Forget the people trying to disturb you, forget the people trying to make your life difficult, just focus on what you're trying to build, focus on taking actions, focus on getting better each day. They may disturb you, but it will never have an effect if you're focused on what you're trying to get. Your focus is your reality, you can say no anytime you want to. Never care about the feelings of others, they ae responsible for how they feel, focus on what you're trying to create, focus on your own life and get better every single day. You are not suppose to please everyone, you are not suppose to become a hero. Protect your time, never give it for free. This is just a mental game, always go for what serves you better and that is protecting your time and energy. You have to be moving forward all the time if you want to have a better life . Focusing on the things that don't matter will make you slow and useless, you are only making life harder for you if you're not doing what you need to do.
NEVER CARE IF THEY FEEL BAD
If they feel bad so be it, that's their fault. Everyone is in charge of his own emotions. If they feel bad then it's their fault because they're too sensitive. Stop wasting your energy worrying about what people say, if they don't like you then they don't like you so be it. Just be yourself and always focus on what you're trying to achieve. And never think about them just for a second, never care, if they hate you then they are haters, for as long as you're not asking anybody for favor and not hurting anyone then you're good, just keep moving forward and never feel any guilt because you're just doing it your way. If they can't get what you're thinking, if they can't understand you then you don't need to explain something to them. Let them guess, protect your energy, you will never be able to give your best if you're always tired and overwhelmed. Remember that you can do it alone, you don't need these people who are trying to suck your energy and left nothing for you. It's their responsibility if they feel bad, it's they fault if they can't make themselves happy. The lesson is this if you're too dependent from somebody or something then you will become weak, you will have a hard time adapting and making adjustments. Everyone should be independent, everyone should be strong and responsible... that's how to build a better ecosystem, get rid of these energy suckers, time wasters and favor askers because they're not helping at all.
Strong people were independent, they do it their way, they're not asking for any help or favor. That's why they have power. You will become powerless if you're always asking for favor or help. The truth is you can do it, you can do anything if you will find a way, you're just being too soft and weak. Have some pride, show them that you have a backbone.
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