JUST PRETEND THAT YOU'RE NOT AFFECTED

If you want to look strong, unshakable and invincible... pretend that you're not affected. If someone criticized you or said something not nice to you.. pretend that you're not affected, don't speak, don't retaliate... just keep doing what you're doing and let the smoke clears out, as simple as that.

You will look so strong if you're so still and calm. Other people will be impressed at you if you can maintain your composure no matter what happens to your surrounding.

If you can pretend that you're not affected then your confidence will go high, you will be able to make the right decisions and think the right way during pressure times. It's like feeling invincible and nothing can hurt you emotionally and physically.

The key here it is to always stay calm and never put yourself in a panic mode or beast mode. Don't get angry, just enjoy blocking the negativity that is trying to enter your system. If you can avoid being emotional then you're always in control. It's like having an invisible force field protecting you and they can't touch you no matter what.

The good thing about this style is... in the long run you will not pretend that you're not affected anymore, you will be able to master it and you will really not be affected anymore, nothing can make you feel bad anymore, your mental toughness has elevated and your emotions were always in check.

Because the truth is... no one can hurt you if you are mentally tough, no one can affect you if you're focus on how you feel. If you have a thick skin... even if people were so harsh at you... all they can do is shut up in the long run because they will see that you're so strong and you are not giving them any attention at all.

You should only be affected by the things that really matters, not with those stupid things that will not even contribute to your growth.