Dec 29, 2019

THE MAGIC OF NOT THINKING BIG

They say think big so that you can become successful, they say dream big and let your imaginations play inside of your head. They say always think big so that you will become successful but most of the time that quote never work for other people, most of the time people will just think big and not do anything at all. Sometimes thinking big only happens in the beginning but it ends so fast and the journey of a particular person end so fast and he feels like a failure forever.

I SAY STOP THINKING BIG.

Stop thinking that your opponent is big... just fight him, stay competitive and always give your 100 percent. Stop thinking that your dream is too impossible and big, stop thinking that you don't deserve it... conquer it and chase it, never stop. Don't think that the price of what you are trying to buy is too big and you can't afford it, of course you will be able to find a way to raise some big money, all it takes is the willingness to work hard and look for it. Never entertain a thought that will overwhelm you. Never underestimate yourself because every time you do that... you're only making matters worse, you're not progressing by doing that. Stop thinking that you're not good, always think that the challenge in front of you is beatable and there is always something you can do about it.

Just like a student who's doing a thesis. He should not think that the task is to much and it will take a lot of time, he should focus on what he can do and go further and further each day. If he will just start something and enjoy every little steps that he can do then it will become easier for him to finish the task. It's all about conditioning the mind, if you can trick your mind that the task is easy then you will take actions, but if you will believe that it's hard then you will get overwhelmed easily and will never take actions anymore. So don't respect your challenges too much and just do it, never think that it's hard, never think that you need a lot of time and effort to accomplish it. Forget time and just do it.

PERSEVERANCE IS THE BIGGEST KEY 

You have to persevere and keep moving forward even if you feel like you're about to give up in a second. Perseverance is the key here and nothing else. It doesn't matter what you have, what matters is you will persevere until you finish something. Don't be afraid of going hard all the time and not getting anything, don't afraid to exhaust yourself and push yourself to the limits. Take it one step at a time and never be afraid of looking like a loser. You maybe slow, you may not get anything but if you will force fate and take matters into your own hands then you will become free, you will thrive in the end.  So keep going no matter what, keep going even if you feel that it is impossible to win. Always remember that every suffering has an ending, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

STOP THINKING ABOUT THE PRICE

If you want to buy something let's say a house or a car or just a simple fancy shoe... never think about the big price of those items. Never think big, never get overwhelmed that you can't buy those things. you have to stop thinking about the price and start thinking about your effort. Ask yourself, are you doing whatever it takes to succeed? are you going all out and giving full maximum effort? it doesn't really matter if the price is big or small, what matters is are you taking actions to make your dreams come true? are you willing to go the extra mile and face greater amount of pain? the process is hard, it is given, but what are you going to do about it? are you just going to watch and waste time? you have a choice, you can procrastinate all day long or at least give yourself a chance to succeed by working extra hard and taking it one day at a time. The key here is to forget that it's too difficult and keep moving forward, never mind if you need a lot of strong effort and time to make it... just do it.

FACE THE INCONVENIENCE NOW

I know it's hard to take the first step, I know it feels so heavy and uncomfortable to start something especially if the task is so big that it overwhelms you to death. But you have to keep in mind that the more you delay something the bigger the problem will be. Time will come and you will be running out of time, there will be complications, there will be changes that you must do but you can't do it anymore because you don't have enough breathing room. So you have to face the difficulty now, face the challenge now and never think that it's too big to finish. You can accomplish anything if you are focused and determined. Never mind your feelings, forget your emotions, forget about feeling good and just do what you need to do . You will feel even better if you're already taking actions and building some momentum to succeed. Embrace the pain now because if not then you will be dealing with a more frightening fear later, you will be dealing with a more complex problem. So if you can do one positive small step now then do it, what are you waiting for? stop waiting for the right time and pull the trigger now. Be fast in starting, be strong in finishing. Nothing is big if you will think that you can do it, always think positive and believe in yourself, believe in the power of taking one small step at a time. You can do it if you really want it, the question is how bad do you want it? what level of sacrifices can you offer to make your dreams come true?

Thinking that the challenge is not big is not being arrogant, it's imply conditioning your mind that it's possible and will always be possible if you act now and stop wasting time. Focus is a very powerful thing, one small action can make a huge difference, what more if you are consistent and showing up everyday. Just do it, just aim for it, just finish it. No matter how big the problem or the challenge is... you can thrive if you will just try. 

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