Mar 15, 2020

HOW TO STAY CALM IN TIMES OF CHAOS?

It's easy to freak out, it's easy to think that you will never make it, it's easy to just give up and make weak decisions. Remember that all you have to do is be in the moment. Forget about what may happen next, you will experience more life if you're not rushing and panicking. And even if you're really struggling and feeling the pressure... the best thing to do is stay calm and avoid panicking. You don't need to make a move right away, taking actions during times of panic is the stupidest thing you could ever do. Just stay still for a while and just move when your mind is already calm and at peace.

TAKE A DEEP BREATHE

When you take a deep breathe you must focus really on your breathe and nothing else. Enjoy the inhalation and exhalation, do this for a few times without rushing. If you're in a crowded place and you don't want people to notice you then take it slowly and silently, take a few deep breathes here and there, focus on your breathing. Breathing in and out will let go of the crazy and scary thoughts on your brain. Believe in the power of breathing because it is the only thing you need to survive at the moment.

Because sometimes you're thinking too much and you almost have forgot that the only thing you need to do is breathe. Breathing will make you powerful, it will calm your mind full of negativity. You will see things on different angles, you will be able to make the right decision if you're breathing properly because you are not rushing anymore. Just take a deep breathe in times of chaos and you will learn that everything is alright and that there is no need to panic because all you need is the air that you breathe.

DETACH FROM ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF YOU

Detach from the outcome, detach from what people say, detach from anything outside of you. Never mind if you're sweaty or looking like a clown, never mind if you're failing and making a lot of mistakes. Just go to your inside, go to your power. You tend to suffer more because you're so attached from a lot of things that makes you worried. You're so afraid to lose your job, you're s afraid of the future, you're so afraid of your financial status or social status, you're taking care of your identity to much. If you can just detach from anything outside of you then your life will become much easier and lighter. Because the truth is you don't need anything at all, all you need is your life, all you need is your family and friends. Life is so simple, let go of the things you worried about and you will be able to have more room for breathing, you will live happier than ever.

FOCUS ON LIVING AND BECOMING BETTER A LITTLE BIT

Just try to live now without attachment from anything. Just live and focus on becoming a little bit better and better. Just stay positive and just do what you can do to win. Because if you're simply focus on living then everything will be much easier. Enjoy yourself, enjoy your life and the journey you are in even if it's too hard and a struggle for now. Just be a little bit better, work, improve your skills, do something positive, or even just to survive this day.

All the pressure will go away, you will understand life even more if you're simply focus on living and trying to make yourself better. You don't need to have a perfect life, all you need to do is focus on your life, focus on what makes you really happy and forget everything else outside of the thing that really matters on your life.

CHAOS WILL BE OVER ANYTIME SOON

Your life will not be a chaos forever, your situation for now is just temporary. All you have to do is weather the storm. That chaos will soon be over, but it will be over fast if you learn how to dance with it. Don't curse it, don't think that it's a punishment, don't wish for it to end fast... it will be over faster than expected if you will learn how to enjoy it. Think of it as a blessing because it is a another room for growth, it is another way to strengthen your mind. Because you become stronger and stronger every time you experience chaos. Just endure the pain right now, face your problems and try to make small solutions every now and then. You are stronger than you think about yourself, you can outlast everything if you have the right frame of mind.

IT IS WHAT IT IS

If it is happening now then it is happening now, if there is nothing you can do about it then just let it be. Focus on what you can control and that is your mind and actions, there are a lot of things you cannot control and you're only making your life harder by focusing on those things. If there are lot of things you can't control there are lot of things that you can control too. Life will become much easier if you will accept what you can't control and just let it go. There are lot of things you can do and you will feel much stronger if you will focus on them. Take it one step at a time, you don't need to fix everything right away. Feel the pressure and don't be afraid of it, embrace it, take it slowly if you need to, don't rush because you will make more stupid decisions every time you rush. Nothing can touch you nor harm you if you're calm and collected. Calmness is a very powerful weapon to win, stay calm and just give your very best.

So accept what is happening now and just move forward. You have what it takes to survive the moment, you have what it takes to win in the end, use your willpower, use the power of your mind and keep fighting while staying calm. 

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