survive that negative emotion because it will not stay there forever, just live and you will become happy again.
NEVER THINK THAT YOU ARE SPECIAL
Don't ever think that you don't deserve any negative emotion, don't ever think that you're special and people and the universe should treat you right. Life is tough, if you're a crying diva then you will never survive this world. You are nothing, stop labeling yourself as someone who is special because you will only feel worse every time you don't get the respect or treatment that you are expecting. Life is all about survival, life is all about toughness... you survive this day and you will become happy tomorrow.
LIFE IS DIRTY
It is full of challenge, it's full of ups and downs. Someone will disrespect you, you will fail, you will be treated unfairly, something unexpected will happen... life is so unpredictable. It is dirty but it is fun, you can play with your life, you can play with dirt, you can go with the flow or create your own flow. The good thing about life is you are free to do whatever you want with it, granted that you are willing to work hard and pay the price.
Accept that life is not perfect, you will meet some people that you don't want, you will get betrayed, you will get fooled, some people will belittle you but it's ok. On the opposite of negative is positive, there will still be some people who will help you, someone will still care, someone will still be your friend, you can still become successful no matter what. Not all the time you're at the bottom and experiencing hell, you will also have a taste of heaven if you are just patient and doing the right things.
SUCCESS WILL NOT MAKE YOU HAPPY
It's ok to chase it but don't ever think that your life depends on it, don't ever think that once you become successful then you're alright and you will have no more problems. Success is nothing but an illusion, you can feel successful now, it's just a feeling, you can celebrate small success. The reason why you can't become successful in your own way is because you think that success should be compared. You're too jealous of other people's success, you think that their success is better than yours, you think you are not enough. Of course you are enough, what you have is enough. If you can just fully appreciate yourself no matter how you look or how much money you have then you're already successful. There are some people who have it all but they feel miserable, they have the money, they have the fame, they have everything but they keep on thinking that there is something missing in their lives, they can't be satisfied of what they have. If you can't appreciate the small things in your life then you will never be able to appreciate the big things that will come, you will not even see it because your mind is always seeking for something bigger and hard to get. It's ok to dream big but never let your dream be the basis of your happiness. Always remember that you can be happy now if you choose to. Even if you have zero friends or zero money.... you can still become happy if you can just appreciate something in your life, stop looking for something that is missing and simply try to smile.
So never make success a big deal, chase it but never let it define your life or legacy, never let it become the barometer of your happiness. You can become happy without success, you can become happy without the people praising you.
BEING APPRECIATIVE TAKES AWAY ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS
Just being happy that you are still alive and experiencing life is a greatest shield for loneliness. Come to think of it... all you need to live is air. You don't need a big house or a lot of friends, you don't need appreciation from other people, you don't need 1 million subscribers in you tube, you live before without those things so how come you are being lonely because you can't have some of it?
Appreciate that you are still living despite of pain, appreciate that you are still breathing despite of sickness, appreciate that you can still work despite of the lack of money, appreciate that you can still solve your problems even if it is bothering you. You have to think on the other side if you want to change your emotions. Being appreciative is enough, having this kind of mentality brings you to the side of abundance, you will see more if you are appreciative, you will get more and be more, anything is possible if you are grateful for your life.
HAPPINESS IS NOT SUSTAINABLE.
Be aware that happiness is not forever, just because you are succeeding now and you are truly happy now because good things are happening to your life doesn't mean your life will become like that forever. Be realistic, there is still a possibility that you will experience some problems along the way, it's not being negative but it's the truth about life. Emotions are revolving, it is up and down. Sometimes you are happy sometimes you are sad for whatever reason, you are just a human being and you are allowed to feel everything.
But don't ever make dramas whenever you are sad, you are only amplifying that sad emotion, don't broadcast to the public how you feel, don't look for sympathy because it's too normal. Life will not support soft and weak people, all you need to do is survive that negative emotion because it will not stay there forever, just live and you will become happy again.
NEVER THINK THAT YOU ARE SPECIAL
Don't ever think that you don't deserve any negative emotion, don't ever think that you're special and people and the universe should treat you right. Life is tough, if you're a crying diva then you will never survive this world. You are nothing, stop labeling yourself as someone who is special because you will only feel worse every time you don't get the respect or treatment that you are expecting. Life is all about survival, life is all about toughness... you survive this day and you will become happy tomorrow.
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