Mar 9, 2020

YOU ARE THE LEADER OF YOUR OWN LIFE

Never let somebody told you what are you going to do, never let other people's game play inside of your head. It is what it is, it is your life and you are suppose to control everything you can control. You can't control how they feel, you can't please everyone, all you can do is please yourself and the people that matters to you the most. And even the closest people in your life... if they were too dramatic and demanding too much, it's time to ignore their dramas and just live your life the way you wanted it to live. Who are they to tell you what to do? they didn't even feed you some piece of bread, they didn't bought you a mile when you're still a baby. It's time to claim your life and be the leader of it. If nobody follows you then be your own follower, at least you're not a slave, at least you're the king of your own empire. Because you were not born to please these people who were no better than you. You can lead your own life, you can lead your family. Stop following fake dogs and be the baddest dog in town.

IF YOU'RE NOT AFRAID TO LOSE THEN YOU CAN CONQUER ANYTHING

If you're not afraid to lose, if you're not afraid to try again then you can conquer anything. Why? It's because you will learn a lot from losing, you will no longer become afraid of it because you already become hardened. Everyone is afraid to lose because of the feeling they get after losing, but if you will lose a hundred times then you're no longer afraid of it, this will make you invincible, you will become more creative and free, you will be able to detach your identity from the outcome and you will be able to do the unimaginable things, you will just work and work and work until you finally made it to the top. So keep losing all the time, keep pushing forward and try something new. Losing is just another emotion, and an emotion that was felt over and over again cannot scare you anymore. You can't win because you're so scared to fail, and if you're not scared to fail anymore the resistance will go and you will become more creative and faster, you will give your very best, you will go all in.

Because the truth is you have nothing to lose here, how can you lose if you don't have anything from the beginning? you have no car, you have no money, you have no winnings, all you have is the nipple of your mom to drink some milk, you just created an illusion that you have a lot of things to lose, you think you have a legacy but the truth is no one was written on history forever. All legends were forgotten, 20 years from now and people no longer know the name of Lebron James. Nothing sticks forever so don't ever think that you have something to lose.

People were so attached with the word "Legacy" what was that? it's just an illusion, people will still disrespect you even if you have a strong legacy. The best thing to learn is how to let go and simply get everything you can, this is just a game, play it while you can still play it. There is no pressure here, there is no winning or losing... only trying.

THE POWER OF IMPROVISATION

You can improvise the feeling, you can improvise a belief, you can improvise a skill needed to succeed, you can improvise a resources. You are free to do anything. You are free to try anything, it's all about the willingness to win and not looking on things that are missing in your life. You can replace something with something, it all depends on your perspective about the replacement. The replacement can be weaker but if you can appreciate it then it will also be useful and better. If you can just stop being picky and use your resourceful mind then you will have a world full of abundance. You have a lot of resources around you, all you have to do is look for it. You can lead your own life if you can improvise and replace the things that you think is missing in your life. It's because you will learn how to become independent, you will never borrow things from others and you will appreciate what you have, you will learn to stand on your own. What is missing can be replaced, every hole can be fixed.

Always believe that everything is replaceable. You can replace money, friends, shoes, food, etc. You can find something that will fill up what is missing in your life. So don't be afraid if you're lacking something because you can always adapt and improvise.

LEAD EVEN IF NOBODY IS FOLLOWING YOU

If you can lead yourself to greatness then that is enough, you don't need fake followers, you don't need someone to kiss your ass and be your yes man. All you need is yourself and the process that you believe. If you can just control your mind and control your emotion then you will have a much better life. Be your own follower, follow your dreams and goals, follow your philosophy. Sooner or later somebody will follow you because they see the severe seriousness of your process, they will see that you mean business and you are not clowning around like others. Just don't give up and people will believe in your, your time will come and you will become a phoenix that will shine.

A good leader is a good follower of his own principles and ideas. So if you really want to lead your own life then always go to your personal philosophy when things are getting harder and never give up. That is they key... never give up even if you're alone with your dreams. 

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