If you are willing to live life, if you're willing to embrace the moment, if you know that it is a journey then you don't need to ask anymore. You don't need to look for validation, you don't need someone to ask for permission if you're doing the right thing, you don't need to look for power form others, you don't need help, you don't need the right answers. Life is composed of rights and wrongs, it's ups and downs, it's easy and hard. Most people were asking because they don't want to experience difficulty, they want to be sure, they want guarantees. Some people already knew the answer but they're still asking.
If you're willing to live you will open yourself to any kind of experience. You will open yourself to fear, defeats, embarrassments, mistakes and pain. Of course you are also open to happiness and bliss. That is what life is all about... it's a rollercoaster and full of surprises. You don't need to ask if you're willing to welcome everything. You don't need to ask if your opponent is strong, you don't need to ask if the job is easy, you don't need to ask if it is traffic out there, you don't need to ask if a girl loves you, you don't need to ask if you can make it or not. Life is really like that, just trust life, it may disappoint you or help you but at the end of the day that is what is life is all about... you never know what is right or wrong, what is sure or not, trust the unknown because that is how to enjoy life. You will become happier if you're willing to embrace everything that will come to your life. There is no positive or negative, every experience is still part of your life, it's your judgement that makes it bad or nice. If you're willing to live then you're willing to embrace everything including pain, you will never complain about life, you will welcome the ups and downs, even the danger... you will never be scared of it because you knew that there is a reward when you face it. Take more risks, embrace life, you don't need to know everything, you don't need to be sure if you're willing to live.
Life is not about being perfect, it's about embracing the imperfections and enjoying it, it's about trying to squeeze something from adversity and challenges. It's about knowing the lessons from difficulties and applying it to your daily life. If you can master handling any kind of adversity then you will become a very powerful human being. The truth is you can survive anything, just stop complaining and keep moving forward. Nothing can kill you, nothing can hold you down forever. You can rise up anytime you want to, you can make a comeback, you can defeat your problems. It's just a matter of mindset, it's just a matter of doing whatever it takes to survive. You don't need to give up, giving up is for losers, you're already a winner when you don't give up.
DESTROY ALL OF YOUR SELF HELP BOOKS
it's not helping at all, it's only wasting your time because you are delaying your actions while listening to it. You can start now, live your life, stop avoiding failures because that is the key to success, stop avoiding pain because that is the key to happiness. After pain is bliss and joy, after failure is success and victories. This is a yin and yang world, you can never become happy without knowing how it feels to become sad. All those self help books were useless if you will not live your life. Allow yourself to become wounded and problematic but never give up, you can heal, you can make a comeback, nothing can stop you.
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