Everything will be easy if you will persevere and just keep moving forward, nothing is hard. What makes it hard is because you're being a chicken, you're pretending to be weak all the time, you're letting your excuses control your life, you're letting laziness and softness be the decider of your destiny. But if you will just keep pushing and grinding, if you will just decide to never quit then something good will happen to you. If you're soft, if you easily quit then you will never win, as simple as that. You will only win if you are confident and confidence comes from taking actions, you will never become confident if you're not preparing or doing something to make yourself better. You will never have self esteem if you're always quitting and not embracing the challenges of life. You have to face the pain and believe that it will soon be over, the pain is your bestfriend, it is forging you into a different beast. Every day you are either making yourself weaker or stronger. You get weaker every time you quit, you get stronger every time you push. So stop looking for comfort and just keep pushing time is fast, you will never know that you're already near to your goal unless you give everything you've got.
DO WHAT YOU SAY
If you said you're going to do 100 push ups today then do it. If you said you're going to apply for a job today then do it, if you said you're going to ask your boss for a raise then do it. DO it even if the timing isn't right, do it even if you're not feeling good. Because doing something is better than not doing anything at all. Stop being about words and be about actions. Do what you say, you're too arrogant when you said it, where are you now? what are you doing now? where is your animus now? anyone can say something but not everyone can back up their words. DO what you say you're going to do, if you can do what you promise then your confidence about yourself will go up. Because you will never feel good about yourself and your confidence will go down if you're always talking about something and doing the other thing. Stay in fire, if it is hard so be it, learn to dance in fire, dance in pressure, work in stress and never stop.
DON'T ASK IF IT IS HARD OR EASY
Hard task, bigger opponent, pressure situations, far place, low salary, bad boss, faster competition. Don't ever ask if it is hard or easy, ask yourself if you're going to do it or not. If it is hard then you should be happier because it will make you grow, it will make you stronger and better. If it is easy then you will never expand, as simple as that. The reason why you can't win is because you're full of excuses in your head, just a little discomfort is making you fold, a little problem is making you quit already. You want to go back, you want to cry for your mama, you want to try something easier. And that's why you can't win in life, you will never win if you have an attitude like that. You have to push yourself to take full responsibility of your life, you are where you are right now because of the level of your tenacity. You are losing because you don't want to persevere for a long time. it doesn't really matter if it is hard or easy, the only question is are you going to fight? are you going to push yourself to make something happen? can you still believe in yourself if it is so evident that you've already been defeated?
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