Life is not that hard if you're doing the right thing. Life is easier if you're thinking the right way and have the right habits. Because the truth is we are the ones who's making our lives easier. Make life basic, make it simple and you will get more success, you will live a happier life.
Here are the 14 ways to make your life easier and more successful:
1. Don't do a lot. Just because you think you are doing a lot of things doesn't mean you're becoming successful, just because you are rushing and always stressed doesn't mean you're making results. Sometimes you are doing things that are not even useful to your life, you're not focused, your mind goes everywhere, your energy is scattered. You will freak out if you keep living like that. Don't do too much, do only the things that will give you a better life.You know what will give you a good life, you know what will work and what will not, stop doing too much if it's only making you tired. You have to use your energy
2. Stay away from drama kings and queens. If you associate your life with drama kings and queens, sooner or later you will become a drama king too.Those toxic people will bring a huge amount of toxicity in your life, they will force you to become a negative person too. Stay away from them, look at their words and thoughts... it is all garbage, there is no growth there, it is full of gossips and negative ideas, you are only lowering your level every time you associate your life with them.
3. Develop a habit that will make your life better. The habit of working hard, the habit of just doing it, the habit of prioritizing your responsibilities instead of entertainment, the habit of exercising. Do something for 2 weeks straight and it is already a strong foundation, there is a big chance that you may do it forever.
4. Start fast. You can move slowly but always start fast, it's ok if your movements are slow for as long as you're consistent and you're not hesitating to start. Just start and take it from there, things gets harder for you because you don't want to start, you're always thinking about making it perfect. So every time you need to do something... start. Regardless if you feel alright or not just start. Stop making excuses, stop pampering your laziness and just start. Be a fast starter and a strong finisher.
5. Think slowly. Watch your mind, it is crowded right? you're thinking about a lot of things which is not good for your health. Mind can be a powerful weapon but it is dangerous too. You have to use your mind the right way, be mindful of the thoughts that come and go in your mind. Just think slowly and watch your thoughts, only entertain the best thoughts that will serve you. You don't need to freak out or panic, stay still, calm your mind, breathe and relax when pressure is being heavily felt. You don't need to make solutions right away, you don't need to feel good or succeed right away. Just think slowly and focus on what you really want to happen in your life.
6. Fail a lot. Failing a lot means you're serious about getting successful. It's ok to fail because you will learn a lot from it, you will become tougher and more experiences. You have to expose yourself to failure so that more opportunities will come to you. Don't be afraid to fail over and over again because it is developing your work ethic and tenacity, you really don't lose anything here, you just become a better person. Failing means growing, failing means you're risking it all to take your life to another level.
7. Define your own success. Job promotion, one sale, one money, one cent. If you set a goal for yourself may it be big or small then that is success already. If you know you give your best and you push yourself to get your personal goal then you're already successful. Never let other people define your success, never let them belittle you. Focus on winning by your own, focus on growing a little bit and never compare what you have with what other people have.
8. Create your own circle. Define who's your real friend, define who's going to hurt you that is worth it. Some people are hurting you but you're not getting anything from it but there are also some people who are hurting you but are loyal and true to you, they will never leave you when everything goes down.
9. Forget the future and the past. The truth is you're living in the now, there is no past anymore, it is gone. The future is just an illusion, you can never live in the future. No matter how hard you worry... you can never control the future. But of course don't waste your life, don't get lazy and living by the saying YOLO, of course you still have to do the right thing. What I mean here is don't worry too much, just give your very best and that's it. Just enjoy your life now, enjoy what is happening now and life will become much easier.
10. Be ok with a slow pace. Take it one step at a time, be ok with a slow pace but still try to push yourself so that you will get bigger results. But if things were really hard then just deal with it, appreciate it and still move forward all the time. Moving forward will make you happier and satisfied even if you're not making big strides yet. Time will come and you will become successful too.
11. Focus on what you can control only. Never try to control everything, never control the behavior of other people, never try to force them to believe in you. The things that you control are your actions and mind only. Never mind what they believe or say, focus on what you can control and you will feel powerful, focus on trying to control outside of your power and you will feel weak.
12. Practice delayed gratification. Delaying gratification will make you a master, you will master yourself, you will be able to control more situation. It will make you mentally tough, it will teach you how to endure and avoid temptations. Look at those broke people.. once they have money they will spend it right away, they were itching to burn their money. Some people were not getting their monthly salary yet but it's already gone because of credit cards and debts. You will never make it to the top if you're so impulsive, avoid the consumer mentality. Anyone can become rich if he only knows hot to delay gratification, stop rewarding yourself if you haven't done anything good yet.
Avoid living like a rich if you don't even have a one thousand dollar on your pocket. Practice delaying gratification all the time, this will make you responsible and committed to success.
13. Know what you can sustain only. You have 5 kids but you can only feed two, you created 4 business but you couldn't even focus on one. You have three wives but you couldn't even make one happy. You think you can handle a lot of things and in the end it's making your life miserable, know what you can sustain only so that life will become much easier and happier. Just like taking an exercise program, you can never do it all, you can never be on a beast mode right away and doing the most difficult exercises everyday. Just pick one or two drills and sustain it, be consistent and do it everyday... that's how to become successful.
14. Be happy with having less. You don't need a lot, people wants to have a lot but the truth is they only need less. People will hoard a lot of things and food but they couldn't even eat it all. People will but two or three cars until time comes and the bank is already repossessing it because they can't pay the monthly payment.
15. Never care about what other people are doing. Mind your own business, you can't become happy and successful because you always get jealous. You will do what other people are doing once you see they are becoming successful, and if you can't create a success on your own... you will judge them, you will hate them and try to blame a lot of things.
Here are the 14 ways to make your life easier and more successful:
1. Don't do a lot. Just because you think you are doing a lot of things doesn't mean you're becoming successful, just because you are rushing and always stressed doesn't mean you're making results. Sometimes you are doing things that are not even useful to your life, you're not focused, your mind goes everywhere, your energy is scattered. You will freak out if you keep living like that. Don't do too much, do only the things that will give you a better life.You know what will give you a good life, you know what will work and what will not, stop doing too much if it's only making you tired. You have to use your energy
2. Stay away from drama kings and queens. If you associate your life with drama kings and queens, sooner or later you will become a drama king too.Those toxic people will bring a huge amount of toxicity in your life, they will force you to become a negative person too. Stay away from them, look at their words and thoughts... it is all garbage, there is no growth there, it is full of gossips and negative ideas, you are only lowering your level every time you associate your life with them.
3. Develop a habit that will make your life better. The habit of working hard, the habit of just doing it, the habit of prioritizing your responsibilities instead of entertainment, the habit of exercising. Do something for 2 weeks straight and it is already a strong foundation, there is a big chance that you may do it forever.
4. Start fast. You can move slowly but always start fast, it's ok if your movements are slow for as long as you're consistent and you're not hesitating to start. Just start and take it from there, things gets harder for you because you don't want to start, you're always thinking about making it perfect. So every time you need to do something... start. Regardless if you feel alright or not just start. Stop making excuses, stop pampering your laziness and just start. Be a fast starter and a strong finisher.
5. Think slowly. Watch your mind, it is crowded right? you're thinking about a lot of things which is not good for your health. Mind can be a powerful weapon but it is dangerous too. You have to use your mind the right way, be mindful of the thoughts that come and go in your mind. Just think slowly and watch your thoughts, only entertain the best thoughts that will serve you. You don't need to freak out or panic, stay still, calm your mind, breathe and relax when pressure is being heavily felt. You don't need to make solutions right away, you don't need to feel good or succeed right away. Just think slowly and focus on what you really want to happen in your life.
6. Fail a lot. Failing a lot means you're serious about getting successful. It's ok to fail because you will learn a lot from it, you will become tougher and more experiences. You have to expose yourself to failure so that more opportunities will come to you. Don't be afraid to fail over and over again because it is developing your work ethic and tenacity, you really don't lose anything here, you just become a better person. Failing means growing, failing means you're risking it all to take your life to another level.
7. Define your own success. Job promotion, one sale, one money, one cent. If you set a goal for yourself may it be big or small then that is success already. If you know you give your best and you push yourself to get your personal goal then you're already successful. Never let other people define your success, never let them belittle you. Focus on winning by your own, focus on growing a little bit and never compare what you have with what other people have.
8. Create your own circle. Define who's your real friend, define who's going to hurt you that is worth it. Some people are hurting you but you're not getting anything from it but there are also some people who are hurting you but are loyal and true to you, they will never leave you when everything goes down.
9. Forget the future and the past. The truth is you're living in the now, there is no past anymore, it is gone. The future is just an illusion, you can never live in the future. No matter how hard you worry... you can never control the future. But of course don't waste your life, don't get lazy and living by the saying YOLO, of course you still have to do the right thing. What I mean here is don't worry too much, just give your very best and that's it. Just enjoy your life now, enjoy what is happening now and life will become much easier.
10. Be ok with a slow pace. Take it one step at a time, be ok with a slow pace but still try to push yourself so that you will get bigger results. But if things were really hard then just deal with it, appreciate it and still move forward all the time. Moving forward will make you happier and satisfied even if you're not making big strides yet. Time will come and you will become successful too.
11. Focus on what you can control only. Never try to control everything, never control the behavior of other people, never try to force them to believe in you. The things that you control are your actions and mind only. Never mind what they believe or say, focus on what you can control and you will feel powerful, focus on trying to control outside of your power and you will feel weak.
12. Practice delayed gratification. Delaying gratification will make you a master, you will master yourself, you will be able to control more situation. It will make you mentally tough, it will teach you how to endure and avoid temptations. Look at those broke people.. once they have money they will spend it right away, they were itching to burn their money. Some people were not getting their monthly salary yet but it's already gone because of credit cards and debts. You will never make it to the top if you're so impulsive, avoid the consumer mentality. Anyone can become rich if he only knows hot to delay gratification, stop rewarding yourself if you haven't done anything good yet.
Avoid living like a rich if you don't even have a one thousand dollar on your pocket. Practice delaying gratification all the time, this will make you responsible and committed to success.
13. Know what you can sustain only. You have 5 kids but you can only feed two, you created 4 business but you couldn't even focus on one. You have three wives but you couldn't even make one happy. You think you can handle a lot of things and in the end it's making your life miserable, know what you can sustain only so that life will become much easier and happier. Just like taking an exercise program, you can never do it all, you can never be on a beast mode right away and doing the most difficult exercises everyday. Just pick one or two drills and sustain it, be consistent and do it everyday... that's how to become successful.
14. Be happy with having less. You don't need a lot, people wants to have a lot but the truth is they only need less. People will hoard a lot of things and food but they couldn't even eat it all. People will but two or three cars until time comes and the bank is already repossessing it because they can't pay the monthly payment.
15. Never care about what other people are doing. Mind your own business, you can't become happy and successful because you always get jealous. You will do what other people are doing once you see they are becoming successful, and if you can't create a success on your own... you will judge them, you will hate them and try to blame a lot of things.
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