Stop thinking about looking cute or perfect, stop staying on the middle, if you wanted to win then you need to destroy your identity, stop trying to perfect the self image that you are dreaming of. There is no way you can become perfect, and even if you are... people will still criticize you and stay bad things to you. You will still hear negative comments. You will never look perfect... ever, if you want to become happy in your life... take matters into your own hands and forget what other people might say, do what you think is best for your life, take risks, and even if the whole world hates you... at least you try being a star in your own rules. Because even if you feel perfect, even if you do something great... people will still say something against you, you don't have choice but to be yourself if you want to win. Free yourself by doing the things you want, follow your instincts, never let the comments of other people affect your decision.
FORGET WHO YOU ARE
The reality is you are nothing, even if you already became successful... you are still nothing, if you always think that you have a big name then you will never take risks anymore, you will always play safe and take the easier path, and that kind of mentality will lead to failing. You have to keep taking risks, you have to destroy your name. If you always think that you have a name to protect then you will become conservative, you will never go the extra mile anymore, you will never accept big challenges anymore... it's because you're already afraid to fail big time. So if you wanted to feel free, if you want to feel loose and express yourself again... forget who you are, that is the path to freedom.
THERE IS NO ROOM FOR PERFECTION
Stop looking for perfection and focus on taking action... that's it. If you're always caring about your identity then you will never succeed, it's because you are focusing on what other people are saying, you're not focusing on what you really want. Because you will become stuck on the same place if you're always looking for perfection, nothing good will happen to you, you will never make any kind of small progress, you will become stuck in a mud, do you want that? so if you want to win you have to DESTROY YOUR IDENTITY. Stop trying to look cool, stop trying to stay perfect all the time, stop trying to look cute because that will never get the job done, the only thing that will get the job done is by trying and looking like a fool out there, it's ok if you look stupid, it's ok if you look bad... just try and destroy your identity, be rugged, be rough, get your hands dirty. You really want it right? so you have to forget what people say and never mind if they appreciate you or not, just go all out, go all the way. Perfectionist people never get any job done, they don't want to risk at all, they don't want to start, they were afraid of failing that's why they don't even try.
SO if you're this type of guy who always wanted to look perfect then you will never achieve anything... ever, it's because you're so afraid to mess things up, you're so afraid to make mistakes that's why you can't even pull the trigger. Success is all about making mistakes, it's all about failing over and over again and learning how to stand up again. You will never win if you never lose, you have to endure the pain of losing and learn how to learn something from it.
You don't need a perfect start you also don't need a perfect finish, all you need is to give your best and give everything you've got every time you are facing a challenge.
ALWAYS FACE THE PAIN NO MATTER WHAT
It's going to be hard, that is the reality, if you're trying to win then it's really going to get hard, face the pain no matter what. Face the pain of failing, face the pain of exerting too much effort. Face it, just face it... no matter what happens you need to rely on your hard work, rely on everything that you can do. Because you can always do something, you're just afraid to start because you don't want to fail, you don't want to feel the pain. This is a process, this is not a destination, you have to face the pain of working hard or else you will face a more painful emotion later and that is called... regrets. If you don't want to have any regrets in your life then face the pain now, do something now and never take your chances for granted. Pain will give you growth so don't be afraid of it, it will give you an experience that has a lot of lesson, it will give you power and tenacity... face it and you will become a better man.
Forget yourself forget your emotions and just do the process... that is how winning is done , you become mentally tougher every time you face the pain so don't be afraid of it. Pain is just a feeling, it can never kill you, it can only make you grow if you realize that it is part of the process and there is no way you can't fee it if you want to grow. Nobody is immune from pain, everyone will experience, so experience it now and try to grow from it, endure it and see what can it make you.
FORGET YOUR MISTAKES
Forget the mistakes that you did in the past because it will only destroy your confidence. Focus only on the good things that you did, focus on the progress. Your mistakes were normal, it's not a big deal so forget about it and just move forward. Your mistakes were part of the game, it is all part of the design, don't dwell on it too much because it is only making you learn something, move on and do the next step right away. What is done is done, you can never change the past anymore, it can only give pain to you if you're always thinking about it. Forget about it because you are making your confidence level go down every time you think about it. Everybody makes mistakes, nobody is perfect in this world, even the riches man in the world is not perfect so why make it a big deal?
DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME
Forget about what may happen, forget about what may they say, detach from the outcome and always go further. Because if you're always thinking about the results then you will become conservative, you will never be able to give your very best. Focus on taking actions and just give your best win or lose. Because at the end of the day... winning or losing is never an issue, the only issue is... did you give your all?, did you allow yourself to use all of your strength? The outcome is just a bonus, it is never really an issue, you have to go all out and give everything you've got.
FORGET WHO YOU ARE
The reality is you are nothing, even if you already became successful... you are still nothing, if you always think that you have a big name then you will never take risks anymore, you will always play safe and take the easier path, and that kind of mentality will lead to failing. You have to keep taking risks, you have to destroy your name. If you always think that you have a name to protect then you will become conservative, you will never go the extra mile anymore, you will never accept big challenges anymore... it's because you're already afraid to fail big time. So if you wanted to feel free, if you want to feel loose and express yourself again... forget who you are, that is the path to freedom.
THERE IS NO ROOM FOR PERFECTION
Stop looking for perfection and focus on taking action... that's it. If you're always caring about your identity then you will never succeed, it's because you are focusing on what other people are saying, you're not focusing on what you really want. Because you will become stuck on the same place if you're always looking for perfection, nothing good will happen to you, you will never make any kind of small progress, you will become stuck in a mud, do you want that? so if you want to win you have to DESTROY YOUR IDENTITY. Stop trying to look cool, stop trying to stay perfect all the time, stop trying to look cute because that will never get the job done, the only thing that will get the job done is by trying and looking like a fool out there, it's ok if you look stupid, it's ok if you look bad... just try and destroy your identity, be rugged, be rough, get your hands dirty. You really want it right? so you have to forget what people say and never mind if they appreciate you or not, just go all out, go all the way. Perfectionist people never get any job done, they don't want to risk at all, they don't want to start, they were afraid of failing that's why they don't even try.
SO if you're this type of guy who always wanted to look perfect then you will never achieve anything... ever, it's because you're so afraid to mess things up, you're so afraid to make mistakes that's why you can't even pull the trigger. Success is all about making mistakes, it's all about failing over and over again and learning how to stand up again. You will never win if you never lose, you have to endure the pain of losing and learn how to learn something from it.
You don't need a perfect start you also don't need a perfect finish, all you need is to give your best and give everything you've got every time you are facing a challenge.
ALWAYS FACE THE PAIN NO MATTER WHAT
It's going to be hard, that is the reality, if you're trying to win then it's really going to get hard, face the pain no matter what. Face the pain of failing, face the pain of exerting too much effort. Face it, just face it... no matter what happens you need to rely on your hard work, rely on everything that you can do. Because you can always do something, you're just afraid to start because you don't want to fail, you don't want to feel the pain. This is a process, this is not a destination, you have to face the pain of working hard or else you will face a more painful emotion later and that is called... regrets. If you don't want to have any regrets in your life then face the pain now, do something now and never take your chances for granted. Pain will give you growth so don't be afraid of it, it will give you an experience that has a lot of lesson, it will give you power and tenacity... face it and you will become a better man.
Forget yourself forget your emotions and just do the process... that is how winning is done , you become mentally tougher every time you face the pain so don't be afraid of it. Pain is just a feeling, it can never kill you, it can only make you grow if you realize that it is part of the process and there is no way you can't fee it if you want to grow. Nobody is immune from pain, everyone will experience, so experience it now and try to grow from it, endure it and see what can it make you.
FORGET YOUR MISTAKES
Forget the mistakes that you did in the past because it will only destroy your confidence. Focus only on the good things that you did, focus on the progress. Your mistakes were normal, it's not a big deal so forget about it and just move forward. Your mistakes were part of the game, it is all part of the design, don't dwell on it too much because it is only making you learn something, move on and do the next step right away. What is done is done, you can never change the past anymore, it can only give pain to you if you're always thinking about it. Forget about it because you are making your confidence level go down every time you think about it. Everybody makes mistakes, nobody is perfect in this world, even the riches man in the world is not perfect so why make it a big deal?
DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME
Forget about what may happen, forget about what may they say, detach from the outcome and always go further. Because if you're always thinking about the results then you will become conservative, you will never be able to give your very best. Focus on taking actions and just give your best win or lose. Because at the end of the day... winning or losing is never an issue, the only issue is... did you give your all?, did you allow yourself to use all of your strength? The outcome is just a bonus, it is never really an issue, you have to go all out and give everything you've got.
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