Willpower is everything, if you have enough willpower then you can accomplish anything and become big as you wishes to be. But the problem why you are failing too much is not your lack of skills, it's your lack of focus and dedication. You are using your energy to a lot of different things and that depletes you so fast. Your energy goes everywhere, you are using it for nonsense things and useless activities that's why you're always tired. And when you need to do the mos important task... you don't have enough energy anymore. Being productive and useful means using your energy and time very well. You are smart in terms of using your energy. You just don't do something because it's fun, you don't entertain negative thoughts because it sucks your energy so fast.
Take care of your energy, use it only for things and activities that will make your life better. If a thought or action is not useful at all... throw it away. Be mindful where your energy goes, always be aware if something is making you weak. Because the truth is you don't know that something is making you weak and slow, you just go with it because it is easy and fun, it is comfortable and entertaining. Activities like gossips, eating unhealthy food, watching too much TV, hating, procrastinating... these activities were all useless but fun, but in the end it is only making you weak and sick, these activities were not helpful at all.
BEING BITTER CAN DRAIN ALL OF YOUR ENERGY
If you're a negative person, if you're always jealous of something, if you're a hater then you will never succeed, it's because your energy is not being use the right way, you are using it for other people and not for yourself, you are throwing away your energy by thinking about other people. Thinking about your enemy or the person you hate is tiring right? being bitter will only make you weak, it's because a negative thinking will only produce negative energy. You're already tired before you even start every time you are hating someone or being bitter about something.
So if you want to have more energy and willpower... stop being bitter, start appreciating and feeling the joy around you. Bitterness, anger, jealousy and hate will make you lose your focus towards your goals. You will become tired faster, you can never propel forward by doing that.
Stop backstabbing other people, stop getting jealous with other people's success, just be appreciative of what you have and always be thankful of what is happening in your life... that is the key to have more energy. Focusing on other people's lives will only make you weak and unproductive because doing that will avoid you from taking actions that are necessary to become successful.
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR A LONG TERM
What you want is success, but success is harder to get than what is in front of you. What is in front of you is easily available to grab, you can get it fast, you can have it now, it's full of entertainment and fun but it will never feed you in the future, it will never give you a good life. It's an instant gratification but all of the things that are fast to get has no benefits at all.
What you want is to become rich, the house, the success but these things will require a lot of time and effort, it requires a lot of focus but it is all worth it. All you have to do is focus, grind, never let yourself do a lot of things that are unnecessary.
Think about what you want, think about it everyday and everything you do should be related to it, everything you do should be a step towards getting it. Success will become elusive to get if you energy goes everywhere, it should be focus on one thing so that you can get it fast and you will be able to build a very powerful momentum that cannot be stopped by anything. Never let your energy go to useless people like thinking about your enemies, getting mad at other people's doings, focusing on another goal, helping your friend even though he doesn't need it too much, partying without any occasion etc. A scattered energy will never accomplish anything, it will only make you suffer. It's like you know what you want but you are doing the other things that are only making your process of becoming successful slower and harder.
Never let someone take your energy and time so easily, be mindful where your energy goes, be aware if you're wasting your energy to different things that will not even help you at all. Because you will become tired so fast if you're thinking too much and doing too much, you need to only think about the life you wanted to create and engage in activities that will help you build the life that you want. At first it is hard to focus on one thing but if you can just discipline yourself to stay disciplined for 10 straight days then you will be able to build a habit that will give you success.
Because sometimes you know what you want but you easily forgot it, you're not following through. You need to embody it into your life. Make it as a part of your culture.
DISCIPLINE IS EVERYTHING
Get strict with yourself, punish yourself, you need to do what is needed and stop doing what is fun. It's easy to have fun now, everyone can have fun but not everyone can sacrifice and do what is best for his life. So stop fooling yourself that you can become successful by distributing your energy to everything, stop dreaming that everything will be fine even though you're not focused and not working hard. Adapt discipline into your life and you will see the magic happen, change will happen, the big transformation into your life will finally be seen. So never waste your energy for nothing, never let it scattered anywhere, do what is best, think what you really want and focus all of your energy into it.
Always watch yourself if you're doing something stupid or not. Admit that you're destroying your own life, admit that you're not giving your best and that's why you keep on failing. Discipline yourself now, do what is needed and never believe in the word "later" or "tomorrow". Just do it now, the power is in the now, greatness is in the now, if you can just start fast and never stop until it's done then you will become one of the greatest ever.
DEFINE WHAT IS IMPORTANT NOW
You need to get rid of what is useless in your life. You need to throw away all the thoughts, actions, habits that are making you suffer and slow. Define what is important now and focus on it. Never focus on what you don't want. Never focus on something that has no benefits at all. Sometimes you already knew what will work but you are not working on it, you still focus on the garbage activities and things that are making your life miserable and not progressing. If you really want to grow, evolve and succeed then you need to prioritize what is really important in your life and focus on it.
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