Jul 24, 2017

FAKE THE COURAGE IF YOU DON'T HAVE IT

Just fake it, just pretend that you have it, stand straight, speak up, express yourself and be who you really are.

Courage is not the absence of fear but it is the ability to act despite of having fear. You can fake it by simply moving and making decisions and then just simply going with the flow. Keep yourself calm, try to stay relaxed as much as possible and simply enjoy what is going on.

The funny thing is... people doesn't even know if you are scared or not if you are calm, relaxed and poised. So you are allowed to fake courage until it becomes real. Just keep taking actions and making decisions and your courage will become real.

So if you're scared like a gazelle whose chase by a lion... learn to fake courage. Just step up and man up. The only thing you have to do is stand for what you believe in and never change your decision. Whatever happens...stay calm and never produce a scary voice. The key here is to always be in a moment and just embrace whatever it is that you feel.

Anything can be faked including courage, products can be faked, feelings can be faked, toughness can be faked. The more you fake it, the more it will become real.

So have the courage to fake courage and you will be courageous. The only way to beat fear is to feel fear, there is no other way around. You are free to have the authority, having the courage is a choice.

There are some people who looks confident but deep inside they are not, they are just good in hiding their fears and pretending to be courageous but the truth is they are scared too. And they get away with it, they even become successful by faking courage.


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