Aug 9, 2024

THEY DON'T LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO VALUE




Don't you get it? can't you feel it? they don't like you because you have a little value or no value at all. You're not strong, you don't have the skills needed at the moment, you don't have an impact, you're a liability, you don't have anything to offer and that is why they don't like you. If you possess the skills that they needed then you will become valuable, it's not about the money, it's not about the talent or appeal... it's about having something that people can use. They don't like you because you don't possess anything, you're not fast, you're not strong, you're not witty, all you have is yourself, all you have is your availability which everyone can do. You don't have something that is rare and extraordinary. You're not a needle mover, you can't handle a simple problem, they're not confident when you're around because you're not making the group look better. 

THE EASIEST WAY TO INCREASE YOUR VALUE

Very simple, work hard and never give up. Possess that spirit, create that strength that people can rely on... that is how to become valuable. Be the hardest worker in your group and you immediately elevated your status. If you can do what they can't do then you're already on top. It's about getting better everyday, believe in the power of consistency, believe that everything you do to get better is working and making you a different kind of animal. You can become what you wanted to be if you will just give more time for the process. This is too easy if you will just give it a try. Time is your ally if you will start now, time is fast, you will get better fast if you're doing something everyday. One month can make results, it can make a small progress, three months will make an impact and a year will give you so much power and confidence. This is not about getting the results, it's about embracing the process and slowly transforming yourself into a better individual. 

They will like you if you are stronger and can help the group in some ways. Your value will increase if you have something that they don't have. It can be a skill, resources, contact or anything that makes the group stronger and comfortable, they will hate you if you're being a burden. If you are weak then nobody will like you, nobody will welcome you. 

MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT BEING ABUSED

You must be in control here because you are valuable, don't let them abuse you just because you want them to like you. Stop thinking that you need to be liked, stop looking for attention and just be yourself. Your value will increase if you are being yourself and prioritizing yourself. Stop being available all the time, stop granting what they want so fast and always think if giving them a favor will also give you something in return. Just make sure they are not using you or commanding you all the time, you can feel it if they are just using you when they needed you. Remember, you already have a high value, there is no point in following them because you don't need them, they need you and you can carry yourself alone. At the end of the day you know if you are being used or not, you know if someone is being an abuser. You will feel it, once you feel it... detach yourself from that person immediately. Ignore him, treat him cold, make him guess. Don't give him any favors, make excuses if he is asking something from you, don't reply, pretend that you don't know that he is contacting you. 

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