Dec 27, 2019

YOU NEVER KNOW IF IT'S YOUR LAST DANCE

Give your best, you never know if it's your last dance, give your all, it might be your lat opportunity. Most people think that they have a lot of chance or opportunity tomorrow or next week, they think that it's ok to give a mediocre effort now because they're on a comfortable situation right now, they never feel that it's an urgent to give their all now and that's why they're not pushing themselves to the limits. They think that fate is always on their side and they don't need to leave their comfort zone anymore. and when you're too comfy with your place and you're not exerting an effort anymore... you will go down slowly, you will never even notice it because you're addicted with comfort and you don't want to alter your psychology a little bit by facing discomfort and pain.

Just like an NBA player who thinks that he can still get another contract next season so it's ok to play mediocre now, it's ok to just chill and prevent injuries. But sometimes a lot of NBA players were not given a next contract anymore. They were completely left behind and no team is interested with them anymore. And when they realized that they have to work harder it's already too late because they already lost their momentum.

You have to take risks whenever you can because you never know if it's your last dance or not, opportunities may not come back again. A lot of random events may happen, a lot of change may happen instantly and if you're too relaxed with your situation then you better worry because it means you're not progressing or pushing yourself to get to another level. Just because you're successful now doesn't mean you're going to become successful forever. You think that success gives comfort right? no success will test you if you can sustain it or not. Success is hard to get and it's harder to maintain it. You will be tested all the time and if you're not ready for it then you're in big trouble. So always be aware if you're taking risks or not, be aware if you're pushing yourself to the limits or not because you may lose your edge very fast.

ALWAYS THINK THAT IT'S YOUR LAST

Always think that it's your last opportunity so you will never take any moment for granted, always think that there is no more next time, put pressure on yourself, make yourself uncomfortable by taking risks and working really really hard. Because you need to feel that it's urgent, you need to feel that the opportunity may not come back again. And if you don't want to live a life full of regrets... you better allow yourself to shine and forget what the outcome might be.

Always enjoy the moment, always enjoy the process and never feel lazy for a second, it's ok to become a little bit slow but never take the situation for granted and just let life pass you by without doing something magical. Always think that there is no more next chance and give your all now, give everything you've got and never feel conservative about using your energy. Never care if you run out of energy, never care if you get depleted or super exhausted... just go all out and feel what it feels to be great.

YOU ARE LOSING EVEN MORE IF YOU'RE NOT TAKING RISKS

You will lose more if you're not taking risks, you will feel so weak if you just let an opportunity pass by knowing that you can make it better or you can succeed by pushing yourself a little bit more. You have to take risks win or lose because if not then you will always think about it in the end, you will feel so sorry for yourself by not going further. So take risks and don't be afraid to fail, fail a lot of times, the best time to fail is now so you can learn a lot of lesson, stop playing safe because it will never give you what you want, you don't need to seek for approval... just do what you think is right.

So if you don't want to become a loser in life... take risks, forget about the pain of failing, you will feel pain even more if you just watch life pas you by without doing anything, make a move, pull the trigger... stop waiting and keep moving forward.

Go all the way, use everything you have. And even if you feel weak already, still keep moving forward and use every ounce of energy you have. There is something you can do, you can still think positive and take small actions.

DECIDE FAST, MOVE FAST

Decide now and never let you remind think never let yourself worry, just do something, move and show them what you've got. Decide now that you are going to take chances no matter what the outcome maybe, it doesn't matter how hard you fall, what matters is you stand up again and you're doing the right thing again. Don't be afraid to try over and over until you succeed, don't be afraid to try a million times. Because you will lose an opportunity if you're not moving fast. Moving fast is simply doing it, you don't need to become lightning quick here, just do it and never stop... that's it. Always stay focused and committed, move as fast as you can and never stop until you're done.

DON'T GET TOO EMOTIONAL HERE

Never let your emotions control you, stop dwelling too much with your emotions, stop making it a big deal. You may win, you may lose, you may feel bad, you may get rejected or disappointed but don't ever feel depressed, don't ever feel like a loser, try again and allow yourself to win. It can be a very painful and hard process but it will be easier if you don't let your emotions sink in, never get fooled by your emotions that are telling you to just give up, emotions were fake, it is never real. 

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