The road to greatness is not that easy but it is possible, it is hard but it can be fun if you will take it step by step and never rush the process. Sometimes it's a lonely road but it's up to you how are you going to see it as something fun.
There will be a lot of challenges, there will be a lot of pain, you will even cry sometimes because you think that you can't do it anymore but you will keep on fighting and keep climbing that top of mountain.
Sometimes you would love to quit because you think that nothing good is happening, but never be deceived by those small challenges. Because if you really want it then you will get it, for as long as your vision is clear... you will be able to create small momentum every now and then.
Not all people would love to take this road, this road to greatness is for the few. If you're not willing to face all the stress and the pain then you don't have the right to talk about this road to greatness.
If you really want to become great then you must be willing to suffer, you must be willing to take the pressure because it's not going to be easy. There will be heartaches, there will be emotional breakdown but if you can ignore those things and keep working then you will thrive in the end.
It's very simple, just work as hard as you can, never believe in shortcuts, never believe that there is an easy way. It will only be easy if you will enjoy it and have fun doing the process day in and day out.
It's a lonely road, you will have lesser time for your friends and family. Look at the poor people... they love people too, they can be seen anywhere, they were too common, you can see them at the mall, you can see them on the streets, you can see them at grocery stores... they have a lot of time for different activities that has no benefits in the end.
But if you're really serious about becoming great then you will have lesser time for things that are not related to your goal. This road of greatness is lonely but if you can feed your beliefs that it will happen then it is worth it, it will become fun, even if you're alone and nobody understand you... you will still thrive in the end, you will become a king one day.
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Apr 30, 2018
I'M A BIG FAN OF MEDIOCRITY
Everybody talks about greatness but they didn't even know what it is all about. They were too quick to judge mediocre things but they can't even pursue greatness.
I hate to say this but I've been a fan of mediocrity for how many years, I've been doing mediocre articles, mediocre graphics, mediocre effort... mediocre everything. But I've been doing it for years, almost a decade. This mediocre living is almost making me great. I've been doing mediocre activities consistently so the result is... I'm almost there, I'm almost great.
The moral lesson is... it's ok to become mediocre for as long as you're doing it everyday. You will become great one day, years and years of work will make you something special. Even if you'r just mediocre in the beginning or something that is worse than that.... if you keep on doing it everyday then you will become great one day.
Stop talking about greatness if you're not willing to look mediocre in the beginning, a lot of people talks about greatness, they were acting like they were already great but they can't even make consistent efforts every year. They will talk about greatness for a week, will pretend that they are working hard and then.... they will quit once they get overwhelmed of the difficult challenges in front of them.
I'm a fan of mediocrity and I will never be ashamed of it. But what makes me different from any other "GREAT GURUS" is I am real, I can admit that I am not great but I am making small results every now and then and I am very happy about that. I stay with the journey and I don't have any plans of quitting.
I'm a consistent mediocre worker and I keep on getting results, my net worth is getting higher, my numbers are getting bigger, my knowledge is getting deeper.... now tell me if that is mediocre, wouldn't you want to have it?
It's better to become a consistent mediocre than to be a great wannabe that will only work occasionally.
I never care about mistakes, I will just do it, I never care about perfection all I want is production... as simple as that. I feel that I am successful because I keep on growing everyday, this life is not all about pure talk... you can see the numbers, I can write thousand of articles every year. I am for real, I am not a joke, I will keep this train running until I die, now tell me... is that something ordinary?
I hate to say this but I've been a fan of mediocrity for how many years, I've been doing mediocre articles, mediocre graphics, mediocre effort... mediocre everything. But I've been doing it for years, almost a decade. This mediocre living is almost making me great. I've been doing mediocre activities consistently so the result is... I'm almost there, I'm almost great.
The moral lesson is... it's ok to become mediocre for as long as you're doing it everyday. You will become great one day, years and years of work will make you something special. Even if you'r just mediocre in the beginning or something that is worse than that.... if you keep on doing it everyday then you will become great one day.
Stop talking about greatness if you're not willing to look mediocre in the beginning, a lot of people talks about greatness, they were acting like they were already great but they can't even make consistent efforts every year. They will talk about greatness for a week, will pretend that they are working hard and then.... they will quit once they get overwhelmed of the difficult challenges in front of them.
I'm a fan of mediocrity and I will never be ashamed of it. But what makes me different from any other "GREAT GURUS" is I am real, I can admit that I am not great but I am making small results every now and then and I am very happy about that. I stay with the journey and I don't have any plans of quitting.
I'm a consistent mediocre worker and I keep on getting results, my net worth is getting higher, my numbers are getting bigger, my knowledge is getting deeper.... now tell me if that is mediocre, wouldn't you want to have it?
It's better to become a consistent mediocre than to be a great wannabe that will only work occasionally.
I never care about mistakes, I will just do it, I never care about perfection all I want is production... as simple as that. I feel that I am successful because I keep on growing everyday, this life is not all about pure talk... you can see the numbers, I can write thousand of articles every year. I am for real, I am not a joke, I will keep this train running until I die, now tell me... is that something ordinary?
8 TRUE SIGNS THAT YOU'RE NOT IN THE MOMENT
Being in the moment is one of the best state that you can have, if you're in the moment then you will be able to make proper decisions that will give you a better life, you will be aware of what is going on with your life. Being in the moment will make you be in control, if you are being pressure... you know that you will be alight, you know that you just have to feel it and everything will become fine again... as simple as that.
1. You want to make a comeback right away. If you failed, if you're behind... you want to make a comeback right away, you want to make revenge. You let your emotions get the best of you. You don't know that you need to take it step by step, you can't just make a come back every time you want to, you need to be patient and study the movement of the situation. You don't need to rush, life is not a rush... it's a movement, study the pattern, study what is going on and try to minimize the risk. Always put yourself on a better position to win.
2. You're always thinking about the outcome. The more you think about the outcome... the more it will not come, be patient and work your way going up. Never think about the outcome because that will make you worried even more, that will destroy your confidence. Focus on the actions, focus on what is going on around you, just give your best and never think about anything else.
3. You are looking to end the pain. If it's painful then just endure it, pain is not there to stay forever, it will be gone in a while. If you're looking to end the pain right away then you're not living in the moment, every time you do that... the pain will grow stronger, it will become more painful, it will subside if you endure it and stop crying about it.
4. You are looking for a miracle. Stop looking for a miracle, if it's suppose to happen then it will happen, looking for a miracle. Looking for a miracle will only make you believe that your situation is ugly that you need to escape it. Believe in miracles but never look for it and wish for it so bad because every time you do that you are forgetting all of the things that you can do to make your situation better.
5. You are wishing for an easy way out. You are looking to quit, you don't want to stick with the process. You're already thinking about resting or feeling good, you don't want to feel the pressure anymore. Looking for another feelings or wishing for another emotion that is lighter means you're not in the moment. If you're always looking to feel good then you will even feel worse.
6. You are worrying and you don't know that you're doing it. You just do something even if you don't know anything about it, you're panicking, you're not guessing. You don't know the details, you're rushing too much and your mind can't think right. You don't even know that you're doing something that is stupid. If you will be in the moment then at least you will minimize mistakes, you will stop something if you feel that it's not worth doing it.
7. You are scared of missing something. You always think about the things that you're missing, you always ask other people what did you miss, you're so scared that if you miss something then you will be in trouble. And even if you already knew that it's not a big deal, you will still ask a multiple times of what did you miss.
8. You're so afraid to make mistakes. You're a perfectionist, you always want to be in control, you are thinking about what might happen next. You're anticipating mistakes even if you don't want it. You're not attentive but you're a control freak.
1. You want to make a comeback right away. If you failed, if you're behind... you want to make a comeback right away, you want to make revenge. You let your emotions get the best of you. You don't know that you need to take it step by step, you can't just make a come back every time you want to, you need to be patient and study the movement of the situation. You don't need to rush, life is not a rush... it's a movement, study the pattern, study what is going on and try to minimize the risk. Always put yourself on a better position to win.
2. You're always thinking about the outcome. The more you think about the outcome... the more it will not come, be patient and work your way going up. Never think about the outcome because that will make you worried even more, that will destroy your confidence. Focus on the actions, focus on what is going on around you, just give your best and never think about anything else.
3. You are looking to end the pain. If it's painful then just endure it, pain is not there to stay forever, it will be gone in a while. If you're looking to end the pain right away then you're not living in the moment, every time you do that... the pain will grow stronger, it will become more painful, it will subside if you endure it and stop crying about it.
4. You are looking for a miracle. Stop looking for a miracle, if it's suppose to happen then it will happen, looking for a miracle. Looking for a miracle will only make you believe that your situation is ugly that you need to escape it. Believe in miracles but never look for it and wish for it so bad because every time you do that you are forgetting all of the things that you can do to make your situation better.
5. You are wishing for an easy way out. You are looking to quit, you don't want to stick with the process. You're already thinking about resting or feeling good, you don't want to feel the pressure anymore. Looking for another feelings or wishing for another emotion that is lighter means you're not in the moment. If you're always looking to feel good then you will even feel worse.
6. You are worrying and you don't know that you're doing it. You just do something even if you don't know anything about it, you're panicking, you're not guessing. You don't know the details, you're rushing too much and your mind can't think right. You don't even know that you're doing something that is stupid. If you will be in the moment then at least you will minimize mistakes, you will stop something if you feel that it's not worth doing it.
7. You are scared of missing something. You always think about the things that you're missing, you always ask other people what did you miss, you're so scared that if you miss something then you will be in trouble. And even if you already knew that it's not a big deal, you will still ask a multiple times of what did you miss.
8. You're so afraid to make mistakes. You're a perfectionist, you always want to be in control, you are thinking about what might happen next. You're anticipating mistakes even if you don't want it. You're not attentive but you're a control freak.
THERE IS NOTHING MISSING IN YOUR LIFE... EVER
There is nothing missing in your life, you don't need anything... ever. What you don't have... you don't need it, what you don't need... you don't have it. There is nothing missing in your life if you will think deeply. What is missing? what do you need to live? you can still live even if you don't have a lot. All you need is your life, you can enjoy your life even if you don't have expensive things or a lot of money.
People get depressed because they think that there are lot of missing with their lives, they think that they should have this or that before they become happy.
You can have what you want if you will not cry or whine about it, just work for it and it will come to you. Just make sure your focus to get it is superb and one of a kind.
You have a big chance to get what you want if you will always think positive, just feel free and light, and even if you can't have them all... just be happy, just give it a try, be happy that you pursue it but don't feel sad if you can't have it because it is not part of your life from the very start. What is not part of your life... you should not feel bad about it if you can't have it.
People get depressed because they think that there are lot of missing with their lives, they think that they should have this or that before they become happy.
You can have what you want if you will not cry or whine about it, just work for it and it will come to you. Just make sure your focus to get it is superb and one of a kind.
You have a big chance to get what you want if you will always think positive, just feel free and light, and even if you can't have them all... just be happy, just give it a try, be happy that you pursue it but don't feel sad if you can't have it because it is not part of your life from the very start. What is not part of your life... you should not feel bad about it if you can't have it.
Apr 29, 2018
WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU QUIT?
People loves to quit because it's the easiest thing to do, they think that they must do it because they think that it's already over. Or maybe they were just born quitters and they don't want to push themselves anymore, maybe they can't take the pain and the hustle anymore that's why they quit. They think that they can start their lives again and next will be an easier path, that's what they think, they don't know that quitting has a lot of consequences and most of them are bad.
1. PEOPLE WILL CALL YOU COWARD. Because it is the truth, people who are quitting are cowards, they don't want to go down the wire, they were so scared to try until the end. If you don't want to be called as coward then never quit and fight until the end... that's what it is all about.
2. YOUR CONFIDENCE WILL GO DOWN. Your confidence will go down, it's because every time you feel that the task is hard... you will never try it, you will never use all of your abilities, you are starting to lose faith in yourself. The more you quit... the more you lose the belief to push because you think you always have the option to quit. It's programmed in your mind that it's ok to quit an you did it a lot of times before so it's not a big deal to quit again.
3. YOU WILL START AGAIN. Once you quit then you will start again, you go back to zero, you will go the the beginner's stage again. You will walk another journey that you think is easier but it's all in your mind, you think it's easy in the beginning but you will have a hard time again in the end, because you're just repeating the cycle of your life, once you're a quitter then you're forever a quitter.
4. YOUR WORK ETHIC WILL BECOME WEAK. You easily get mad and lose temptation with tasks that are not so difficult, your mental toughness is weakening bit by bit. You're becoming soft, you're making a lot of excuses every now and then.
5. YOU'RE A LOSER. Once you quit you're already a loser, as simple as that. You already lost because you will never try again anymore, you already decided to quit to that's considered a loss, a waste of time. The most dangerous thing about it is you will repeat it again and again, it will become your habit, you will become a quitter forever.
1. PEOPLE WILL CALL YOU COWARD. Because it is the truth, people who are quitting are cowards, they don't want to go down the wire, they were so scared to try until the end. If you don't want to be called as coward then never quit and fight until the end... that's what it is all about.
2. YOUR CONFIDENCE WILL GO DOWN. Your confidence will go down, it's because every time you feel that the task is hard... you will never try it, you will never use all of your abilities, you are starting to lose faith in yourself. The more you quit... the more you lose the belief to push because you think you always have the option to quit. It's programmed in your mind that it's ok to quit an you did it a lot of times before so it's not a big deal to quit again.
3. YOU WILL START AGAIN. Once you quit then you will start again, you go back to zero, you will go the the beginner's stage again. You will walk another journey that you think is easier but it's all in your mind, you think it's easy in the beginning but you will have a hard time again in the end, because you're just repeating the cycle of your life, once you're a quitter then you're forever a quitter.
4. YOUR WORK ETHIC WILL BECOME WEAK. You easily get mad and lose temptation with tasks that are not so difficult, your mental toughness is weakening bit by bit. You're becoming soft, you're making a lot of excuses every now and then.
5. YOU'RE A LOSER. Once you quit you're already a loser, as simple as that. You already lost because you will never try again anymore, you already decided to quit to that's considered a loss, a waste of time. The most dangerous thing about it is you will repeat it again and again, it will become your habit, you will become a quitter forever.
NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF HUNGER
If you're hungry you can do anything, you will do desperate moves that you think will work, you are dangerous, you are aggressive... you will do whatever it takes just to get what you want.
You don't care anymore if you succeed or not, you will just do what you think will work. You're like in a different dimension, you're acting weird, you don't care about the rules anymore.
A lot of people who became champions and successful were so hungry before, they don't care about time, they don't care about fatigue... they just wanted to win and become victorious.
If you're hungry your ego will die, the resistance will become weak, it feels like nothing can stop you. You don't care if the task in front of you is too hard, you will just do it no matter what.
You will turn into a different animal if you're hungry, you will be on a sense of urgency. You will become faster, stronger and more alert.
Don't feel bad if you're not winning now, for as long as you're hungry... you're still in the game, it's just a matter of time before you win.
So keep being hungry so you can achieve the impossible. And even if you're already winning.. keep being hungry. A lot of successful people failed again because they're not hungry anymore.
You don't care anymore if you succeed or not, you will just do what you think will work. You're like in a different dimension, you're acting weird, you don't care about the rules anymore.
A lot of people who became champions and successful were so hungry before, they don't care about time, they don't care about fatigue... they just wanted to win and become victorious.
If you're hungry your ego will die, the resistance will become weak, it feels like nothing can stop you. You don't care if the task in front of you is too hard, you will just do it no matter what.
You will turn into a different animal if you're hungry, you will be on a sense of urgency. You will become faster, stronger and more alert.
Don't feel bad if you're not winning now, for as long as you're hungry... you're still in the game, it's just a matter of time before you win.
So keep being hungry so you can achieve the impossible. And even if you're already winning.. keep being hungry. A lot of successful people failed again because they're not hungry anymore.
7 REASONS WHY YOU ARE GETTING PRESSURED
No matter how good you are or how big you become... the pressure will always be there, it will never leave you. Even if you become successful and experience, the pressure will still make you feel that you're not invincible.
Pressure is there to make you grow so don't be afraid of it, don't be afraid to feel it... learn to embrace it and manipulate it. It will help you if you will perceive it as something that is healthy and beneficial. Pressure is your friend, it's not your enemy. It will put you on a sense of urgency, it will force you to move.
It can kill you or break you but you are the chooser of how you want it to strike you.
WHY ARE YOU GETTING PRESSURED?
1. You can't detached yourself from expectations. You think that you need to become perfect, you don't want to make mistakes, you're expecting too much, you're expecting perfection and easy path. You feel that a simple mistake is making you look stupid, you always think about the outcome, you are not enjoying the journey anymore.
2. You think you have a big name. There is an illusion that you have a name to protect, you care too much about your identity that's why you can't move and take risks. You are frozen because you don't want to commit any mistakes that will make people judge you as weak or incapable of dong something great. Never think that you're special, you're just an ordinary human being allowed to make mistakes, don't ever think that you have a name to take care of. Destroy your identity and set yourself free.
3. You want it so bad. You want it so bad that you already forgotten that it will never be yours forever. Once you have it... you will never be able to hold it forever, you only borrowed it. Once you die... it will never be yours anymore. It's ok to want it so bad but don't ever feel bad if you can't get it, don't ever feel that your world revolves around it.
4. You are thinking about other people. A performer will never perform well if he always think about the crowd and not focusing on what he is doing, he wants to please the crowd and if he can't see good reactions from the crowd... he cannot perform at this best, he is starting to sweat, he is not feeling the performance anymore, he is not in the moment.
5. You are playing not to lose. You are not pushing yourself because you don't want to lose, you are not taking risks anymore, you are playing safe... that adds more pressure to you because you see yourself losing but you still stick with your game plan... to play safe and not push. You will become more pressured if you will not give your best and push until the end. Pressure will eat you slowly little by little.
6. You are not patient. You want it right away, you don't want to undergo the process. If you can't see significant results... you feel the pressure even more. You need to take your time and feel what is going on... be patient, don't rush things because winning is about doing the right things on the right time and right pace.
7. You don't have a game plan. You just do it without preparing or having a strategy... you don't have a game plan to follow when everything is falling apart. Your mind turns into auto pilot and cannot make good decisions anymore because of the pressure. If you have a game plan then you will have a direction, you will follow something that will lessen the pressure.
THERE'S ANOTHER IDEA BEHIND THAT IDEA
Once you produced an idea... don't ever think that it will just end there. It's a simple idea that will grow if you will take it seriously. There will be some amendments, tweaking and adjustments. You will add something into it, it's small for now but a lot of newly for ideas that is related with it will come.
Just like a cellphone, at first the cellphones were invented for just texting and calling but now it can play music and capture some photos and videos.
So if your idea is so small for now.. don't worry, it will become big in the future, it will push itself to become bigger and bigger.
Don't ever underestimate your idea even if it is small, it will become big if you're serious about it and you want to make it successful.
So keep on growing your idea everyday, think about different things on how to improve it. It will not end just there, it has a lot of room for improvement, you can make it big as much as you can, all you have to do is believe in yourself and work hard as much as you can.
An idea's growth is unlimited, it will grow forever if the owner of it is willing to push himself to the limits and do whatever it takes to make it successful.
Never be ashamed of your idea, even if it is funny... if you're serious about it then one day it will become successful, all you need is time and tenacity. Be super serious about it and never let it die. If you're not doing something about it everyday then it will die, it will be wasted for nothing. You have to be super serious about it, you have to give your life for it and do your very best to make it bigger and bigger.
Just like a cellphone, at first the cellphones were invented for just texting and calling but now it can play music and capture some photos and videos.
So if your idea is so small for now.. don't worry, it will become big in the future, it will push itself to become bigger and bigger.
Don't ever underestimate your idea even if it is small, it will become big if you're serious about it and you want to make it successful.
So keep on growing your idea everyday, think about different things on how to improve it. It will not end just there, it has a lot of room for improvement, you can make it big as much as you can, all you have to do is believe in yourself and work hard as much as you can.
An idea's growth is unlimited, it will grow forever if the owner of it is willing to push himself to the limits and do whatever it takes to make it successful.
Never be ashamed of your idea, even if it is funny... if you're serious about it then one day it will become successful, all you need is time and tenacity. Be super serious about it and never let it die. If you're not doing something about it everyday then it will die, it will be wasted for nothing. You have to be super serious about it, you have to give your life for it and do your very best to make it bigger and bigger.
EVERYTHING YOU DO HAS A BIG PARTICIPATION
Everything that you do has a contribution for the bigger thing that you are expecting. Even if you think that what you're doing has no impact... you're wrong, it will still make an impact in the future, it will still contribute, it will accumulate.
Never underestimate those little efforts because they are still important, they give you some momentum, they make you consistent. You will be happy one day that you made those efforts because they made you a little bit better, they give you an edge.
Look at what you're doing at the present moment... it will either contribute to your failure or success. If you're doing something good and important then you will become successful, just keep on doing it and you will become successful one day. But if you're doing stupid things... those will also accumulate in the end, it will make you a failure.
So don't ever think that what you're doing are just small things and it will not affect your life, of course it does. Just wait a little longer and you will see that you've wasted a lot of time.
Never underestimate those little efforts because they are still important, they give you some momentum, they make you consistent. You will be happy one day that you made those efforts because they made you a little bit better, they give you an edge.
Look at what you're doing at the present moment... it will either contribute to your failure or success. If you're doing something good and important then you will become successful, just keep on doing it and you will become successful one day. But if you're doing stupid things... those will also accumulate in the end, it will make you a failure.
So don't ever think that what you're doing are just small things and it will not affect your life, of course it does. Just wait a little longer and you will see that you've wasted a lot of time.
MISTAKES ARE PART OF BEING CREATIVE
Make more mistakes than anybody else... that is the best way to become creative. You will experience a lot of things, you will get a lot of information that will make your work much better than before. You will know some techniques on how to not make the same mistakes again.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, do you think that there is a painting that is perfect? definitely not. There is no painting that is perfect, a lot of painters will even love their mistakes because it will guide them to the next stroke and painting, it will give them a different direction but the output is still the same.
Make a lot of mistakes and learn how to work them, learn how to manipulate and tweak them to produce a much better result.
Because if you are confident enough and you really trust what you are doing... your mistakes will not become evident anymore, people will accept it, they will even consider it as something you planned.
So keep going and ignore all of your mistakes, just keep moving forward until the job is done.
Creative people doesn't mind about making mistakes, they will find a way how to make it work despite of committing a lot of mistakes, they will still try to make it look nice and acceptable.
Once you made a mistake... never repeat it if you don't need to.. let it be, it's only an evidence that you're just a human and you're not perfect.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, do you think that there is a painting that is perfect? definitely not. There is no painting that is perfect, a lot of painters will even love their mistakes because it will guide them to the next stroke and painting, it will give them a different direction but the output is still the same.
Make a lot of mistakes and learn how to work them, learn how to manipulate and tweak them to produce a much better result.
Because if you are confident enough and you really trust what you are doing... your mistakes will not become evident anymore, people will accept it, they will even consider it as something you planned.
So keep going and ignore all of your mistakes, just keep moving forward until the job is done.
Creative people doesn't mind about making mistakes, they will find a way how to make it work despite of committing a lot of mistakes, they will still try to make it look nice and acceptable.
Once you made a mistake... never repeat it if you don't need to.. let it be, it's only an evidence that you're just a human and you're not perfect.
HOW WILL YOUR FUTURE LOOK LIKE?
It all depends on what you're doing now, if you're doing something negative then your future will become negative. If you're working hard then you will reap the fruits of your labor, if all you do is become lazy then your future will be lousy and soft.
You can see your future, you can predict it by your behavior today, if you're behaving badly today then your future will suck... as simple as that.
Just like a student who is not studying, even if he is rich... his future will become ugly because he knows nothing, he is not competitive, all he will do is ask for the support from his parents.
Your future is now, it is not tomorrow, it is not yesterday... it all depends on what you're doing now.
So if you want to have a bright future then work hard and prepare, make yourself closer to your dreams, make yourself very close to what you want by doing the best things that will put you on the best position to succeed.
Don't be scared of your future... it will come, you can predict it with your actions, your movement is the best fortune teller of your future.
Whether you hate it or not... your future is very similar to your present.
You can see your future, you can predict it by your behavior today, if you're behaving badly today then your future will suck... as simple as that.
Just like a student who is not studying, even if he is rich... his future will become ugly because he knows nothing, he is not competitive, all he will do is ask for the support from his parents.
Your future is now, it is not tomorrow, it is not yesterday... it all depends on what you're doing now.
So if you want to have a bright future then work hard and prepare, make yourself closer to your dreams, make yourself very close to what you want by doing the best things that will put you on the best position to succeed.
Don't be scared of your future... it will come, you can predict it with your actions, your movement is the best fortune teller of your future.
Whether you hate it or not... your future is very similar to your present.
HOW TO GIVE YOUR VERY BEST
You can produce bigger results than what you produced yesterday, you can always do better than that, that's not your best. The sad truth about people is they are always giving lesser effort than what they can really do, they are not giving their best. It's because they think that giving their best is hard and really tiring.
If you want to give your best then you must push yourself to the limits, you must feel a little bit uncomfortable, you must have that feeling like you're pushing more than you can push and you're not resting until you can't work anymore.
Giving your best is very simple, it's how much focused you are, it's how much you think about winning, it's how much you can sacrifice for your dreams.
If you're not moving now then you better move, not moving means you're not giving your best. It means you're satisfied of the achievements that you have which s mediocre.
Giving your best simply not thinking about the outcome, it's simply going hard every second and not planning to stop until your dreams come true.
So stop watching other people, stop doing stupid things that doesn't even matter... go hard now and go hard again tomorrow. Stop being lousy, stop being slow, stop thinking about how you feel.
Remember that your emotions doesn't matter anymore. It doesn't matter if you're so stressed and tired, you need to make results, you need to turn things around. Use your will power, use every strength that you have to become successful.
If you will not give your best then you will get less.
If you want to give your best then you must push yourself to the limits, you must feel a little bit uncomfortable, you must have that feeling like you're pushing more than you can push and you're not resting until you can't work anymore.
Giving your best is very simple, it's how much focused you are, it's how much you think about winning, it's how much you can sacrifice for your dreams.
If you're not moving now then you better move, not moving means you're not giving your best. It means you're satisfied of the achievements that you have which s mediocre.
Giving your best simply not thinking about the outcome, it's simply going hard every second and not planning to stop until your dreams come true.
So stop watching other people, stop doing stupid things that doesn't even matter... go hard now and go hard again tomorrow. Stop being lousy, stop being slow, stop thinking about how you feel.
Remember that your emotions doesn't matter anymore. It doesn't matter if you're so stressed and tired, you need to make results, you need to turn things around. Use your will power, use every strength that you have to become successful.
If you will not give your best then you will get less.
DON'T LOOK WHERE YOU DON'T WANT TO GO
Never look where you don't want to go, what you always see is your destination, what you always look at is your direction, no matter how much you deny it... those things that you always see will have an impact in your brain, it will be programmed in your brain, it will affect your daily life.
If you don't want to become poor, don't look at the poor people, don't study what they are doing, don't copy their moves, never associate yourself with them. It's not about being arrogant and being rude or something but what you always hear and see will be your reality, your life is almost the same as the people that you associate yourself with.
If you don't want to become injured... don't look at the injured people, it will make you scared, it will create fear into your brain and you will become very conservative, you're always cautious which is a very bad thing.
If you want to attract what you want then always look for what you want, don't look at what you don't want. You need to match with the frequency of your dreams, you should think about your dreams 24/7 nothing else should consume your mind other than your dreams.
MIND CONDITIONING. What you repeatedly put into your mind will come to you little by little, so think only about the things that you really love. Because your reality will follow your thoughts, your mind is the main culprit of the things that are going on with your life.
If you don't want to become poor, don't look at the poor people, don't study what they are doing, don't copy their moves, never associate yourself with them. It's not about being arrogant and being rude or something but what you always hear and see will be your reality, your life is almost the same as the people that you associate yourself with.
If you don't want to become injured... don't look at the injured people, it will make you scared, it will create fear into your brain and you will become very conservative, you're always cautious which is a very bad thing.
If you want to attract what you want then always look for what you want, don't look at what you don't want. You need to match with the frequency of your dreams, you should think about your dreams 24/7 nothing else should consume your mind other than your dreams.
MIND CONDITIONING. What you repeatedly put into your mind will come to you little by little, so think only about the things that you really love. Because your reality will follow your thoughts, your mind is the main culprit of the things that are going on with your life.
IF YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN ALWAYS GROW THEN YOU'RE ONE OF A KIND PERSON
It's all about striving to grow and believing in yourself that you can do better, believe yourself that you can still improve no matter what age you have.
Some people can't have an edge in life because they think that they can't grow anymore. Once they reach their late 30s they think that it's all over for their careers and they cannot make a significant jump anymore, they thought that they can't level up anymore which is a very sad thing.
If you're already 38 years old and some kids beat in you in a pick up game, what is the main reason? not because you're already wick and old, it's because you're not in a good condition, you cardio is weak because you're not running for months, you think that your level of game is done and you think that you cannot do anything about it anymore, you think that there's no more room fro growth in your life.
But what if you go back to training everyday again? what if you push yourself and make your stomach small? what if you think that you're getting better every time you train? what if you think that you're still growing and improving? what do you think will be the result?
Never think that the growth is over for you, you can still learn even if you're too old, never under estimate the power of will. If you really want to grow then you can still grow, you can still learn, you can still become very competitive. My father learned to drive his car at 62 years of age, he doesn't mind being laughed at, he doesn't mind being slow. He is an inspiration, he never think about his age. He just focus on what he can do and learn as much as he can.
You can learn anything if you have a mindset that you can always grow, it's because you will level up everyday, your body will follow your belief. You will get results even if your pace is too slow.
So every time you need to become stronger or better, every time you need to learn something... practice, study, put an effort. Age doesn't matter only belief does.
Some people can't have an edge in life because they think that they can't grow anymore. Once they reach their late 30s they think that it's all over for their careers and they cannot make a significant jump anymore, they thought that they can't level up anymore which is a very sad thing.
If you're already 38 years old and some kids beat in you in a pick up game, what is the main reason? not because you're already wick and old, it's because you're not in a good condition, you cardio is weak because you're not running for months, you think that your level of game is done and you think that you cannot do anything about it anymore, you think that there's no more room fro growth in your life.
But what if you go back to training everyday again? what if you push yourself and make your stomach small? what if you think that you're getting better every time you train? what if you think that you're still growing and improving? what do you think will be the result?
Never think that the growth is over for you, you can still learn even if you're too old, never under estimate the power of will. If you really want to grow then you can still grow, you can still learn, you can still become very competitive. My father learned to drive his car at 62 years of age, he doesn't mind being laughed at, he doesn't mind being slow. He is an inspiration, he never think about his age. He just focus on what he can do and learn as much as he can.
You can learn anything if you have a mindset that you can always grow, it's because you will level up everyday, your body will follow your belief. You will get results even if your pace is too slow.
So every time you need to become stronger or better, every time you need to learn something... practice, study, put an effort. Age doesn't matter only belief does.
WATCH YOUR SPEED
Watch your speed... maybe you're a little bit slow, maybe you're relaxing too much that's why you are getting left behind. There's no need to rush but sometimes you are taking things for granted, you are taking your time for granted and you are not pushing anymore.
Sometimes all you need is a little push, a little more force. You're too slow, it's not that you were born slow but you are relaxing too much, you think it's alright to become slow and look slow. That's what you think, if you keep on patronizing a slow pace then you will never grow, you will always be left behind. The bigger sharks will eat you, they will make you look like a rookie.
Keep on tracking your speed because it's crucial, if you're too slow then you will never achieve anything, you're hoping for a miracle that will never happen. Success loves speed, success loves people who keep on making their momentum alive.
You can honestly telly yourself if you're slow or not, be honest, don't pretend that you're working hard if you're not. Again, you can work fast even if you're old or aging, it depends on how you push yourself and how you believe in yourself.
Your speed now maybe your normal speed but you can always change gears, you can always elevate your game, yeah you will get tired, sometimes you will get tired faster but you can always recover and go back on track again.
So develop the speed so you can do more and work more, develop the speed so you will know the next task earlier than expected.
You can always catch up, you can become faster than others, it just depends on how committed you are and how bad you want it. You will become faster if you're always on a sense of urgency. Try being fast now and see more results coming in to your life.
Sometimes all you need is a little push, a little more force. You're too slow, it's not that you were born slow but you are relaxing too much, you think it's alright to become slow and look slow. That's what you think, if you keep on patronizing a slow pace then you will never grow, you will always be left behind. The bigger sharks will eat you, they will make you look like a rookie.
Keep on tracking your speed because it's crucial, if you're too slow then you will never achieve anything, you're hoping for a miracle that will never happen. Success loves speed, success loves people who keep on making their momentum alive.
You can honestly telly yourself if you're slow or not, be honest, don't pretend that you're working hard if you're not. Again, you can work fast even if you're old or aging, it depends on how you push yourself and how you believe in yourself.
Your speed now maybe your normal speed but you can always change gears, you can always elevate your game, yeah you will get tired, sometimes you will get tired faster but you can always recover and go back on track again.
So develop the speed so you can do more and work more, develop the speed so you will know the next task earlier than expected.
You can always catch up, you can become faster than others, it just depends on how committed you are and how bad you want it. You will become faster if you're always on a sense of urgency. Try being fast now and see more results coming in to your life.
YOU CAN'T ALWAYS BRING THE RAIN
If you need rain because you want your planted rices to grow... it will not rain, you cannot always control the situation. There are some instances where you cannot control everything. If you're wishing for rain then the sun will come out... that's the normal case.
Sometimes if you need something so badly... it will not come, I don't know why it always happened. But the good thing is... it will still come, it maybe delayed for a little time but it will still come, you will still get what you want.
Sometimes all you can do is wait, you cannot force the rain nor sunshine. You have to wait for it, the more you get impatient... the more you will get frustrated because you will feel that it is not coming, you think that it will never come again.
Just keep working hard while waiting for that "SOMETHING" that you need. It's never a sin to wait and become patient, it's never a bad decision to wait for a little bit more time.
The rain will come, the sun will come... everything that you need will come for you if you keep that positive attitude alive. What you are looking for is looking for you. Just stay positive and never rush the process, always be in the moment, appreciate what you have because you will have more in the future.
Sometimes if you need something so badly... it will not come, I don't know why it always happened. But the good thing is... it will still come, it maybe delayed for a little time but it will still come, you will still get what you want.
Sometimes all you can do is wait, you cannot force the rain nor sunshine. You have to wait for it, the more you get impatient... the more you will get frustrated because you will feel that it is not coming, you think that it will never come again.
Just keep working hard while waiting for that "SOMETHING" that you need. It's never a sin to wait and become patient, it's never a bad decision to wait for a little bit more time.
The rain will come, the sun will come... everything that you need will come for you if you keep that positive attitude alive. What you are looking for is looking for you. Just stay positive and never rush the process, always be in the moment, appreciate what you have because you will have more in the future.
LIFE WILL BECOME HARDER IF YOU WILL THINK THAT IT'S SUPPOSE TO BE EASY
Always looking for an easy way, always expecting that life is easy, always wishing that the process should be easy... this kind of mentality will make you weak, this kind of thinking will make your life miserable. Never wish for an easy life, the default is always hard. If you're starting a new video game, it is hard. If you just got transfer from another school it is hard. If you're just learning to walk, it is hard. Everything is hard in the beginning but once you adapt to the situation and learn the basics... everything will become easier.
So what if it is hard? it doesn't mean that you can't do something about it, it doesn't mean that you have no chance of succeeding. It is tough but there is always something you can do and that is to control your thoughts and emotions.
All people who were always looking for an easy way always get disappointed. They don't want the process they just want the destination. They don't know that life is supposed to be enjoyed even if it's difficult.
So don't panic if you find out that what you are suppose to do is hard, life is designed that way... you need to suffer before you become a winner. There is a friction and resistance in the beginning. Every great dream requires a very strong effort and determination.
Don't wish for an easy life, wish for a strong mindset that will make you stay on the game forever. A lot of people cannot stay on the game for so long because they don't have a tough mindset, they quit easily when the going gets tough.
If you want to have an easy life... accept everything that is hard, never complain, never make excuses and cry like a weak child. You're a grown man, you're stronger than what you think about yourself.
All you have to do is do the process and finish it until the end. If there is a benefit behind it then keep going but if you know that it has nothing to do with success or improvement then leave it. Life becomes harder because you choose a hard path that is useless.
So what if it is hard? it doesn't mean that you can't do something about it, it doesn't mean that you have no chance of succeeding. It is tough but there is always something you can do and that is to control your thoughts and emotions.
All people who were always looking for an easy way always get disappointed. They don't want the process they just want the destination. They don't know that life is supposed to be enjoyed even if it's difficult.
So don't panic if you find out that what you are suppose to do is hard, life is designed that way... you need to suffer before you become a winner. There is a friction and resistance in the beginning. Every great dream requires a very strong effort and determination.
Don't wish for an easy life, wish for a strong mindset that will make you stay on the game forever. A lot of people cannot stay on the game for so long because they don't have a tough mindset, they quit easily when the going gets tough.
If you want to have an easy life... accept everything that is hard, never complain, never make excuses and cry like a weak child. You're a grown man, you're stronger than what you think about yourself.
All you have to do is do the process and finish it until the end. If there is a benefit behind it then keep going but if you know that it has nothing to do with success or improvement then leave it. Life becomes harder because you choose a hard path that is useless.
Apr 28, 2018
HOW TO OVERCOME A DEPRESSION?
Each one of us at one point in our lives has experienced depression. It is a negative feeling, it will make you weak and sick, you will like a quick sand is eating you little by little, you feel that there is no more hope and there is no way to get back on track.
But that's what you think, depression is very easy to overcome. You think that it's hard because you're having a self pity, you think that it's the end of the world because you're not taking actions.
The best way to overcome a depression is to just move, do something, stand up and avoid sleeping and eating. You need to feel the pain. Moving and thinking about your problems is better than not moving and thinking about your problems. If you're taking action then somehow you will be entertained a little bit.
Just move, that's the best thing to do. Do something positive, it's all in the mind. If you're moving and taking a lot of positive actions then you will have a direction. Pursue an impossible goal and die for it, grow as much as you can. You're becoming depressed because you're stuck in the past but you're living in the present. You should live in the moment and look at the future.
Never attach yourself to anything... that's the best way to look at it. Don't look at the results, look at the process. Work hard and never stop, always keep your hope alive.
Never try to impress anyone, never try to force something to go back to you, never expect perfection because those are the things that creates depression.
Stop sleeping a lot, stop eating a lot, stop watching dramas and stupid movies that will trigger the depression. You need to keep moving, you need to experience life. Process something, push yourself, you need to sweat and make yourself suffer a little bit. Do something that will make your life a little bit better and that's it.
But that's what you think, depression is very easy to overcome. You think that it's hard because you're having a self pity, you think that it's the end of the world because you're not taking actions.
The best way to overcome a depression is to just move, do something, stand up and avoid sleeping and eating. You need to feel the pain. Moving and thinking about your problems is better than not moving and thinking about your problems. If you're taking action then somehow you will be entertained a little bit.
Just move, that's the best thing to do. Do something positive, it's all in the mind. If you're moving and taking a lot of positive actions then you will have a direction. Pursue an impossible goal and die for it, grow as much as you can. You're becoming depressed because you're stuck in the past but you're living in the present. You should live in the moment and look at the future.
Never attach yourself to anything... that's the best way to look at it. Don't look at the results, look at the process. Work hard and never stop, always keep your hope alive.
Never try to impress anyone, never try to force something to go back to you, never expect perfection because those are the things that creates depression.
Stop sleeping a lot, stop eating a lot, stop watching dramas and stupid movies that will trigger the depression. You need to keep moving, you need to experience life. Process something, push yourself, you need to sweat and make yourself suffer a little bit. Do something that will make your life a little bit better and that's it.
10 KINDS OF PEOPLE IN A PRESSURE SITUATION
Your true character will be revealed if you're facing a pressure situation, what are you? you know it in yourself, you know it in how you feel or how you think. You can be in a fight or flight mode, whatever character you choose... it has an impact on the results that you are trying to achieve.
1. THE CARRIER. This is the person who carries the team behind him, he carry the journey, he do whatever it takes to win, he will carry the whole journey from start to finish. He will provide, he will do everything he can, he is the backbone of the whole journey, without him... the ship will sink.
2. THE PUSHER. This guy will keep on pushing no matter what, he doesn't mind if he gets tired, he will push because he loves small momentum. He will push when he has an opportunity to push, he will dictate the pace, he will make small steps that might change the outcome.
3. THE GRINDER. This guy is a little bit lost but he still has a positive character, sometimes he doesn't know what he is doing but he keeps on grinding, he just do what he thinks will make him a winner, he keeps on grinding and grinding until some positive outcome comes out. He always prevail but his journey is so hard.
4. THE SNIPER. This guy knows what he is doing, he is like a spider, he is patiently waiting, he knows the right timing, he knows when to attack. You think that he is stagnant but he is so confident with his abilities, his moves were all calculated. He always succeed but sometimes because of waiting too much... he lost some opportunities to thrive.
5. THE CALMER. This guy is so calm, no pressure can rattle him, he keeps the team or journey relaxed, he knows what he is doing, he is not rushing nor making stupid mistakes, he loves pressure... he is the one that can handle the fire more than anyone else.
6. THE HIDER. This guy simply hides the moment he feels the pressure, he is out of his mind, he doesn't want to step up. He is so scared, he wants someone to replace him, he wants the pressure to end fast, he doesn't want to move... he is always playing safe, when there is an opportunity... he will not take it even if he can make it work. He is so afraid to take the blame that's why he will simply choose weakness over power.
7. THE DESTROYER. This guy destroys everything, he doesn't follow his game plan, he let the pressure take control of him. He is still moving, he still want to win but he is not thinking right anymore that's why he always make stupid decisions. Maybe the pressure is consuming him so he want to end it as fast as he can.
8. THE BLAMER. This guy always point fingers to anyone, it's his fault but because he doesn't want to look bad... he will blame the weakest guy, he will make excuses, his reputation is his priority not the victory.
9. THE PRETENDER. This guy is just good in trying to look good, he will pretend that he is something but the truth is he is nothing. He will pretend that he can handle the pressure, he talks too much but he can't produce any results.
10. THE FINISHER. Give him the responsibility and he will take it, put pressure on him and he will see it as an opportunity. He always seek to finish, he never settle for anything lesser than the victory, every opportunity that he see... he will take it without feeling anything about it. He may fail but he will not regret it because he knew that he pushes himself to finish.
1. THE CARRIER. This is the person who carries the team behind him, he carry the journey, he do whatever it takes to win, he will carry the whole journey from start to finish. He will provide, he will do everything he can, he is the backbone of the whole journey, without him... the ship will sink.
2. THE PUSHER. This guy will keep on pushing no matter what, he doesn't mind if he gets tired, he will push because he loves small momentum. He will push when he has an opportunity to push, he will dictate the pace, he will make small steps that might change the outcome.
3. THE GRINDER. This guy is a little bit lost but he still has a positive character, sometimes he doesn't know what he is doing but he keeps on grinding, he just do what he thinks will make him a winner, he keeps on grinding and grinding until some positive outcome comes out. He always prevail but his journey is so hard.
4. THE SNIPER. This guy knows what he is doing, he is like a spider, he is patiently waiting, he knows the right timing, he knows when to attack. You think that he is stagnant but he is so confident with his abilities, his moves were all calculated. He always succeed but sometimes because of waiting too much... he lost some opportunities to thrive.
5. THE CALMER. This guy is so calm, no pressure can rattle him, he keeps the team or journey relaxed, he knows what he is doing, he is not rushing nor making stupid mistakes, he loves pressure... he is the one that can handle the fire more than anyone else.
6. THE HIDER. This guy simply hides the moment he feels the pressure, he is out of his mind, he doesn't want to step up. He is so scared, he wants someone to replace him, he wants the pressure to end fast, he doesn't want to move... he is always playing safe, when there is an opportunity... he will not take it even if he can make it work. He is so afraid to take the blame that's why he will simply choose weakness over power.
7. THE DESTROYER. This guy destroys everything, he doesn't follow his game plan, he let the pressure take control of him. He is still moving, he still want to win but he is not thinking right anymore that's why he always make stupid decisions. Maybe the pressure is consuming him so he want to end it as fast as he can.
8. THE BLAMER. This guy always point fingers to anyone, it's his fault but because he doesn't want to look bad... he will blame the weakest guy, he will make excuses, his reputation is his priority not the victory.
9. THE PRETENDER. This guy is just good in trying to look good, he will pretend that he is something but the truth is he is nothing. He will pretend that he can handle the pressure, he talks too much but he can't produce any results.
10. THE FINISHER. Give him the responsibility and he will take it, put pressure on him and he will see it as an opportunity. He always seek to finish, he never settle for anything lesser than the victory, every opportunity that he see... he will take it without feeling anything about it. He may fail but he will not regret it because he knew that he pushes himself to finish.
YOU CAN BEGIN ANYTIME YOU WANT TO
Nobody is stopping you from starting, you can always begin anytime you want to. The problem is... you have a lot of rituals going on, you need to do this or do that before you even begin, you have a lot of warm ups but in the end... you will never begin.
Begin now, if you have a task or dream... begin now, this is the perfect time to begin. Uncomfortable moments are the perfect time to start, it is a test if you really want it or not.
Once you begin... you will start to feel better, it only feels bad in the beginning but once you created that momentum... things will go easier and easier.
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?
You can't move? your stomach is aching? your head is aching? those are pussy excuses, you need to slap yourself and make yourself moving, success requires a lot of movement. It requires a lot of energy. If you're not moving then it means you're dying, it means you're making your life miserable.
Don't be afraid of making mistake because not starting is already a mistake, yes there is a timing, there is always the right time but how will you know the right timing if you will not start?
Just execute a movement that you know and never mind if you're right or wrong, just execute it... do it, never think about failing, never think that your time is being wasted.
You have your brain, you have your hands and legs... use them, never hesitate, it's a do or die situation, always think that if you don't move then you will die... as simple as that.
THREE BEST TIPS TO START FAST:
1. Think that life is just a game because it is. It's just a game, you're just playing, never mind if you make mistakes or you fail in a certain level, you can always make a come back, you can always succeed if you choose to.
2. Always think that your time is running out. You don't know how many minutes left you have in this world, a lot of people just died in vain, they are waiting for the right timing, they are waiting for something until their time is over.... what a sad tragedy.
3. Always think that the task is urgent. Always think that your mom will spank you if you don't wash the dishes, always think that your girlfriend will leave you if you didn't buy here flowers. Always be in a state of urgency, always keep moving... always force something.
Begin now, if you have a task or dream... begin now, this is the perfect time to begin. Uncomfortable moments are the perfect time to start, it is a test if you really want it or not.
Once you begin... you will start to feel better, it only feels bad in the beginning but once you created that momentum... things will go easier and easier.
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?
You can't move? your stomach is aching? your head is aching? those are pussy excuses, you need to slap yourself and make yourself moving, success requires a lot of movement. It requires a lot of energy. If you're not moving then it means you're dying, it means you're making your life miserable.
Don't be afraid of making mistake because not starting is already a mistake, yes there is a timing, there is always the right time but how will you know the right timing if you will not start?
Just execute a movement that you know and never mind if you're right or wrong, just execute it... do it, never think about failing, never think that your time is being wasted.
You have your brain, you have your hands and legs... use them, never hesitate, it's a do or die situation, always think that if you don't move then you will die... as simple as that.
THREE BEST TIPS TO START FAST:
1. Think that life is just a game because it is. It's just a game, you're just playing, never mind if you make mistakes or you fail in a certain level, you can always make a come back, you can always succeed if you choose to.
2. Always think that your time is running out. You don't know how many minutes left you have in this world, a lot of people just died in vain, they are waiting for the right timing, they are waiting for something until their time is over.... what a sad tragedy.
3. Always think that the task is urgent. Always think that your mom will spank you if you don't wash the dishes, always think that your girlfriend will leave you if you didn't buy here flowers. Always be in a state of urgency, always keep moving... always force something.
SHOW THEM THE EASY WAY AND THEY WILL FOLLOW YOU
Everybody loves the easy way, if you want people to follow you... tell them that the task is very easy. A lot of college graduates will always look fora n easy job, a lot of wannabe rich will always look for the easy way to get millions, they want money but they are not willing to put in the work. That's why a lot of people gets fooled... there are lot of scams out there that will tell you how to get rich quick, a lot of people will bite it. They will learned in the end that they got scammed.
That's why a lot of government officials win the election, they will promise the masses that change will come, they will advertise their projects that all people will benefit. But when they got elected... they will never fulfill their promise. People don't know that change is hard and one person cannot make the whole world change. If you want change the you have to do it yourself, never rely on someone to change your bum life.
That's why a lot of people love shortcuts.... the 5 minute abs, the blue pill to make you smarter, steroids, operations, liposuction... people love the easy and fast way, they don't know that they moment you bought in to easy ways... the work ethic will be gone, you will never know how to become successful again once you fail because you never work for it.
It's not easy but it is possible, if you want to become successful in life then you need to really work, you need to give your very best. Don't ever think about over night success, don't ever think about three months of process and you will see results. It is a long term commitment, if you want success then be ready to wait for a very long time.
So if there is a person telling you that it will be easy... never believe him, success is not that easy, you need to work and make a lot of sacrifices in the beginning. But once you learned the tricks, once you learned the right process for you... everything will become easy, you will become successful and you will be able to multiply it again and again.
That's why a lot of government officials win the election, they will promise the masses that change will come, they will advertise their projects that all people will benefit. But when they got elected... they will never fulfill their promise. People don't know that change is hard and one person cannot make the whole world change. If you want change the you have to do it yourself, never rely on someone to change your bum life.
That's why a lot of people love shortcuts.... the 5 minute abs, the blue pill to make you smarter, steroids, operations, liposuction... people love the easy and fast way, they don't know that they moment you bought in to easy ways... the work ethic will be gone, you will never know how to become successful again once you fail because you never work for it.
It's not easy but it is possible, if you want to become successful in life then you need to really work, you need to give your very best. Don't ever think about over night success, don't ever think about three months of process and you will see results. It is a long term commitment, if you want success then be ready to wait for a very long time.
So if there is a person telling you that it will be easy... never believe him, success is not that easy, you need to work and make a lot of sacrifices in the beginning. But once you learned the tricks, once you learned the right process for you... everything will become easy, you will become successful and you will be able to multiply it again and again.
IGNORE YOUR WEAKNESS, FOCUS ON YOUR REAL POWER
The reason why you can't make it in life, the reason why you're not happy is because you're so focused on your weakness, you have a strength but you're not focused on it, you're not thinking about it, you're not using it. You should ignore your weakness, don't think about it, don't think about what you don't know. Focus on what you know and try to get something from it, try to squeeze it, try to get a lot of benefits from it.
Because you can always produce something, you can always make a difference but you're not doing it. You're so jealous about other people that can do this and do that. If you're thinking about other people then you're not focusing on your strength, you are poisoning your mind, because the logic is very simple... if you are focusing on other people then you are focusing on their power not on your own power, that is a bad decision because you are letting them control you.
You are more powerful than what you think of yourself, you just don't believe in yourself that's why you can't become successful. Ignore your weaknesses, it is not helping you, focus on what you can do, focus on what you wanted to believe.
Successful people never focus on their flaws, only critics can see their flaws but they don't mind if their weaknesses were exposed, they just keep going, they just do what gives them success.
HOW TO FOCUS ON YOUR REAL POWER?
It is very simple, look for the things that makes you feel good, look for the things that gives you success in the past and try to replicate them everyday, try to improve them but never change them.
For sure there are some things that gave you success in the past, all you have to do is try to remember them and do them once again. Focus on your own life, focus on the things that matters the most.
Because you can always produce something, you can always make a difference but you're not doing it. You're so jealous about other people that can do this and do that. If you're thinking about other people then you're not focusing on your strength, you are poisoning your mind, because the logic is very simple... if you are focusing on other people then you are focusing on their power not on your own power, that is a bad decision because you are letting them control you.
You are more powerful than what you think of yourself, you just don't believe in yourself that's why you can't become successful. Ignore your weaknesses, it is not helping you, focus on what you can do, focus on what you wanted to believe.
Successful people never focus on their flaws, only critics can see their flaws but they don't mind if their weaknesses were exposed, they just keep going, they just do what gives them success.
HOW TO FOCUS ON YOUR REAL POWER?
It is very simple, look for the things that makes you feel good, look for the things that gives you success in the past and try to replicate them everyday, try to improve them but never change them.
For sure there are some things that gave you success in the past, all you have to do is try to remember them and do them once again. Focus on your own life, focus on the things that matters the most.
YOU KNOW THAT ONE DAY IT WILL FAIL SO WHY KEEP DOING IT?
You know that one day it's going to fail so why keep doing it? you know that one day you will be caught and punishment will be served so why keep continuing it? it's succeeding now but for how long? stop fooling yourself that it will never end because one day it's going to end.
If you know in yourself that there is a punishment waiting for you for what you're doing then you better stop it now while it's still early, one day you will regret that you never stop.
You know what is wrong and what is right, you better think straight and do what is best for you. You can still do some other things that will give you small success, take it slowly, change little by little. It's not bad if you will start again but this time you need to do the right thing.
It's going to fail one day, an activity that is illegal, nonsense, without purpose will never run for a long time, it will end one day, stop doing it because you are only killing yourself by doing it. It may give you something for the moment but it will never be permanent, one day your run will end, it will put you to the ground. You better do the right things now and start thinking straight.
You keep injecting steroids to your ass because you want fast growth in your muscles, it is known that the users of steroids are dying, it has a bad side effects then why still keep using it? it will fail in the long run, you know it, everybody knows it... stop using it while it is sill early.
You know that you will be caught one day because of cheating, for now you can still cover it but for how long? stop cheating now because it is bad, it is not making your life better. One day you will be caught, you know it, stop acting like it will never end.
Anything bad that you're doing... it will end, it will fail, it is working for now but wait until it is not working anymore... your life will become miserable, it is better to stop it now while it is still early, stop it now while you still can.
If you know in yourself that there is a punishment waiting for you for what you're doing then you better stop it now while it's still early, one day you will regret that you never stop.
You know what is wrong and what is right, you better think straight and do what is best for you. You can still do some other things that will give you small success, take it slowly, change little by little. It's not bad if you will start again but this time you need to do the right thing.
It's going to fail one day, an activity that is illegal, nonsense, without purpose will never run for a long time, it will end one day, stop doing it because you are only killing yourself by doing it. It may give you something for the moment but it will never be permanent, one day your run will end, it will put you to the ground. You better do the right things now and start thinking straight.
You keep injecting steroids to your ass because you want fast growth in your muscles, it is known that the users of steroids are dying, it has a bad side effects then why still keep using it? it will fail in the long run, you know it, everybody knows it... stop using it while it is sill early.
You know that you will be caught one day because of cheating, for now you can still cover it but for how long? stop cheating now because it is bad, it is not making your life better. One day you will be caught, you know it, stop acting like it will never end.
Anything bad that you're doing... it will end, it will fail, it is working for now but wait until it is not working anymore... your life will become miserable, it is better to stop it now while it is still early, stop it now while you still can.
DON'T ASK IF YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO GIVE SOMETHING IN RETURN
A lot of people were just asking about something but they are not willing to give something in return, they are not willing to pay the price, all they do is ask and if they can't get it... they will cry and complain.
Asking will only work if you willing to give something back, it will work if you are willing to make sacrifices too. The giver is making sacrifice if he is giving something, so does the receiver... he must make sacrifices too in order for the trade to work.
Ask and you shall receive, but you also have to work, if all you do is asking without working hard and doing something to deserve it then you are just waiting for nothing. If asking works all the time then why are there lot of people who can't receive, it's because they are not willing to pay the price, that's the best explanation for that.
The best thing to do is give first before you ask, work first, make sacrifices first so that you will receive something.
In life you can't just get and get and get without giving something in return, you need to work too, make efforts too and give something back. The more you give, the more you have the audacity to ask for something. Don't ever ask if you're not willing to give something back because you will wait forever.
Asking will only work if you willing to give something back, it will work if you are willing to make sacrifices too. The giver is making sacrifice if he is giving something, so does the receiver... he must make sacrifices too in order for the trade to work.
Ask and you shall receive, but you also have to work, if all you do is asking without working hard and doing something to deserve it then you are just waiting for nothing. If asking works all the time then why are there lot of people who can't receive, it's because they are not willing to pay the price, that's the best explanation for that.
The best thing to do is give first before you ask, work first, make sacrifices first so that you will receive something.
In life you can't just get and get and get without giving something in return, you need to work too, make efforts too and give something back. The more you give, the more you have the audacity to ask for something. Don't ever ask if you're not willing to give something back because you will wait forever.
THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL QUOTE OF ALL TIME
YOLO - the most controversial quote of all time. They say that you only live once so you need to party like an animal. Listen... it's not about partying, it's about pushing yourself to the limits. You only live once so why not pursue your dream? you only live once so why not give your very best and lessen the regrets in the end? YOLO is not all about having fun, it's about disciplining yourself and looking for what is possible.
People thinks that life is all about being happy everyday, life is not like that, sometimes you think you are happy by doing this or that but if you will think of happiness as something that needs something to become real then that is a fake belief about happiness. You don't need anything to become happy, it's all in the mind, you don't need to change anything to become happy... just entertain happy thoughts and you will feel happy.
So forget about the word YOLO, just give your best every single day and push yourself to the limits, your time in this world is limited, you need to give everything you can to make your dreams come true, stop wasting your time, your time is the most precious thing in this world, are you going to waste all of your time for nothing?
Believe in your dreams, believe in your skills. You only live once, are you going to waste your time doubting yourself? are you going to waste your life accomplishing nothing? you need to turn your life around, you need to see what is possible, you need to make your life epic by giving your best every single day.
Don't twist the meaning of YOLO, it's not about getting drunk, partying and wasting all of your money for nothing. It means you need to have a purpose, it means you need to see what is possible, it means you need to stretch yourself and be the best that you can be.
People thinks that life is all about being happy everyday, life is not like that, sometimes you think you are happy by doing this or that but if you will think of happiness as something that needs something to become real then that is a fake belief about happiness. You don't need anything to become happy, it's all in the mind, you don't need to change anything to become happy... just entertain happy thoughts and you will feel happy.
So forget about the word YOLO, just give your best every single day and push yourself to the limits, your time in this world is limited, you need to give everything you can to make your dreams come true, stop wasting your time, your time is the most precious thing in this world, are you going to waste all of your time for nothing?
Believe in your dreams, believe in your skills. You only live once, are you going to waste your time doubting yourself? are you going to waste your life accomplishing nothing? you need to turn your life around, you need to see what is possible, you need to make your life epic by giving your best every single day.
Don't twist the meaning of YOLO, it's not about getting drunk, partying and wasting all of your money for nothing. It means you need to have a purpose, it means you need to see what is possible, it means you need to stretch yourself and be the best that you can be.
Apr 27, 2018
VISION SHOULD BEAT THE SITUATION
Your vision should always thrive, it should always rise over the occasion, your situation may look hard, it maybe really difficult but if your vision is so strong and you feel that you can do it then you will be able to do it, as simple as that. Your vision is your destination, it is your capital, you should make it clear every time it gets blurry.
If your vision is to succeed then that's the only thing that you should be thinking of, don't think about failing, don't think about anything else, just think about winning.
If you really believe in your hear that you're going to win then nothing is impossible, you will do whatever it takes to win the game, you will take risks.
You need to have a bullet proof belief, your confidence in yourself should be sky level. You can beat any situation if your vision is so powerful. It's like not caring if the task in front of you is hard, the truth is... it becomes harder because you don't believe in yourself, it becomes more difficult because you already think that it's difficult just even before you started.
If your vision is to succeed then that's the only thing that you should be thinking of, don't think about failing, don't think about anything else, just think about winning.
If you really believe in your hear that you're going to win then nothing is impossible, you will do whatever it takes to win the game, you will take risks.
You need to have a bullet proof belief, your confidence in yourself should be sky level. You can beat any situation if your vision is so powerful. It's like not caring if the task in front of you is hard, the truth is... it becomes harder because you don't believe in yourself, it becomes more difficult because you already think that it's difficult just even before you started.
NEVER ENTERTAIN A VICE IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE MONEY TO PAY THE PRICE
People are good in destroying their lives, some people act tough, some people were so arrogant, they will entertain a vice, they will engage in it, they will do it everyday but when the consequence is already there... they don't know what to do, they will look for some help which is funny.
If you're always smoking... prepare yourself to get sick, smoking is dangerous. Yes, you can but a pack of cigarette but do you have the money to pay the hospital if everything turn out bad because of your excessive smoking? you have to think straight, you're doing something bad but can you sustain it? can you manage to handle the next events?
You are gambling, you are losing a lot of money but can you mange to feed your family if you run out of money? can you sustain that gambling addiction without putting your financial status in danger?
The funny thing is... you're acting like your luck will never run out, today you are enjoying that vice, today you think everything is smooth but wait until the effect is already ruining your life, are you prepared? do you have the money to pay the price for everything that you did in the past?
IF YOU HAVE A CAR THEN YOU CAN HAVE A GAS
If you have a car then you can have a gas for it, even if you are unemployed... you can still look for some money to make it run. The logic is very simple... if you have a dream then you can make your dreams come true, same as the car... if you have a car then you can make it running even if you don't have the money to pay for the gas. Have you ever wonder why there are some people who has a car but has no job but still were able to make the car running everyday? it's because they have something for the car, thy want the car to run so they were able to make it run.
Same as your dream, even if you don't know how to make it happen... you can still make it happen for as long as the will is there. You can find a way, greatness finds a way... if not so great people can make it then you can make it too.
It's all about wanting it so bad, if you really want it and you are willing to sacrifice everything to make it happen then you will make it happen. So stop questioning where you will find the means to make your dreams come true, there is a way, all you have to do is find it.
Same as your dream, even if you don't know how to make it happen... you can still make it happen for as long as the will is there. You can find a way, greatness finds a way... if not so great people can make it then you can make it too.
It's all about wanting it so bad, if you really want it and you are willing to sacrifice everything to make it happen then you will make it happen. So stop questioning where you will find the means to make your dreams come true, there is a way, all you have to do is find it.
WHAT IF IT'S THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO?
What if it's the only thing you can do? what if you can't learn anything because the only thing you can learn is what you're doing? are you going to give your best every single day even if you're s sick and tired of it? are you going to strive even more to take that skill to another level? What if you're not allowed to do something else? are you going to treat it as a blessing or a curse?
Some people can't succeed at anything because they want to do a lot, they want to try a lot, they were not focused. If you have no choice to do other things other that your profession then you will become very good at it, you will find ways how to enjoy it, you will be able to find ways how to become successful from it.
If you've been doing something for a very long time then you will become really good at it. You will go to a different level, nobody can beat you, you will never fail because you already memorized every single detail of it.
So pick something and do it for a very long time, treat it as the only thing that you can do, you will become a master of it, you will become the number one. Never get sick and tired of the process, find something that will make you enjoy it, create a belief that it is the only thing that will make you happy and successful, give your life into it and it will give you anything you want.
Some people can't succeed at anything because they want to do a lot, they want to try a lot, they were not focused. If you have no choice to do other things other that your profession then you will become very good at it, you will find ways how to enjoy it, you will be able to find ways how to become successful from it.
If you've been doing something for a very long time then you will become really good at it. You will go to a different level, nobody can beat you, you will never fail because you already memorized every single detail of it.
So pick something and do it for a very long time, treat it as the only thing that you can do, you will become a master of it, you will become the number one. Never get sick and tired of the process, find something that will make you enjoy it, create a belief that it is the only thing that will make you happy and successful, give your life into it and it will give you anything you want.
THIS YAKULT VENDOR CAUGHT MY ATTENTION
I love yakult, who doesn't? it's delicious, nutritious and healthy, it will make you strong. It is full of lactobacilli that is very healthy for your body. I can drink it everyday without losing appetite for it, It can be my water if I have the money to buy a lot of it.
There is a yakult vendor in our town, she is working super hard, she has a lot of children, she is the bread winner of her family. What amazes me is she can earn 50,000 bucks a month, most of the times she is earning 30,000 bucks. That is pretty big for a yakult vendor, it is even earning bigger than most of the blue collar jobs in my country. It's amazing because she is not making any excuses, it's hot outside selling something, the push cart is so heavy but she still manage to earn money just to feed her children. She is a true hero. She is not complaining, she doesn't mind the danger of her job because she is a woman, there are some criminals out there that will try to grab her money. Her job is for the man but she can outperform any other man out there.
The moral lesson of the story is.... you don't need an education just to do well in life, some graduate students out there are super lazy and complaining about life but there is the yakult vendor who will do whatever it takes just to live a pretty decent life.
If you're a white collar worker and you're being arrogant because you have a good salary... look at this yakult vendor... she can earn more than you. She is an inspiration, she is a legend. She is a proof that anything is possible if you work hard and you give your best.
So stop making excuses now and sell some yakult if you don't know what to do with your life. All it takes is a positive attitude and the willingness to work harder than anybody else.
There is a yakult vendor in our town, she is working super hard, she has a lot of children, she is the bread winner of her family. What amazes me is she can earn 50,000 bucks a month, most of the times she is earning 30,000 bucks. That is pretty big for a yakult vendor, it is even earning bigger than most of the blue collar jobs in my country. It's amazing because she is not making any excuses, it's hot outside selling something, the push cart is so heavy but she still manage to earn money just to feed her children. She is a true hero. She is not complaining, she doesn't mind the danger of her job because she is a woman, there are some criminals out there that will try to grab her money. Her job is for the man but she can outperform any other man out there.
The moral lesson of the story is.... you don't need an education just to do well in life, some graduate students out there are super lazy and complaining about life but there is the yakult vendor who will do whatever it takes just to live a pretty decent life.
If you're a white collar worker and you're being arrogant because you have a good salary... look at this yakult vendor... she can earn more than you. She is an inspiration, she is a legend. She is a proof that anything is possible if you work hard and you give your best.
So stop making excuses now and sell some yakult if you don't know what to do with your life. All it takes is a positive attitude and the willingness to work harder than anybody else.
HOW TO BECOME DYNAMIC AND RELENTLESS
It's very easy... don't be afraid to make mistakes and just do what you can, just use your power and try to make something happen. Being relentless doesn't mean being successful every now and then, it means you are moving every second and you have no plans of stopping.
Don't be afraid to become tired, never pace yourself... just push and push and push until you get some results. What is the point in slowing down? what is the point in relaxing too much? you will still fail if you act lazy, yeah it is fun because it is less stressful but once you see yourself failing... it is not fun anymore.
It's all about doing what you can, it's all about putting yourself a little bit better than yesterday. Forget about making it perfect, forget about having a perfect and flawless record.... just do whatever it takes to win in life, try again, try one more time.
Some people are less talented but they just keep grinding. They just keep pushing forward and they are making results everyday, they don't care if it is hard, they will just do it, they were relentless... it looks like they are not getting tired.
There is a man who is already 90 years old but still keep working, he said that if he stop then he will die. Now I know that they key to living is simply moving and being relentless.
Some people died early because of laziness, they are always thinking, they are always worrying, their minds cannot think of something positive and that's why negativity is manifested to them even more.
Be relentless, just push and never stop. All you have to do is move, all you have to do is never stop taking actions.
Don't be afraid to become tired, never pace yourself... just push and push and push until you get some results. What is the point in slowing down? what is the point in relaxing too much? you will still fail if you act lazy, yeah it is fun because it is less stressful but once you see yourself failing... it is not fun anymore.
It's all about doing what you can, it's all about putting yourself a little bit better than yesterday. Forget about making it perfect, forget about having a perfect and flawless record.... just do whatever it takes to win in life, try again, try one more time.
Some people are less talented but they just keep grinding. They just keep pushing forward and they are making results everyday, they don't care if it is hard, they will just do it, they were relentless... it looks like they are not getting tired.
There is a man who is already 90 years old but still keep working, he said that if he stop then he will die. Now I know that they key to living is simply moving and being relentless.
Some people died early because of laziness, they are always thinking, they are always worrying, their minds cannot think of something positive and that's why negativity is manifested to them even more.
Be relentless, just push and never stop. All you have to do is move, all you have to do is never stop taking actions.
DO SOMETHING THAT WILL LESSEN THE PAIN
If you're a doctor and there is no available job yet in the moment, are you going to look for another job available? of course not because you're a doctor, you have a reputation to take care of, your ego is too high and you don't want other people mocking you. But what if you're really bleeding and you can't feed your family? what if you don't have any money left in your wallet? what if your family is getting hungrier everyday? are you still going to let your ego win? you have to lessen the pain a little bit, accept a job that is not related to doctor activities, just do it so you can earn some money. It is temporary, one day a job about doctor will open again and you can have it. But for the mean time you have to lessen the pain... just do something that is still decent and will give you some money, that is the best way to have a momentum in life. Do something that will lessen the pain, it is the best way to live life.
If you're a vegetarian and you don't have the money to buy vegetables and fruits because they are too expensive... just eat hotdogs and fries first, don't feel guilty, you need to stay a live and the only thing you can do to stay alive is by killing your ego and disobeying rules that you set for yourself, it's time to lessen the pain and take what is available in the refrigerator.
A lot of people can't survive because they let their egos take control, they don't take what is available, they take care their names too much and that is what makes them stuck. There is something you can do to lessen the pain, all you have to do is accept that you have to do it.
One day, your life will go back to normal again but for the mean time you have to do what you don't want to do to being back the life that you use to have.
If you're a vegetarian and you don't have the money to buy vegetables and fruits because they are too expensive... just eat hotdogs and fries first, don't feel guilty, you need to stay a live and the only thing you can do to stay alive is by killing your ego and disobeying rules that you set for yourself, it's time to lessen the pain and take what is available in the refrigerator.
A lot of people can't survive because they let their egos take control, they don't take what is available, they take care their names too much and that is what makes them stuck. There is something you can do to lessen the pain, all you have to do is accept that you have to do it.
One day, your life will go back to normal again but for the mean time you have to do what you don't want to do to being back the life that you use to have.
DON'T GO OUT JUST LIKE THAT
Don't just go out like that. If one day you're going to lose and fail.. make sure you're going to fight and give your best, make sure you will die to win, make sure you will make your opponent suffer. Make sure the universe will feel you, make sure you will have a grand exit.
If you're about to retire and quit... make sure everyone will remember you, make sure you will write something in history, write your name on the history books, tell them something they haven't heard before.
Don't just go out like that, never take anything for granted, use every second remaining and try to make it unforgettable. Because there are lot left remaining in your tank, you can still do something epic and turn things around. Just try to live every single day and try to give your very best. You can create miracles if you work hard, you can surprise people if you will never give up. If you have to lose then never lose without giving all you can.
If you will die then don't die in vain, don't die just like that. Fight, do something epic, do something memorable, try to inspire people.
BE THE PRESIDENT OF YOUR LIFE
Be the president of your own life, never let other people command you especially if you have great ideas and dreams, never let other people control you and make you submit to their own will. It is your life, are you going to let someone affect it and manipulate it?
Celebrate your life, never let it be used by other people, use it, make it epic. Lead your own life, be the leader and the follower.
A lot of people can't become happy because they want to be a leader but they let other people lead them. They never trust themselves, all they do is follow, they don't execute their own ideas. If you keep on pretending to be nice then nothing good will happen to you, you will just become a slave forever.
Unleash the beast in you, try your ideas, make your own company, do a lot of experimentation... fail as many times and never be afraid of trying again. Be your number one fan... fall in love with your works, never stop growing and never stop believing. Because if you will follow your own intuition then you will thrive, you will make a lot of mistakes but in the end you will discover what really works... and that is following your heart and going against the masses.
Make yourself big, bigger than yesterday, fall in love with the process and celebrate small progress everyday.
HOW I EARNED $3350 IN ONE MONTH
I know it's not a big cash, I know some people are looking it as small but the good thing is... it is true. I'm not like other gurus out there who will promise you that you can earn $10,000 or $20,000 in one month just to make you subscribe or buy their products. They will fool you just to get your attention.
I am proud that I earned $3350, I think it's the biggest that I have earned in my whole life in just one month, I am proud because I did it my way, I don't have any boss, it is legal, I created a lot of graphics online. I find a way, it is very hard because I almost died getting it, I am not sleeping, I am always working in front of my computer. I know that a lot of people will laugh at me because it is not that big but I am working super hard. But what can I do? it's the only thing I know... working hard and giving everything I've got. At least it gave me something, at least I produce results.
A lot of people out there are dreaming about big dollars but they don't want to work hard, they just want it, they just dream about it. You have to accept that you really need to work hard if you want to get something. Sometimes you will never get what you are expecting but at least you still get something.
Anyone can earn money if he will only work hard and and almost kill himself. You need to really become super tired if you want results. Because if you will not give your full effort then you will become disappointed even more. If you want to scratch the surface then you need to climb, you need to craw if you need to.
Don't think about how are you going to get it, just ask. Ask if they needed your service, look for something where you can earn and never stop working... the formula is very simple... work super hard and believe in yourself, stop thinking about what other people are saying or doing... just work hard and that's it. It has been said over and over again that hard work is they key but people are still looking for an easy way. You have nothing to lose if you work hard, you have everything to gain so just try it and get some results. Never trust people who are promising you an easy way... they are fraud, it is hard to earn money but it is so possible if you will only force yourself.
I am proud that I earned $3350, I think it's the biggest that I have earned in my whole life in just one month, I am proud because I did it my way, I don't have any boss, it is legal, I created a lot of graphics online. I find a way, it is very hard because I almost died getting it, I am not sleeping, I am always working in front of my computer. I know that a lot of people will laugh at me because it is not that big but I am working super hard. But what can I do? it's the only thing I know... working hard and giving everything I've got. At least it gave me something, at least I produce results.
A lot of people out there are dreaming about big dollars but they don't want to work hard, they just want it, they just dream about it. You have to accept that you really need to work hard if you want to get something. Sometimes you will never get what you are expecting but at least you still get something.
Anyone can earn money if he will only work hard and and almost kill himself. You need to really become super tired if you want results. Because if you will not give your full effort then you will become disappointed even more. If you want to scratch the surface then you need to climb, you need to craw if you need to.
Don't think about how are you going to get it, just ask. Ask if they needed your service, look for something where you can earn and never stop working... the formula is very simple... work super hard and believe in yourself, stop thinking about what other people are saying or doing... just work hard and that's it. It has been said over and over again that hard work is they key but people are still looking for an easy way. You have nothing to lose if you work hard, you have everything to gain so just try it and get some results. Never trust people who are promising you an easy way... they are fraud, it is hard to earn money but it is so possible if you will only force yourself.
HOW TO AVOID BEING A LOSER
Everybody wants to become a winner, everybody hates being a loser but you can never avoid a single lost, you can lose over and over again but if you keep trying then it means you're not a loser. It means you're a journey man and you will try a million times just to win one time.
Losing again and again will give you the knowledge that you need to become successful, it's not a shame to have a losing streak. Everyone will be trapped in rut, sometimes the momentum is hard to achieve but if you have the mindset of just keep moving forward no matter what... someday you will become successful too.
You will never avoid a loss, you will lose once in a while, what matters is you keep that fighting spirit alive. Be like a lion who never stop, you need to hunt for that meat everyday, you need to always stay hungry and alive. Never let depression kill you, you have to fight your emotions and thoughts that are telling you that you should stop. You can become unstoppable if you will never stop, always take one action at a time, baby steps... if that is all you need to do then do it.
A loser will become a loser if he will never try again, a loser is a loser if he will give up. If you have the ability to stand up and try again then you're not a loser.
Losing is all in the mind, if you already feel like a winner because of trying then you're already a winner, it's all about how you feel, sometimes trying will make you feel good... that is already the prize. just feel good trying and you will never feel like a loser again, just feel good giving your best and using all of your strength and knowledge.
Because the truth is...you need to lose a lot of times first before you become a winner, this is a journey, trust the process so you will see success.
Give your best no matter what, always give your best and never stop.
Losing again and again will give you the knowledge that you need to become successful, it's not a shame to have a losing streak. Everyone will be trapped in rut, sometimes the momentum is hard to achieve but if you have the mindset of just keep moving forward no matter what... someday you will become successful too.
You will never avoid a loss, you will lose once in a while, what matters is you keep that fighting spirit alive. Be like a lion who never stop, you need to hunt for that meat everyday, you need to always stay hungry and alive. Never let depression kill you, you have to fight your emotions and thoughts that are telling you that you should stop. You can become unstoppable if you will never stop, always take one action at a time, baby steps... if that is all you need to do then do it.
A loser will become a loser if he will never try again, a loser is a loser if he will give up. If you have the ability to stand up and try again then you're not a loser.
Losing is all in the mind, if you already feel like a winner because of trying then you're already a winner, it's all about how you feel, sometimes trying will make you feel good... that is already the prize. just feel good trying and you will never feel like a loser again, just feel good giving your best and using all of your strength and knowledge.
Because the truth is...you need to lose a lot of times first before you become a winner, this is a journey, trust the process so you will see success.
Give your best no matter what, always give your best and never stop.
WELCOME TO REALITY
Don't be disappointed if nobody helped you.... welcome to reality, this is life, it is hard and if you're down... you will go down even more if you will not help yourself. This is the reality... nobody will help you, if you're still strong, while you can still work... work hard and never stop, make yourself richer, wiser and stronger each day because just like I said... life is tough.
If you're too sensitive and emotional, if you will always complain and blame the world because it is mean... you will die fast, you will become weak, small problems will eat you alive. The world is mean, it is a nasty place, all you can do is enjoy its ugliness and go with the flow, don't let the world destroy you... you have to conquer it and create your own world inside of it, it's like having a new world inside a world. You have your own beliefs, own eco system, own process, own circle of friends, own boundaries, everything should be according to what you want. If nothing is serving you... strike it out.
You need to become tougher and better everyday because life is really tough, one day it will surprise you, one day it will give you a tough challenge and if you're not ready... you will be stunned, you will go crazy. You must have a game plan and strong mindset, whatever happen to you... you should have a counter strike.
The reality is harsh, you need to have a thick skin or else you will get lost, you need to be in control. Control your thoughts, control your emotions, execute your game plan, sometimes you really need to be selfish so that you will always have an advantage.
Life is hard, accept it. If you want to become easy then you need to build your own personal philosophy and live with it, follow it everyday and always go hard. Go harder and harder each day... it's the best way to make your life easier, entertain yourself with your goals, pursue it relentlessly and never stop until you become successful.
If you're too sensitive and emotional, if you will always complain and blame the world because it is mean... you will die fast, you will become weak, small problems will eat you alive. The world is mean, it is a nasty place, all you can do is enjoy its ugliness and go with the flow, don't let the world destroy you... you have to conquer it and create your own world inside of it, it's like having a new world inside a world. You have your own beliefs, own eco system, own process, own circle of friends, own boundaries, everything should be according to what you want. If nothing is serving you... strike it out.
You need to become tougher and better everyday because life is really tough, one day it will surprise you, one day it will give you a tough challenge and if you're not ready... you will be stunned, you will go crazy. You must have a game plan and strong mindset, whatever happen to you... you should have a counter strike.
The reality is harsh, you need to have a thick skin or else you will get lost, you need to be in control. Control your thoughts, control your emotions, execute your game plan, sometimes you really need to be selfish so that you will always have an advantage.
Life is hard, accept it. If you want to become easy then you need to build your own personal philosophy and live with it, follow it everyday and always go hard. Go harder and harder each day... it's the best way to make your life easier, entertain yourself with your goals, pursue it relentlessly and never stop until you become successful.
EVERYONE HAS HIS OWN STORY, BE CAREFUL
BE careful of what you are listening to... everyone has his own version of the story, everyone has a story to tell... if your mind is not bullet proof and can easily be influenced by different stories... you're in big trouble my friend.
Some random stranger will tell you how to become rich quick and if you are still a virgin in this kind of story... you will be amazed, you will join his program, you will hope that in just a week your money will double only to learn in the end that your money is already gone... you've been fooled.
Test it yourself first, investigate, think about it, study it... there are lot of jokers and clowns around... they have a hidden agenda and if your mind is too weak, it will be dominated by their ideas, your will get confused... they will make your will weak until you have no choice but to follow their orders.
Why don't you make a story on your own? why not pursue something relentlessly and make yourself the best in your field? it is possible if you will work super hard and give everything you got, put everything on the line and never stop until you become successful.
Your mind can be consumed easily with different ideas that the main agenda is to get your money or energy, its main purpose is to make you follow. If you're always following and listening to something then you will never succeed in life.
Follow your own intuition, follow your own ideas, make your own rules and implement them.
Creating your own story means creating your own life, it means you're trusting yourself and you are using any skill that you have.
Some random stranger will tell you how to become rich quick and if you are still a virgin in this kind of story... you will be amazed, you will join his program, you will hope that in just a week your money will double only to learn in the end that your money is already gone... you've been fooled.
Test it yourself first, investigate, think about it, study it... there are lot of jokers and clowns around... they have a hidden agenda and if your mind is too weak, it will be dominated by their ideas, your will get confused... they will make your will weak until you have no choice but to follow their orders.
Why don't you make a story on your own? why not pursue something relentlessly and make yourself the best in your field? it is possible if you will work super hard and give everything you got, put everything on the line and never stop until you become successful.
Your mind can be consumed easily with different ideas that the main agenda is to get your money or energy, its main purpose is to make you follow. If you're always following and listening to something then you will never succeed in life.
Follow your own intuition, follow your own ideas, make your own rules and implement them.
Creating your own story means creating your own life, it means you're trusting yourself and you are using any skill that you have.
FEAR OF MISSING SOMETHING, THE DISEASE THAT MAKES A PERSON DO STUPID MISTAKES
You always think that you will miss something, you always want to fit in, you always want to have what other people have. If there is a sale in the mall... you will buy it, even if you don't have a budget for it you will still buy it because you think that it's once in a life time opportunity, you think that if you can't buy it then you will never be able to save money. The truth it... even if it is 90% off you still didn't save any money because you still buy it, you still throw away money for it. You will buy it even if you don't need it... it's a big mistake. Poor people always fall into this trap... they are rushing, they are not patient. They will buy it because it's cheap, they don't know that it is making their lives going down.
You will not miss anything if you're always looking at the bigger picture. A lot of bums will run into a place where there is a big sale, some people will even fight for a 50% off television, people feels bad if they miss something that they think is for them.
Look at your life... it's already perfect, you already have what you need. Don't be afraid to miss out something, you will only feel bad by doing that.
Afraid to miss the concert, afraid to miss the free taste, afraid to miss your favorite television show, afraid to miss your friend's birthday party. What will you do if you really can't go to those events? you need to think right, use your time and energy for yourself, that's the best way to live a happier life.
Don't be afraid to miss any show... it's nothing, don't be afraid to miss something because in the first place... it's not yours.
Learn to let go... you don't have anything in this world to be honest, even your life... it is not yours.
So learn to feel good every moment, learn to celebrate life, appreciate what you have because it's enough. If you will always push yourself to get what you think is for you... you will do stupid mistakes.
You will not miss anything if you're always looking at the bigger picture. A lot of bums will run into a place where there is a big sale, some people will even fight for a 50% off television, people feels bad if they miss something that they think is for them.
Look at your life... it's already perfect, you already have what you need. Don't be afraid to miss out something, you will only feel bad by doing that.
Afraid to miss the concert, afraid to miss the free taste, afraid to miss your favorite television show, afraid to miss your friend's birthday party. What will you do if you really can't go to those events? you need to think right, use your time and energy for yourself, that's the best way to live a happier life.
Don't be afraid to miss any show... it's nothing, don't be afraid to miss something because in the first place... it's not yours.
Learn to let go... you don't have anything in this world to be honest, even your life... it is not yours.
So learn to feel good every moment, learn to celebrate life, appreciate what you have because it's enough. If you will always push yourself to get what you think is for you... you will do stupid mistakes.
REVERSAL OF FORTUNE
You can reverse your fortune now, all you have to do is work hard and do something different. Reverse your fortune now, do it, do it, do it. Use your power, I know it's hard but what do you want to do? stay the same like that forever?
Your fortune all depends on your, you are building your own story, you are the creator of your life. If you fail a lot of times in the past, it means you're doing something wrong with your life, it means you're not doing the right thing. There are lot of addicts out there who manage to change their bum lives, they use their will power to go back on the right track again, they became disciplined and committed, they never look back again, they just do it, they just take one positive action at a time.
REVERSE THE COURSE. Just because you're down now doesn't mean you can't go back again on top, all you need to do is think right, all you need to do is do whatever it takes to win again and that's it. Be patient and watch yourself grow, it takes time, it takes a very strong commitment to reverse the course but it is really possible if you stay committed and dedicated.
A lot of people will be shocked once they saw you different, they will wonder how were you able to do it.
So don't lose hope, try to motivate yourself everyday, just give your best and everything will change.
It's not over, it's never too late, you can still make a big comeback. Never think that your time has passed, there is always a chance, just give it a try, give yourself the chance to become successful.
Not all the time you will stay at the bottom, you can rise again if you will choose to. You can make a big improvement in your life if you will think different and take massive actions.
Your fortune all depends on your, you are building your own story, you are the creator of your life. If you fail a lot of times in the past, it means you're doing something wrong with your life, it means you're not doing the right thing. There are lot of addicts out there who manage to change their bum lives, they use their will power to go back on the right track again, they became disciplined and committed, they never look back again, they just do it, they just take one positive action at a time.
REVERSE THE COURSE. Just because you're down now doesn't mean you can't go back again on top, all you need to do is think right, all you need to do is do whatever it takes to win again and that's it. Be patient and watch yourself grow, it takes time, it takes a very strong commitment to reverse the course but it is really possible if you stay committed and dedicated.
A lot of people will be shocked once they saw you different, they will wonder how were you able to do it.
So don't lose hope, try to motivate yourself everyday, just give your best and everything will change.
It's not over, it's never too late, you can still make a big comeback. Never think that your time has passed, there is always a chance, just give it a try, give yourself the chance to become successful.
Not all the time you will stay at the bottom, you can rise again if you will choose to. You can make a big improvement in your life if you will think different and take massive actions.
Apr 26, 2018
DO YOU JUST WANT IT OR DO YOU WANT IT SO BAD?
The reason why you can't get it is because you just want it, you don't want it so bad, you are satisfied of not getting it, you are satisfied of just looking at it everyday without touching it. You are happy just dreaming about it, you are not giving yourself a chance to at least somehow be very close to it.
If you just want it then you will just talk about it, you are so happy talking your idea to your friends, you are happy impressing them with your visions without actions.
But if you want it so bad then you will do whatever it takes to get it, you will do everything just to be one step closer from it, you will climb the highest mountain and swim with the most dangerous sharks in a salty sea. You don't care at all, you don't mind getting hurt or failing, you will just do it because you want it so bad.
That's the biggest question... are you a doer or just a pretender? ask yourself honestly, you are the only who knows the true answer.
If you just want it then you will just talk about it, you are so happy talking your idea to your friends, you are happy impressing them with your visions without actions.
But if you want it so bad then you will do whatever it takes to get it, you will do everything just to be one step closer from it, you will climb the highest mountain and swim with the most dangerous sharks in a salty sea. You don't care at all, you don't mind getting hurt or failing, you will just do it because you want it so bad.
That's the biggest question... are you a doer or just a pretender? ask yourself honestly, you are the only who knows the true answer.
FOCUS ON SOMETHING THAT YOU WANT TO BELIEVE
If you want to believe it then focus on it, try to make the belief stronger everyday, test it, use it... make it your life, attached it into your system.
Believing is very powerful especially if it is unbreakable, if you believe in something too much then it will work, it will give you something, it will make you successful.
The reason why you can't make things happen is you're so focused on something that you don't want to believe, you're so focused on something that makes you weak.
Your belief may look unrealistic, it may look corny and impossible but if you will really believe it and apply it into your life... it will become very useful, it will change your world, it will give you anything. Start focusing on what you want to believe and change your life little by little, think about it everyday, use it, be consistent and try to amplify it every now and then.
Believing is very powerful especially if it is unbreakable, if you believe in something too much then it will work, it will give you something, it will make you successful.
The reason why you can't make things happen is you're so focused on something that you don't want to believe, you're so focused on something that makes you weak.
Your belief may look unrealistic, it may look corny and impossible but if you will really believe it and apply it into your life... it will become very useful, it will change your world, it will give you anything. Start focusing on what you want to believe and change your life little by little, think about it everyday, use it, be consistent and try to amplify it every now and then.
EVERYBODY IS JUDGING
There is no time for sensitivity nowadays, this world that is infested by social media... no one is safe, everyone will be judged. Even the celebrities were being judged despite of their almost perfect appearance. Even the religion, government and the most special individuals were being judged. It is normal, everybody is judging. If you got bullied today because of your appearance of performance... just laugh at it, it's nothing, it will soon be over, people will forget it. Everyone got bullied one time in their lives, it is nothing new. I know it's hard, I know that feeling sucks but it becomes worse because you attached something with it, you think that it's a big deal, you think that you're a victim.
You will be judged in the future even if you stop the judging now, you are not safe, the only way to make the judging weak is stop focusing on it, don't think about it. Ignore it and it will become super weak, people will forget it. And if you really can't take it then just move, just transfer, just go home... change your world, but if you have no choice then you need to fight back, you need to protect yourself... as simple as that, but if you have another choice that is less violent then take it.
Life is tough, really really tough, if it is not tough then it is not life. You will be judged every once in a while, don't try to control people, try to control your emotion. Stay calm as much as you can, stay relaxed and make them feel that you're not even affected. Once you stay calm, still and not feeling anything... that's the time you take over, they will fee your power, they will see that you're invincible.
You will be judged in the future even if you stop the judging now, you are not safe, the only way to make the judging weak is stop focusing on it, don't think about it. Ignore it and it will become super weak, people will forget it. And if you really can't take it then just move, just transfer, just go home... change your world, but if you have no choice then you need to fight back, you need to protect yourself... as simple as that, but if you have another choice that is less violent then take it.
Life is tough, really really tough, if it is not tough then it is not life. You will be judged every once in a while, don't try to control people, try to control your emotion. Stay calm as much as you can, stay relaxed and make them feel that you're not even affected. Once you stay calm, still and not feeling anything... that's the time you take over, they will fee your power, they will see that you're invincible.
THE WORLD WILL NEVER BECOME PERFECT EVEN IF YOU CORRECT IT
Correct everything you can, see every negativity around you, look at the past... blame yourself, point fingers to somebody why your world sucks... you can put a lot of hate, be strict and control everything but you can never change the fact that the world will never become perfect even if you change a lot of negativity in your surrounding. Your life will never become perfect... ever, all you can do is live it and accept it.
Focus on what you can control, that's the best way to become happy. You can correct a lot of flaws and teach the world how to live life but the world will still the same even if you try so hard, the world will never change even if you try to change it. How many powerful leaders have tried to change the world but it never changed. It may changed a little bit but it goes back to its original form.
The best thing to do is live your life how you want to live it, be the change that you want the world to be. It all starts in you, and even if they don't change so what? what's the big deal? it's not the end of the world, it's not the end of everything.
Focus on what you can control, that's the best way to become happy. You can correct a lot of flaws and teach the world how to live life but the world will still the same even if you try so hard, the world will never change even if you try to change it. How many powerful leaders have tried to change the world but it never changed. It may changed a little bit but it goes back to its original form.
The best thing to do is live your life how you want to live it, be the change that you want the world to be. It all starts in you, and even if they don't change so what? what's the big deal? it's not the end of the world, it's not the end of everything.
NOTHING IS DIFFICULT IF YOU WILL SET YOURSELF FREE
Nothing is difficult if you will just do it, nothing is hard if you will set yourself free.
Why is it so hard? because you're thinking too much, because you're worrying a lot, you're so slow because you're not setting yourself free. The key to a fast movement is to start right away, once you start it... you will finish it. Don't think about doing it right, just think about doing it. Life will become very hard if you will always think about what is wrong, there is now wrong if your intention is right, there is no wrong if you will not hesitate.
Just do it, the part with more resistance is in the beginning but once you break away from that stage... everything will be so smooth, it's easy as one 2 3, it's like eating a marshmallow even if you have no teeth at all.
Don't try to over think... keep in mind that once you feel hard... that's the time that you need to move, that's the time that you need to take action. Enjoy it because you will never live in this world forever. What you need to do.. do it, just challenge yourself, treat it a a game. The more you postponed something.... the more it will become harder.
Just like a goal, if you keep on postponing doing it... it will become farther from you, you will even think that it's too impossible. It feels impossible because you don't want to unleash yourself, you're always enjoying procrastination, you're always doubting yourself.
Difficulty is only in the mind. If you will just start and take a few actions every now and then... the task will become very easy.
You may get lost, you make commit some errors but that's just part of the process, don't feel bad about it and just keep moving forward.
Why is it so hard? because you're thinking too much, because you're worrying a lot, you're so slow because you're not setting yourself free. The key to a fast movement is to start right away, once you start it... you will finish it. Don't think about doing it right, just think about doing it. Life will become very hard if you will always think about what is wrong, there is now wrong if your intention is right, there is no wrong if you will not hesitate.
Just do it, the part with more resistance is in the beginning but once you break away from that stage... everything will be so smooth, it's easy as one 2 3, it's like eating a marshmallow even if you have no teeth at all.
Don't try to over think... keep in mind that once you feel hard... that's the time that you need to move, that's the time that you need to take action. Enjoy it because you will never live in this world forever. What you need to do.. do it, just challenge yourself, treat it a a game. The more you postponed something.... the more it will become harder.
Just like a goal, if you keep on postponing doing it... it will become farther from you, you will even think that it's too impossible. It feels impossible because you don't want to unleash yourself, you're always enjoying procrastination, you're always doubting yourself.
Difficulty is only in the mind. If you will just start and take a few actions every now and then... the task will become very easy.
You may get lost, you make commit some errors but that's just part of the process, don't feel bad about it and just keep moving forward.
WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT FEAR?
You think you know a lot about fear, you overrate it, you worship it, you're so scared of it. You're so worried, you always think that you can predict the future. You think that what you fear is sure to happen, you are not giving yourself the benefit of the doubt, you are so sure that something terrible will happen... you are giving fear too much respect. You are so sure that fear is right, you never give courage a chance to prove himself.
You think that you master fear so much to the point where you literally know everything about it. You trust your fear, you don't care about bravery anymore.
The truth is you don't know anything about fear, you are so stupid about it. You don't know that it's just an emotion, it's just a negative feeling that is tricking you and poisoning your mind. You don't know that fear is just an illusion, it's not real, you build it by entertaining negative thoughts, you build it because you're expecting perfection, you want a very comfortable life and if something looks wrong... your mind was already consumed by fears.
Don't ever think that you're an expert in fear, don't ever think that behind fear is danger, stop judging fear... it is not there to kill you nor harm you, it's just a signal that you need to be mindful of how you feel, it's just a sign that you need to relax and have a deep breathe.
Never wish that fear is not there, it will go away if you ignore it, you can master it by feeling it every now and then, stop creating an illusion that something is waiting to give you some trouble, enjoy life, enjoying fear means enjoying life, embracing negative emotions means you are living with the moment and you are ok with anything that is about to happen.
You think that you master fear so much to the point where you literally know everything about it. You trust your fear, you don't care about bravery anymore.
The truth is you don't know anything about fear, you are so stupid about it. You don't know that it's just an emotion, it's just a negative feeling that is tricking you and poisoning your mind. You don't know that fear is just an illusion, it's not real, you build it by entertaining negative thoughts, you build it because you're expecting perfection, you want a very comfortable life and if something looks wrong... your mind was already consumed by fears.
Don't ever think that you're an expert in fear, don't ever think that behind fear is danger, stop judging fear... it is not there to kill you nor harm you, it's just a signal that you need to be mindful of how you feel, it's just a sign that you need to relax and have a deep breathe.
Never wish that fear is not there, it will go away if you ignore it, you can master it by feeling it every now and then, stop creating an illusion that something is waiting to give you some trouble, enjoy life, enjoying fear means enjoying life, embracing negative emotions means you are living with the moment and you are ok with anything that is about to happen.
NEVER FORGET WHO YOU REALLY ARE
Just because someone got successful and you are failing... you immediately forget who you really are, just because a guru told you that you can't win by choosing your honest intuition doesn't mean you will not really succeed. Remember who you are, just because the stats of becoming successful is so scary and only little people become successful in a specific field doesn't mean you cannot be part of that elusive statistic... remember who you are and remember what you can do.
Remember all the adversities that you go through, remember how you climb just to put your life back on track, remember how you manage all of those negative emotions and maintain your sanity. Remember all the sufferings that you overcome... nobody can take all your experiences from you, you are tougher than what you think of yourself.
You have survived a lot of brig problems, problems that are bigger than what you're facing now... your resiliency is one of a kind, nothing can ever stop you.
Don't be amazed by those hypes and news, don't be overwhelmed by the situation... you're better than that. You already proved to yourself time and time again that you can survive anything, if you survive and thrive before then you can also thrive now.
Always keep that positive mindset strong, never let anything stop you or make you weak. Just because you are losing now doesn't mean you will lose again in the future, trust the process and be patient. Remember all of your strengths, remember all those challenges that you faced before that didn't even kill you, you almost got killed but there you are again... trying to become successful one more time. You're one of a kind, your mental toughness will put you to the top.
Remember all the adversities that you go through, remember how you climb just to put your life back on track, remember how you manage all of those negative emotions and maintain your sanity. Remember all the sufferings that you overcome... nobody can take all your experiences from you, you are tougher than what you think of yourself.
You have survived a lot of brig problems, problems that are bigger than what you're facing now... your resiliency is one of a kind, nothing can ever stop you.
Don't be amazed by those hypes and news, don't be overwhelmed by the situation... you're better than that. You already proved to yourself time and time again that you can survive anything, if you survive and thrive before then you can also thrive now.
Always keep that positive mindset strong, never let anything stop you or make you weak. Just because you are losing now doesn't mean you will lose again in the future, trust the process and be patient. Remember all of your strengths, remember all those challenges that you faced before that didn't even kill you, you almost got killed but there you are again... trying to become successful one more time. You're one of a kind, your mental toughness will put you to the top.
WHO IS ALBERT EINSTEIN?
Who is that weird scientist named Albert Einstein? who is he? what did he contribute to your life? did he inspire you? is he for real? did he really changed the world? nobody knows who he really is. There are some stories that he is a genus but I don't believe it why? because I just don't, I just don't feel believing him and nothing can change my belief. People may get mad at me but for real.... I don't really trust the guy.
He said that repeating something over and over again and expecting different result is insanity. That quote is discouraging, that quote is for the lazy people who doesn't believe in repetition. What if you're a boxer and you keep on repeating one thousand punches everyday? do you think your strength in punching will change? what if you repeat doing 100 push ups a day?
His quote is not widely explained, that is a popular quote but it has a flaw, it's blinding people. Sometimes all you have to do is repeat something even if it is not giving you results. Sometimes all you have to do is be resilient and results will come to you naturally.
What if you're not being used by your coach in a game because you lack the skill? and then one day you decided to repeat 1000 shots a day? what do you think will happen?
Repeat something for a million times... do it and let's see if you can't become good at it, let's see if you can't become successful. Repetition is genius but the genius Einstein is against it. The conclusion is... never believe all people, if you have an idea... follow it, follow it even if the world is against it. Because you feel something about it and you need to test it for yourself. A lot of people nowadays will judge you, they will be against you especially if you are doing something that is weird. Follow your own process, develop your own timing and technique... the law of physics is not perfect, you can make your own rules by simply being confident and hard worker.
He said that repeating something over and over again and expecting different result is insanity. That quote is discouraging, that quote is for the lazy people who doesn't believe in repetition. What if you're a boxer and you keep on repeating one thousand punches everyday? do you think your strength in punching will change? what if you repeat doing 100 push ups a day?
His quote is not widely explained, that is a popular quote but it has a flaw, it's blinding people. Sometimes all you have to do is repeat something even if it is not giving you results. Sometimes all you have to do is be resilient and results will come to you naturally.
What if you're not being used by your coach in a game because you lack the skill? and then one day you decided to repeat 1000 shots a day? what do you think will happen?
Repeat something for a million times... do it and let's see if you can't become good at it, let's see if you can't become successful. Repetition is genius but the genius Einstein is against it. The conclusion is... never believe all people, if you have an idea... follow it, follow it even if the world is against it. Because you feel something about it and you need to test it for yourself. A lot of people nowadays will judge you, they will be against you especially if you are doing something that is weird. Follow your own process, develop your own timing and technique... the law of physics is not perfect, you can make your own rules by simply being confident and hard worker.
Apr 25, 2018
THIS IS WHERE YOU ARE GOOD AT
This is where you are good at... making a comeback, making miracles because of perseverance. You have an iron will that cannot be bend. You are afraid of big challenges but you still face them. You were fazed but you can still win the race.
You are good in sticking with it and winning it, you're not afraid of anything anymore. You just know that you can outlast anything even if the challenge is so hard, you're not afraid to lose, you're not afraid of looking like dumb because of trying so hard.
You understand that the situation is hard but you know that it will end. You never think about quitting, all you know is that you have to keep going even if the going is so hard. You just have this indomitable spirit that will never die, it grows within you, you have it forever. No matter what happens... it will stay with you.
You are a fighter, nothing can shake you, nothing can bother you... ever. You're not too offensive, you're not too loud but deep inside you know that you can handle everything, you know that you're not an ordinary human being.
You feel good during pressure situations, you're good in living with the moment. You know that pressure situations never last, it's just there to test you. You love challenges, you know that they are there to make you stronger, tougher and better.
Handling your emotions, handling your thoughts, controlling what you can control and not rushing everything... this is where you're good at.
You know that feeling good is not the priority, doing the right thing is.
You are good in sticking with it and winning it, you're not afraid of anything anymore. You just know that you can outlast anything even if the challenge is so hard, you're not afraid to lose, you're not afraid of looking like dumb because of trying so hard.
You understand that the situation is hard but you know that it will end. You never think about quitting, all you know is that you have to keep going even if the going is so hard. You just have this indomitable spirit that will never die, it grows within you, you have it forever. No matter what happens... it will stay with you.
You are a fighter, nothing can shake you, nothing can bother you... ever. You're not too offensive, you're not too loud but deep inside you know that you can handle everything, you know that you're not an ordinary human being.
You feel good during pressure situations, you're good in living with the moment. You know that pressure situations never last, it's just there to test you. You love challenges, you know that they are there to make you stronger, tougher and better.
Handling your emotions, handling your thoughts, controlling what you can control and not rushing everything... this is where you're good at.
You know that feeling good is not the priority, doing the right thing is.
I AM A LEGIT WRITER AND A MUSICIAN
WHY? because I keep on writing over and over again even if the world isn't paying, I keep on creating music even if there is no company to give me a record contract. I just don't care, I am a legit, eve if the world doesn't love my work, even if they don't accept it... I will keep on making arts. Writing makes me feel free, strumming the guitar gives a high that doesn't get low. I know that my skills were not enough to entertain the world but they are enough to entertain myself and keep my sanity in the right place.
I am so passionate I will never stop, nothing can tell me stop... this train keeps on moving forward no matter what. I am not searching for popularity or something, I just wanted to do it without expecting anything in return. I do it because I love it, I do it because it entertain me, it's a hobby and at the same time an unremovable habit. The passion is burning, the excitement keeps on rising every time I write stories and music.
My works are all original, it is living in the moment, you don't need to repeat it anymore once you read it or listen to it. I never check my works... ever, what comes out from my brain and my hands.. I will never change it, even if my works sucks... I will never change it.
I am not here to please people, I am here to please myself. I will keep on playing forever.
I am so passionate I will never stop, nothing can tell me stop... this train keeps on moving forward no matter what. I am not searching for popularity or something, I just wanted to do it without expecting anything in return. I do it because I love it, I do it because it entertain me, it's a hobby and at the same time an unremovable habit. The passion is burning, the excitement keeps on rising every time I write stories and music.
My works are all original, it is living in the moment, you don't need to repeat it anymore once you read it or listen to it. I never check my works... ever, what comes out from my brain and my hands.. I will never change it, even if my works sucks... I will never change it.
I am not here to please people, I am here to please myself. I will keep on playing forever.
Apr 24, 2018
YOU HAVE TO PLAY WITH IT
You have to play with it, even if the game is going ugly... you still have to play with it. Just like in stocks, the price will go up and down, you will lose some money and you will gain some.... even if it is really depressing, you still have to play with it.
Always look forward to win, never think about being a failure, always remember that if you're giving your best then you will never become a loser in the end. You will learn a lot of lesson, you will be able to learn some tricks that will give you some advantage.
This game of life... it's not all about winning, it's not all about being comfortable and getting what you want every now and then, it's not about looking like a champion or something. It's about playing it even if you don't want to play anymore, have fun with difficult situations, have fun with facing challenges, have fun with stress because you can only grow through stress. Just like a baby coming out from her mother... that baby is facing a lot of stress, he is suffering but that's just part of the process, it is what it is.
Always look at your vision. Never mind what is going on, if you're losing a lot then keep losing but don't make the same mistakes again.
Trust me.. yours situation will change in just a matter of time, all you have to do is endure it, raise your mental power and keep moving forward. Remember that it's not all about winning, it's about outlasting every challenges in life, it's about standing still even if the world is against you, even if the world is punishing you. This is just a game, it's challenging but it's worth it. You have to know how to play it, you have to know how to make it work. Just win little by little... be patient and play until the end.
Always look forward to win, never think about being a failure, always remember that if you're giving your best then you will never become a loser in the end. You will learn a lot of lesson, you will be able to learn some tricks that will give you some advantage.
This game of life... it's not all about winning, it's not all about being comfortable and getting what you want every now and then, it's not about looking like a champion or something. It's about playing it even if you don't want to play anymore, have fun with difficult situations, have fun with facing challenges, have fun with stress because you can only grow through stress. Just like a baby coming out from her mother... that baby is facing a lot of stress, he is suffering but that's just part of the process, it is what it is.
Always look at your vision. Never mind what is going on, if you're losing a lot then keep losing but don't make the same mistakes again.
Trust me.. yours situation will change in just a matter of time, all you have to do is endure it, raise your mental power and keep moving forward. Remember that it's not all about winning, it's about outlasting every challenges in life, it's about standing still even if the world is against you, even if the world is punishing you. This is just a game, it's challenging but it's worth it. You have to know how to play it, you have to know how to make it work. Just win little by little... be patient and play until the end.
Apr 23, 2018
LOSE A LOT BUT WIN BIG TIME
If you want to win big time... you must lose a lot, you must keep pushing forward even if you keep on losing time and time again. A lot of successful people have lost a lot in the beginning but they never lose hope, they keep on pushing forward even if it really hurts so bad, even if it really sucks because people are laughing at them because they can't get results.
Lose a lot in the beginning, cry a lot, mourn a lot... that will make you hard, that will make you go hard. That anger because of losing will put you on fire, you will become unstoppable, you will do impossible things that you thought was not possible before.
The big prize is always in the end, you will never find it in the beginning... it's always in the end, just trust the process and keep moving forward, never stop, never change directions. Keep on losing and keep working hard... that's how to win in life.
So stop thinking about the number of losses that you have, just try again next time, try again tomorrow, try again and never get tired of trying. That success will fall into your hands one day, you will be able to embrace it, it will submit to your will.
Lose a lot in the beginning, cry a lot, mourn a lot... that will make you hard, that will make you go hard. That anger because of losing will put you on fire, you will become unstoppable, you will do impossible things that you thought was not possible before.
The big prize is always in the end, you will never find it in the beginning... it's always in the end, just trust the process and keep moving forward, never stop, never change directions. Keep on losing and keep working hard... that's how to win in life.
So stop thinking about the number of losses that you have, just try again next time, try again tomorrow, try again and never get tired of trying. That success will fall into your hands one day, you will be able to embrace it, it will submit to your will.
Apr 22, 2018
THE WINNING SPOT WILL ROTATE
This for sure... the winning position will change, if the Chicago Bulls were champions before and the Philadelphia Sixers were losers before... look at the position now, the Sixers were winning... the become the more dangerous team.
This belief can be applied in your life too, just because your team or place is losing doesn't mean you're going to lose forever. Just because your family is a loser before doesn't mean you will never be able to go to the top. Just persevere and work hard... life changes fast, the momentum changes day by day, you never know what may happen next.
Stay focus on your dreams, sometimes it's all about outlasting everyone until you find yourself the only person standing up for what you believe in.
The victory will not only stay in one house, it is not permanent, it may visit your house one day and if success is showing its shadow... you must be prepare to embrace it, you must be willing to give everything you got so it won't escape.
Just keep waiting and grinding, your situation will change in just a matter of time.
This belief can be applied in your life too, just because your team or place is losing doesn't mean you're going to lose forever. Just because your family is a loser before doesn't mean you will never be able to go to the top. Just persevere and work hard... life changes fast, the momentum changes day by day, you never know what may happen next.
Stay focus on your dreams, sometimes it's all about outlasting everyone until you find yourself the only person standing up for what you believe in.
The victory will not only stay in one house, it is not permanent, it may visit your house one day and if success is showing its shadow... you must be prepare to embrace it, you must be willing to give everything you got so it won't escape.
Just keep waiting and grinding, your situation will change in just a matter of time.
Apr 21, 2018
YOU WILL ONLY KNOW THE LESSON IN THE END
Try it, don't be afraid to try it... always remember that you need to learn the lesson. Even if you fail, even if you get embarrassed... you will still learn something.
Don't be so arrogant that you already know it, don't ever think that you can make it right on the first try. Nobody can make it on the first try, you have to learn and you can only learn in the end... when the mistakes and failures already happened.
It's not all about winning, it's about learning to win. You have to learn in the end and start winning after it.
Never hesitate to try something, never hesitate to roll the dice. Life is more fun if you will make a lot of mistakes, just enjoy it, enjoy being lost... you will find yourself in the end if you're persevering and really working hard.
So if you can't find the logic of what you're doing... keep doing it, you will learn as the time goes by, don't rush, be patient and your mind will expand. You will gain a lot of experience, you will become master and will make better decisions tomorrow.
There is no lesson in the beginning, it only happens in the end so be ready to squeeze every information that you can squeeze.
The right lessons will be served to you, you can use it to make good judgement in the future.
FAILING IS HARDER AND MORE BITTER THAN BEING SUCCESSFUL
A lot of people think that doing nothing is easier than doing everything. If you're not busy, if you're not doing something to make your life better then you will go crazy, you will get lost, you don't know where to go, you don't know what to do. You will feel weak and powerless, you want to do something or achieve something but you can't do it.
To be honest, moving and failing again and again is better than not moving at all. If you're not moving then you will become depressed, you will feel sick but if you are moving... your mind will become very busy and you will forget that your life is not progressing.
If you fail because you're not taking actions then you're really a failure but if you're failing but you're giving your best then you're not failing at all, you're just on the process. And you will get there, if you keep moving forward then you will get there. Just trust the process, trust that the universe is also working for you, trust that what you want is looking for you too.
If you're not taking actions, if you're not looking for small progress everyday... you will go insane, you feel like you have a problem that you can't identify. The funny thing is.. you will always promise yourself to take actions tomorrow but you will never do it. The pain grows stronger and stronger every time you procrastinate, the funnier thing is you think that your life will change without doing anything.
And if you can't see the change takes place... you will blame something, you will blame the government, people around you etc. Failing is hard because you know that you're going to fail right from the start, you know that pain is about to come and the cycle repeats itself. But if you will force yourself to become successful.... everything will be easier, it's only hard in the beginning but once you learned the pattern... everything will be in a breeze.
To be honest, moving and failing again and again is better than not moving at all. If you're not moving then you will become depressed, you will feel sick but if you are moving... your mind will become very busy and you will forget that your life is not progressing.
If you fail because you're not taking actions then you're really a failure but if you're failing but you're giving your best then you're not failing at all, you're just on the process. And you will get there, if you keep moving forward then you will get there. Just trust the process, trust that the universe is also working for you, trust that what you want is looking for you too.
If you're not taking actions, if you're not looking for small progress everyday... you will go insane, you feel like you have a problem that you can't identify. The funny thing is.. you will always promise yourself to take actions tomorrow but you will never do it. The pain grows stronger and stronger every time you procrastinate, the funnier thing is you think that your life will change without doing anything.
And if you can't see the change takes place... you will blame something, you will blame the government, people around you etc. Failing is hard because you know that you're going to fail right from the start, you know that pain is about to come and the cycle repeats itself. But if you will force yourself to become successful.... everything will be easier, it's only hard in the beginning but once you learned the pattern... everything will be in a breeze.
Apr 20, 2018
THE RISK OF TRYING HARD TO BECOME UNIQUE
Everyone wants to become unique, it's because they will get noticed, they will get appreciation from other people. But there's a huge risk if you're trying to become super unique... you are not being yourself anymore, you are so focused on what other people thinks of you, are moving because you are trying to impress them, you don't feel good about yourself anymore because you have to meet their standards.
Some people are forcing themselves to behave they way they don't normally behave, they wear clothes that they don't really like just to stand out, they are trying so hard, they speak differently not because they are different but because they want to look cool.
Just be yourself and you will unique, if you are really true to yourself and you're not hiding anything then people will accept you, people will see the beauty in you. Trying so hard will make you look rude, arrogant, loud and out of timing.
That's why some people in the entertainment cannot succeed... they are trying so hard, they want to market themselves so they will fake everything in their lives.
Some people are forcing themselves to behave they way they don't normally behave, they wear clothes that they don't really like just to stand out, they are trying so hard, they speak differently not because they are different but because they want to look cool.
Just be yourself and you will unique, if you are really true to yourself and you're not hiding anything then people will accept you, people will see the beauty in you. Trying so hard will make you look rude, arrogant, loud and out of timing.
That's why some people in the entertainment cannot succeed... they are trying so hard, they want to market themselves so they will fake everything in their lives.
HOW TO KILL WORRYING FOREVER
Worrying is a pain in the ass... a real pain, it is killing you little by little, it is making you sick, it is a traitor. It is giving you thoughts that are making you unproductive, it is poisoning your mind and you can't do anything about it because you're not moving, you decide to just think about it, you're not focusing on what you can control anymore.
If you want to kill worries forever... keep yourself busy... just do something, be active, never rest, never let your mind think for a second.
The trick here is to entertain yourself and forget the time. Time is getting slower and slower every time you worry. Learn to do something positive. Sweep the floor, wash the dishes, draw a cartoon, count your money, sing, dance... just do something that will avoid your mind from thinking, keep yourself super busy. It is better if what you will do will give you benefits in the future. Create solutions, discover some techniques to make your skill better.
If you have a problem then solve it little by little by being busy, do something that will make the problem light, don't try to solve it fast, solve it gradually... take your time, have fun solving it. Don't ever try to do stupid things that will make your problems bigger... you will worry even more if you do that.
Any positive activity will keep your mind from worrying. And if you really can't stop worrying... think deeply, ask yourself... is your problem going to kill you? is it the end of the world? will worrying too much gonna help you? Answer yourself honestly and once you feel good because of you discover that the answer is very simple... start taking actions again.
If you want to kill worries forever... keep yourself busy... just do something, be active, never rest, never let your mind think for a second.
The trick here is to entertain yourself and forget the time. Time is getting slower and slower every time you worry. Learn to do something positive. Sweep the floor, wash the dishes, draw a cartoon, count your money, sing, dance... just do something that will avoid your mind from thinking, keep yourself super busy. It is better if what you will do will give you benefits in the future. Create solutions, discover some techniques to make your skill better.
If you have a problem then solve it little by little by being busy, do something that will make the problem light, don't try to solve it fast, solve it gradually... take your time, have fun solving it. Don't ever try to do stupid things that will make your problems bigger... you will worry even more if you do that.
Any positive activity will keep your mind from worrying. And if you really can't stop worrying... think deeply, ask yourself... is your problem going to kill you? is it the end of the world? will worrying too much gonna help you? Answer yourself honestly and once you feel good because of you discover that the answer is very simple... start taking actions again.
DON'T BE BLINDED BY THE RESULT, NEVER SHORTCUT THE PROCESS
The moment you short cut the process is the start of your failure. Never focus on the result, focus on the journey itself, enjoying the journey is the trick to become successful, if you can find ways how to enjoy the process and avoid getting bored with repetition then you will become successful, as simple as that.
It make take years, decades or forever but if you can have fun with anything that you do then you're already a winner. Don't be scared of missing out some things that other have. If they can get it fast don't be afraid of getting it slow. You have your own timing, your time will come if you will work hard for everything that you want.
Focusing on the results will make you quit earlier than expected, if you can't see yourself succeeding you will go the other way, you will look for an easier path that you don't really like, you think you like it because it's giving you something that is missing while pursuing your original goal.
Always checking for results will make you feel bad if you can't see something positive. You will feel betrayed, you will feel that the world is so unfair because you're so working hard but you can't see any reward from what you're doing.
Even if the process is so long and hard, you don't have any choice but to do it. Quitting and starting all over again will only make life harder than before, you are just fooling yourself if you will start something new because when the going gets tough.... you will quit again. You will look for the easy exit again, your cycle will never stop, you're becoming a quitter time and time again. It's becoming your habit, it's already in your system, it's already in your pattern, it is embedded in your mind. The more you quit... the more you become a loser... a big time loser. So enjoy the process now and never look for results, you will be rewarded if you will be rewarded. What will happen will happen, just trust the process and learn how to enjoy it even if it's so boring.
It make take years, decades or forever but if you can have fun with anything that you do then you're already a winner. Don't be scared of missing out some things that other have. If they can get it fast don't be afraid of getting it slow. You have your own timing, your time will come if you will work hard for everything that you want.
Focusing on the results will make you quit earlier than expected, if you can't see yourself succeeding you will go the other way, you will look for an easier path that you don't really like, you think you like it because it's giving you something that is missing while pursuing your original goal.
Always checking for results will make you feel bad if you can't see something positive. You will feel betrayed, you will feel that the world is so unfair because you're so working hard but you can't see any reward from what you're doing.
Even if the process is so long and hard, you don't have any choice but to do it. Quitting and starting all over again will only make life harder than before, you are just fooling yourself if you will start something new because when the going gets tough.... you will quit again. You will look for the easy exit again, your cycle will never stop, you're becoming a quitter time and time again. It's becoming your habit, it's already in your system, it's already in your pattern, it is embedded in your mind. The more you quit... the more you become a loser... a big time loser. So enjoy the process now and never look for results, you will be rewarded if you will be rewarded. What will happen will happen, just trust the process and learn how to enjoy it even if it's so boring.
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