It made you feel bad, it made you feel like a loser, you feel you missed something because you value it too much, you are giving it too much power over your mentality. You are thinking that it's the only way to happiness, you think that your world revolves around it. But if you will learn to devalue it and just ignore it... it will never control you anymore, you will be able to take your power back. You think that something it too important that's why you can't make a move and do something about it, that's why you're so afraid to lose it, you're so afraid that you might make a mistake and might not get it. You already lost your freedom every time you think that something is too important in your life. Stop valuing that girl, money, TV program, person, even, concert, post, shoes, car etc. You need to put your mind into a state of abundance, you can always replace anything if you want, there are plenty of options everyday, you just need to focus on yourself first. Prioritize your growth and development, focus on trying to get better everyday and you will get anything you want, as simple as that. The problem with you is you have a scarcity mindset, you think that what is available is the only thing that will be available, you think that you need to get what you want right away, you think that it is the only person or thing that will make you happy. And that's why you can't get it, you must come from a place of abundance if you want to get anything and win in life. Don't ever think that what you want is the best, there is something better waiting for you, stop being needy and stop rushing just to get what you want because it's not giving you any favor. The girl will not like you if you are desperate, you will fail your exam if you choose your favorite TV program over studying, you will become broke if a sale item is controlling you all the time, you will be distracted if you always wanted to go to a party thinking it is the best party that will happen in your life. You have to think the right way, never think that something is too valuable for you to miss, never think that nothing better is waiting for you, you have to learn to say no, learn to control your feelings and never let anything make you feel less. Never get desperate trying to get something that is really not important in your life.
YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT
If a girl doesn't like you so be it, never chase her, never make her feel that you are desperate to get here. If you can't buy a sale item because you have to pay bills so be it, choose paying bill so that you won't have any problems in the future, if an award was not given to you but you deserve it so be it, never crave for any attention, you know who you are, you are only making yourself look bad by trying to create a drama. Stop playing a victim role, you need to control your emotions and act cold, you need to show the world that you are immovable and nothing can hurt you. Never value something or someone tooo much to the point where you're becoming weak and looking like a poor kid, you need to think the right way and handle your emotions very well. You will reclaim your power back, you will be in control if you will learn how to devalue anything. If you can't get it so what? if you can't watch your favorite TV show so what? prioritize the main thing first, prioritize what is the best decision for your life.
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