Mastering the art of detachment is the real power. If you can detach from anything that hurts you or doesn't serve you then it means you're powerful. You have noting to lose here because you can always create something, nothing is permanent, everything changes so don't be afraid to walk away from anything if respect was not being serve. The real power will be felt if you can feel nothing with anyone or anything if you need to. Emotions makes a man very weak, if you are being too emotional, attached or reactive then something will control you. You have to be cold and bold, if you don't want it then stay away from it, avoid hard negotiations, avoid begging and being needy. If there is no offer so be it, if they don't like you so be it, if you're not invited then don't ever ask, you can move on, you can always choose what is better for you without being attached or dependent with someone's permission. You can do what you want or need to do and nothing can stop you. If you have no power over something, if you can't control it then let it go. Letting go is the game changer, you can become invincible if you can let go of something that is making you feel worse. You are in control here, always in control and will be in control. Just know your boundaries, know what you are capable of and remind yourself what you can bring to the table.
STOP GIVING THEM TOO MUCH ACCESS TO YOU
If you're accessible all the time, if they think they can replace or convince you easily then you get weaker and weaker. Stop trying to please people, stop giving them power over you. Remember... you have he ability to walk away, nothing can control you if you don't allow them. They easily have access to your mind, attention, physical presence and that's why you get weaker and weaker. The toxic people can drain your energy easily, they can make you emotional. They can control you because you're too accessible and present when they need you. Never give the key to your time for free, be expensive, be valuable, you will have lesser value if you easily agree to their requests and commands. Stop being too accessible, stop being too nice. At the end of the day it is your life, nobody can tell you what to do, nobody can command you what should be happening with your life, you are the captain of your ship, you are always in control here, you can always stop the abuse whenever you want to.
KEEP GOING EVEN IF IT IS HARD
The idea is to keep going all the time. if you are fast, if you are progressive then you will become more powerful, they can never catch you. Problems can never make you feel problematic, challenges will mean nothing to you. If you fail, if someone did you bad... just keep moving and never stop. be a mover and not a thinker, it doesn't matter if your moves were perfect or not, what matter is you don't stop and you cultivate and indomitable spirit. Just go, forget what is making your life harder and always find a way. If it is hard then it is hard, so be it. Stop complaining, stop giving power to external things and focus on what's happening inside of you. You can feel much better anytime you want to, it's just a mind game.
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