Trying to change their minds means pleasing them, impressing them and giving them away your power. You don't need to change their minds, what they think of you is none of your business, you are not supposed to be liked, you are suppose to be yourself and never let anything affect your beliefs and philosophy. They can think whatever they wanted to think, let them be and never feel bad if they don't like you or not impressed at you. Those people are so ordinary, they can laugh at you or criticize you but if you don't let it get into your head then they will become powerless. Once you're concerned about their thoughts about you you immediately lose your power, you immediately lose your freedom, they immediately become your master and you're the slave, do you want that? So what if you're not good to their eyes? so what if they don't like you? you don't even know them, they're not even related to you, they will not even help you when you're down and struggling, they will never pay your bills. You can never control their mind, that is the reality of life, it's a waste of time and energy trying to convince them. They have their own choice and way of thinking, they will believe what they wanted to believe. Because you can never control them no matter how nice you are to them, they will never change their minds because they were programmed in a certain way, if they are hating you so be it, if they're not nice to you so be it, allow them to be themselves whether you are around or not present at all. People will hate you, you can never force everyone to like you, you can never change their feelings. They already made up their minds before they judge you so stop wishing that the world should be nice to you because it's never going to happen.
Focus on what you think, focus on what you do. Your thoughts should be about how to make your life better only, that is the best way to think. Focus your attention on making moves that will impact your greatness. Let them think, let them comments because that's all they can do, what people think of you is none of your business, you only concern is to get better and level up. It's their problem if they don't like you. Just be yourself and keep moving forward all the time. Your only focus is to become a finisher, to become a doer, to become great. If you will always be concerned about what people think and feel that it is game over for you, you will never be able to unleash your true greatness. If you want to avoid distractions then stop thinking about the thoughts of other people because you have no idea what are they thinking and what will they think. Some people are even nice to you in person but is hating you when you're not around. Some people are cold to you but they secretly like you. You have no idea what is really running in their heads so the best thing to do is to stop worrying about what they think of you and focus on your work instead. They will hate you they will like you, it's not your problem if they don't want you around, the best thing to do is to focus on your thoughts, be mindful and try to control your mind, if you're thinking negatively then start shifting your thoughts to positive. Study your mind, be aware of what you're thinking all the time, be aware of the thoughts that come and go into your head whenever you're in particular situation. Focus on your own mind and never worry about other people's thoughts. Let them think freely and mind your own business only.
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