The fastest way to lose your power is by thinking what other people think of you. It's by being too conscious of their judgement and feelings towards you, that's the best way to lose your power and control. At the end of the day you can never control how they feel and think so why waste your energy on it? it's such a weak move on your part, they are entitled of judging you, it's none of your business to worry about how they think because it will only make you depressed and slow. You will never become productive and motivated if you keep on worrying about other people. It's your life, you can do whatever you want with it. Nothing can stop you, just keep on moving forward, if they don't like you so be it, if they can't understand you then that's their biggest problem. Your only duty is to express yourself and do what you think will make you happier and successful. It's not your duty to please them, stop focusing on what they think of you because they're not even thinking about you, you are not special, stop feeling so entitled of respect and special treatment, they can do whatever they want but you can also do whatever you want so let them be. Words can never hurt you, just treat every word as nothing but sound, it can never kill you, it can never harm you just a little bit. It's all in your head. You will only feel worse every time you worry about what they think, it will make you weak and sick, never mind if you offended somebody, never regret that you didn't follow someone's way. For as long as you are not stealing or not hurting somebody physically... you are good. Just live your life, just follow your heart and never care if you fail or succeed, you will know it in the end. Focus on how you think and feel, you must feel good about yourself, you must feel free all the time without any attachment from other people's insecurities. You have no idea how powerful you will become if you will not be afraid of what people say.
Just be yourself all the time, move like nobody is watching, decide like there are no rules to follow. This life is just a game, the real winners are the ones who can be themselves no matter what, the real winners are the people who do it their way and never force themselves pleasing other people just to secure their position. Stop holding yourself back and listen to your heart. If you don't like their suggestions then reject it, as simple as that. You have to make your own decisions even if you have no idea that it's going to work. Just try, give yourself a chance to succeed, you will feel much better if you try and give everything you've got. There's no harm in trying, you have nothing to lose here, defeat happens to people who quit. If you know in yourself that you really give your al then there is nothing else to prove.
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