You're not afraid of making a mistake, you're not afraid of failure, you're just afraid of what people are going to say. That's why when you were able to detach from what people say then you're going to become free. You will be able to do anything you want, as simple as that. To liberate yourself and become more expressive... don't be afraid to look like a fool. Don't tolerate the external things to corrupt your mind, protect your mind and just keep going. It's really mind boggling why everyone is so afraid of what other people might say even though those people are not even paying their bills, they don't even know each other yet they're so afraid of getting criticized and laugh at. Those people doesn't mean anything to your life so don't be afraid of what they think and feel about you. They are entitled of their own opinion, don't be scared to hear what they say, just ignore them and move on with your life.
EXPOSE YOURSELF MORE TO FAILURE
Keep trying, keep taking risk and endure the pain of failure and criticism. Remember that it's just a feeling. Stop being too emotional. If you're afraid to fail then you already failed. Failing is part of the process, focus on trying over and over again until you become successful. At the end of the day it's not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up. Once you're not afraid to fail anymore you will become invincible. The truth is you can endure any kind of failure so don't be afraid of it, welcome it to your life. Don't ever think that something is too big for you to lose, you can lose anything and you will still be alright. Expose yourself more to failure, don't be afraid of embarrassing yourself. Fail more, take risk today, never play it safe, don't be afraid to try, don't be afraid to lose everything because at the end of the day you really don't have anything. Why will you be afraid of trying if it will not harm you at all?
Embarrassment doesn't stay forever. You will feel bad, they will laugh at you for a short period time or maybe they will not even care about it then what happen will be forgotten in just a few hours. The game here is to test how tough your mind is, it's to keep strengthening your mind and make it bulletproof to criticism. After all, winning doesn't matter at all, the most important thing is you try and did your very best. Keep failing, keep trying until you don't feel anything about it anymore. Failure is just part of life, it is nothing, it's just another chapter, it won't hurt you at all. Fail as much as you can and you will see that it's not affecting you at all if you get use to it. It's part of the design, if you're chasing greatness then you will really fail a lot of times. You have to swallow it like a real man and keep trying again.
And what if nobody is there to criticize you? do you think you will still be afraid of failing? what if nobody is watching? You are not afraid of failing, you're just afraid that they might not like you anymore. Just like a basketball player who is afraid of missing a shot, he is so afraid because the media will call him a choker or not really good in pressure. If you will give their words zero meaning then you will become fearless and free.
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