Our world today now is full of soft people, they get softer and softer because they want to get recognize. They will work hard for a little bit and will expect recognition right away. Some people will feel terrible if they can't get recognized, they will get depressed if they can't have any attention. We are blinded by this wrong teachings, the world will hate you if you are losing and will praise you if you are winning. But the truth is it is not about winning or losing, it's about trying and not giving up. At the end of the day you will never control the results. What if the judges cook the competition and award the prize to the richest kid that doesn't have any talent at all? You can never control the outcome of a competition, the only thing you can control is your effort, mindset and philosophy. If you lose you lose, so be it but never stop yourself from giving your best because it feels a lot better than trying to worry about the outcome. Focusing on your performance is much better than being anxious about winning. Just give your all and never care if you get recognition or not, if you win you win, be happy. If you lose you lose, move on and never complain, never make excuses, stop pointing fingers and avoid having a victim mindset. This is life, it will be easier if you will never look for extra like from other people, it's much easier if you will just chill and have fun. If they don't like you so be it, it's not your loss.
WHAT WILL YOU GET BY TRING TO IMPRESS THEM?
You want respect, you want recognition and that's why you're trying so hard to impress them and make them respect you. What the hell will you get by doing that? the only person you need to impress is yourself, ask yourself... are you doing your best to make your life better? are you giving your all? if you can answer yes honestly then there is nothing else to worry about. You're changing yourself just for the people to like you, how weak was that? you're not using all of your strength and energy and skills because people are insecure, you are downplaying yourself just to make people feel better, that was the weakest move on your part. Just be yourself, never care if they feel insecure towards you, never care if they feel bad, so be it, at the end of the day their feelings will never pay your bills, their insecurity and hate will never make you rich. You will only get weak mentally if you're trying to impress them all the time because your happiness will be based on other people's reactions, it will put you into depression, it will make you sad especially if they're not giving you any props. Stop looking forward to impress people, stop trying to gain their respect and respect yourself first. Be the best that you can be and express yourself to the fullest even if they hate you. It's better to be hated but being real than to be loved but being fake.
You will never get any money, power, fame, improvement if you're trying to impress them. It will only make you weak and conscious of your actions, you will never feel free. If you want to feel loose and experience real freedom... impress yourself, study how you feel, avoid letting other people hold the key to your happiness.
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