Once you convince yourself that it is easy then it will be easy, the reason why is it so hard is because you're always complaining, whining and crying about it. You're not giving yourself a chance to develop in a given situation, you're not patient, you just want to finish it fast, you want to become successful fast that's why it gets harder and harder each day. Stop acting like a baby and go hard, take the first step and keep moving forward until you're done. Nothing is hard, you just need to convince yourself that you can do it and you will be able to do it. Laugh at the challenges, feel nothing about your mistakes, never punish yourself whenever you made a mistake... just try again for one more time. It is what it is, it's going to feel uncomfortable but it is only temporary, once you get use to it... it will become very easy, it's like slicing your favorite cake.
DO IT EVEN IF YOU'RE SCARED
Even if you know that you're going to fail, even if you don't know how to win... just do it. Give yourself a chance to get lucky. The harder you work and the more you try the luckier you get, it's just a law of average thing. All you need to do is try and you might get lucky. Keep trying, there is no harm in trying, so what if you fail? so what if you're struggling? so be it but never take your life for granted. Stop being a coward like others who were so afraid of trying, they were so allergic on taking risks that's why they're stuck in a mud up to now. The time is now, stop being a chicken and pretend that you're brave, take the firsts step and carry on, follow through as much as you can, keep going further and never stop. Doing it even if you are scared will make you happy, it's because facing your fears will make you feel confident and free, you will feel so light, your burden will go away.
SO WHAT IF YOU FAIL?
you will never die after failing, you will never go to jail, what's the point in being scared of it? you're just wasting your time and energy, you have to fail now, you have to make a move now because time is running. The world will never wait for you, you will never feel good, you will always feel scared but the good news is... you can still take actions despite of feeling bad, you can still try despite of being scared like a chicken. It's all in the mind, force yourself to move now, never wait for the right timing because it will never come. Take the first step and keep going further, stop being soft and use brute force to make something happen. Actually, it's really good if you are failing because you will be able to build resilience and mental toughness, you will become stronger and experienced, how good was that? You are in a win win situation if you try, you have nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain. So just start and never look back, never think that you can't do it and find reasons why you can.
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