You don't need to worry about the outcome, you don't need to check if you're going to become successful or not, stop looking for guarantees and start looking for experiences. Start doing the process, start now and never stop. All you have to do is look for small improvements everyday and you're already on a better place.
ONCE THE RESISTANCE WAS GONE
Once the resistance was gone then you will become successful. Once you're all about work, once you don't want to check the results anymore then the result will come. Stop worrying and start focusing on getting better every single day. Just start it, never car about what's going to happen next and just start it. Do whatever you can to move, take actions, choose moving over procrastinating. Stop judging yourself when you're not making an impact and just take the risk, just try, once the resistance was gone... it's going to be a lot easier.
IF YOU'RE NOT AFRAID TO LOSE
Confidence is not winning all the time. It means you're not afraid to lose, it means you're still going all in despite of the odds against you. It means you're still pushing yourself even if you have no advantage or skills to win. If you're not afraid to lose then you will win, as simple as that. Just keep getting better everyday and you have nothing to worry about anymore. Make it a habit to stop looking for results and simply focus on taking it one step at a time. Don't be afraid to lose, it's normal, it will make you better so why the hell will you be afraid of it? no one is invincible, everyone loses, even the great once suffer and unbearable defeat so never think of it as something that is making you lesser of a person.
FOCUS ON WHAT'S GIVING YOU A SMALL RESULT
Never compare yourself to others, just work hard and focus on what's giving you a small result, that small result will get bigger and bigger as your focus gets sharper. Appreciate the small actions, fall in love with the process, always think that you're already improving whenever you are taking actions. You can finish anything you want, it's just a matter of doing it and using your willpower to keep going further.
FOCUS ON YOUR PHILOSOPHY
If it's hard work then it's hard work, focus on your beliefs. If you think it's speed then it's speed, be fast, start fast and never look back. Focus on your philosophy not with the results. Focus on the intangibles, work hard, believe, make sacrifices and stay disciplined... that's all you need to do, you can become that person now.
DON'T LOOK FOR PLEASURES WHEN YOU'RE FEELING OVERWHELMED
Most people will look for pleasures, instant gratification to numb the pain. The call center agents will smoke when the work gets heavy. An obese person's habit is to eat when he is overwhelmed. A weak and undisciplined person will scroll on social media or play video games if he can't find a way how to make something click. An unhealthy person will use any kind of instant gratification just to avoid feeling the pain. If you are stressed... don't look for something like food, drugs, entertainment to distract you. You have to embrace the stress and just breath, that's the easiest way to become mentally tough. You will become more productive if you are aware of what you're doing or what will do once discomfort is there. Because most people will numb themselves with any kind of food to eat or any video to watch just to avoid the work. This is a weak man's mentality, if you want to get better then you need to push yourself to move forward even if it is really hard. Know your addictions and try to eliminate them today, stop them today and stop them tomorrow... that's the simplest path for growth. Be aware of what you're doing, be present and focus on picking the right choice. Success and strength is simply cultivating a lifestyle that makes you better, it has nothing to do with talent or gifts.
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