YOU WILL ONLY GET HUMILIATED FOR TEN SECONDS

If you ask someone on a date and she rejected you... don't feel bad because you only got humiliated for ten seconds, you will only feel bad for ten seconds, after the simple asking and answering... she will walk away. It feels like nothing happened, it seems like it's just a simple question and answer portion and that's it. It is not even a big deal, the money in your pocket didn't diminished.

If you ask your professor a silly question and he answered you sarcastically... don't feel bad, don't feel low because the class will only laugh for ten seconds or let's say maybe it will last for a minute but it will not last for so long. Never let your confidence go down, what matters is you express yourself and you have the courage to ask. A lot of students cannot even ask even though they want to know something from the professor, they were so scare that they might look stupid. The reality is... you will look stupid even more if you will not ask.

You should ask or else you will not know the answer, you should express yourself and do what you need to do in order to get some results. the results may not look good as you are expecting it but at least you release the resistance of holding yourself back.

Any humiliation will only last for ten seconds, twenty seconds but the time span of humiliation depends on you. If you don't feel anything about it then it will not affect you, it will not even make you blush. The key here is to always stay cool even if people are laughing, always stay calm even if you made a mistake, don't feel bad if you've been rejected because it is normal, it is not a big deal.

Keep expressing and living life because that is what life is all about. You need to ask, you need to try or else the answer will always be no.