Sometimes you prepare, you practice something, you think you did get better but weren't able to perform like you expected. The competition is there, the presentation is there and you perform like ordinary or even worse. It is what it is, life is really like that, but the truth is if you didn't prepare then you will do worse than that, you will look like a shi*. So be happy that you did prepare because it put you on a better place. Just because you work a little bit doesn't mean you will get something for sure, sometimes you need to look at yourself and judge yourself if you really prepared so hard. Maybe you didn't prepare too much, maybe it wasn't enough, you have to work harder next time so that your skills and confidence will go to another level. Preparation is the best thing to do, it's much better than being lazy and not doing anything to improve a little bit.
YOU WILL HAVE NO CONFIDENCE IF YOU DIDN'T PREPARE
You will get scared, you will become rusty, you will get nervous and you don't have any default thoughts that will give you a small courage. Because when you prepare, you will remember the work that you put in and it will give you so much confidence in yourself. Confidence will doubled once you prepare so hard, if you spend a lot of time preparing then for sure you will believe that you can win but if you didn't prepare and you battled an opponent that prepared hard then for sure you're going to lose and that is guaranteed.
DON'T DEFINE YOURSELF BY WHAT HAPPENED
Define yourself by what you are doing now, that's all that matters. Not the results, not what people say, now what they think of you. Define yourself by what you are doing, if you are working hard now then you're that person, success will come to you. If you're constantly thinking about success and not giving up then that's your legacy, you don't need to be worried about what happened or didn't happen. Define yourself by your vision and preparation, define yourself with your hard work and determination not with the outcome.
DETECT THE RESISTANCE AND IGNORE IT
What gives you resistance is people, results and what they say about you. If you will just forget these things then you will become free, you will become successful. If there is something that is trying to stop you... ignore it and just do what you need to do, as simple as that. Detect the resistance and ignore it. You have to keep going and do something that will put you on a better position to succeed.
IT IS BETTER THAT WAY
It is better to be working hard than to not work at all. It is better to be struggling and getting tired than wasting your time for nothing, you get weaker and weaker every time you waste your time. Because at the end of the day the only thing that matters is if you work hard and gave your all, you can never control the outcome but for sure you already lost if didn't prepare, if you lost but you prepare you will lose 2x uglier if you didn't prepare. You will get embarrassed, you will look awful, you will suck.
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