ENJOY YOUR OWN PROCESS

One of the best ways to enjoy your life even more is to enjoy your own process. Create your own process. You are free here, don't you ever stop yourself from creating something from scratch, be confident and allow yourself to invent your own steps towards success. You don't need to follow their rules, you don't need to follow their plans and copy their techniques, you have the authority to create your own path and become successful with it.

Because sometimes you are following other people too much even if you don't like their suggestions and style, you're copying them because you just feel that they are right and you are wrong. If you really want to feel how living life to the fullest is like then you need to become really confident about yourself and do whatever it takes to succeed in life. Your chosen process will be your process forever, you live and die with it, don't change it nor exchange it for something easier, you have to trust it even at the worst times of your life.

YOUR PROCESS WILL ONLY WORK IF YOU BELIEVE IN IT

The main reason why your process is not working is because there are some doubts, there is a fear that it might not work. You have to believe it 100 percent or even more, there should be no 5 or ten percent of doubts. If you doubt it just for a little bit then it will never work. You have to go all in with the process and keep working hard on it. If you really believe it then you will do it, you will work hard even if it's uncomfortable, you will still use it even if it's not working at the moment.

If you can't believe it now then just take actions, do the first step, doing the first step will raise your confidence in it. So keep working until you finally get your momentum and feel good about the process, never stop, keep moving forward all the time. One day you will see that the process you created is already working. It's giving you a little success and all you have to do is double your effort and you will get double results or even more.

So if you can't believe your process now then simply take actions, it doesn't matter if you feel lazy or lousy for the first few steps... just do it. You will be able to figure out how to make it work, you will learn how to enjoy it and endure all the pain that comes along with it.

IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE IT THEN YOU WILL NEVER STOP

You will keep doing it, you will just do it, you will never even think. You will go forward no matter what, you will persevere, you will face all the challenges, you will never take a break. You're all in 24/7, you're lock in 365 days a year, you're so hungry and you're so addicted to taking actions that you believe will give you success. You're not rushing the process, you are enjoying it. You believe that one day you will become successful with it, you are fully committed and you never feel stressed. You feel tired but you are not frustrated even if you can't make results. So look at yourself, are you always stopping? then it means you don't believe it too much, it means you're doubting the process because you're doing something else. You keep pushing even if it's hard, you keep looking for a way even if you're bleeding badly.

ANY PROCESS WILL WORK

Trust me, it will work if you're so dead serious about it and willing to go the extra mile using it. For example if you want to become slim, any chosen process of yours will work, if you choose to jog everyday then jogging will work. The key here is to do it forever and be patient, you may not see the progress right away but if you're committed enough and you're all in then it will work. Any simple process will work if you're doing it right and doing it consistently. Just like trying to become a millionaire, if your process is to simply work hard doing your job then it will still work, all you have to do is save money and that's it, it will take time but you will be able to save a million dollars if you are willing to wait and go the extra mile, you don't need to become a lucky or arrogant entrepreneur here, all you have to do is work and make your chosen process work. Just believe it, stop doubting it, stop rushing it, once you chose a process... go for it and do it forever until it gives you success.

IT'S ONLY BORING IN THE BEGINNING

It may be boring in the beginning but eventually you will learn how to enjoy it because it's what you do, you have no choice but to have fun with it or else you will quit in the long run. You can have fun doing anything, it all depends on your perspective and how you were able to trick your mind that what you're doing is fun. You can have a lot of fun doing your chosen process if you will give it a story, for example you are doing it so that you will become a better person, you are doing it because you want respect, you are doing it because you want success so bad. You have to attached a narrative to your process so that you will become motivated everyday. Create a story with it and enjoy it as much as you can.

Learn to embrace boredom, that is the key to success, that is the key to have fun with your process.

WHAT IF THE PROCESS DOESN'T WORK?

You have to do it again, there is no quitting here, you are not allowed to quit, you are only allowed to move. Taking actions is the only choice you have. It will work in the long run, just trust it and never stop. So stop making excuses now, stop making yourself believe that it is not for you or your process is wrong, you have to force yourself to go back to work and forget about quitting. Quitting is not an option here, if you really want your process to work then stop crying like a baby and do something. 

EMBRACE THE RANDOMNESS OF LIFE

Life is full of surprises, if you don't have traumatic experiences yet then it means you're still a virgin to life. Don't worry a lot of shocking events will visit you one day, and you should be ready for it. I am not scaring you and I am not saying that bad events will happen, what I mean is one day you will be surprised, may it be a good or bad surprise... you should be ready, embrace it because it is all part of your life.

Life is so unpredictable, a lot of situations will come to make you feel uncomfortable. For me the best skill that you must learn is how to embrace discomfort and randomness of life. You should always be ready to adapt when an adversity kicks in. You should learn how to accept any kind of situations without complaining about it. Because if you're always making every little stress a big thing... you will never have a peace of mind. Life is sometimes tricky, you think you're good and comfortable, you think you're doing fine but suddenly an unexpected event will occur and if your mind is not ready then you will freak out, you will go crazy and depressed, you will get lost and you don't even know what to do. Never let life control you, control your life, control the way you think and feel towards anything may it be bad or good. You still need to stay still despite of scary and uncomfortable moments. Don't let anything stun you, always remember what you want in life, recite your personal philosophy and believe in it to the fullest.

IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT READY

It's ok if you're not ready, just make sure that you will not freak out. Just make sure you can accept everything that may happen in your life. You can find a way how to embrace it and then do something positive about it. It's ok if you're scared or worried, just make sure you know what you want and you will still choose to go with a positive state of mind. Being ready is not an issue here, the only question is are you willing to embrace what is in front of you? are you willing to fight and do what is best for your life? Being ready is not a compliment, being able to adapt to any situation is. Don't be scared of anything, or I say be ready to become scared of anything and still think the right way, still move forward and do what is necessary.

A TOUGH PERSON IS NOT ALWAYS DOMINANT

You don't need to always look tough, you don't need to become a savage. Stop faking that you're tough, stop faking that you are this strong person that can overcome anything right away, stop thinking that everything will be alright if you just hide your feelings. What you need to do is eat your ego, accept that you're struggling or suffering and then don't quit, keep moving forward and embrace all the negative feelings inside of you. Don't be afraid to show your weakness, don't be afraid to show your imperfections and just deal with any kind of situation in front of you. So if you want to become tough all you have to do is stop quitting, stop giving up, face the uncertainty of the situation and become the best that you can be.

YOU'RE STRONG IF...

You're strong if you have the ability to adapt to anything, you can adapt with a hot weather or traffic or a poor surrounding. You're strong if you don't need anything to feel comfortable, you don't need a big house or a fancy car or a loving parents, you're just happy being alive and you're doing the right things everyday, you're trying to be useful to the people you love and you just keep getting better each day by giving your very best. You're strong if you can accept the things that you can't change, you're strong if you're willing to embrace the fear and pain that the current situation might give you. You're not bragging about it, you're not telling the world how much you can endure, you just feel it and think that it will make you a better person, you're confident that it will go anytime soon.

YOUR SITUATION WILL ALWAYS CHANGE

Not all the time you're at the bottom. Not all the time you're feeling bad, time will come and your situation will change, just stick with the process and never give up. Keep moving forward all the time, whatever you can do... do it to improve your situation. So embrace the randomness of life and always think that whatever is happening to you is the best moment of your life. It's because your life is happening now, it is not happening in the past nor the future. The best moment of your life is now, so stop thinking about what is missing in your life, stop thinking about what should happen in order for you to become happy. You have no choice but to deal with what is in front of you or else your life will become miserable even more. Learn to deal with any kind of situation and be happy that you're still alive, life is so unpredictable, you never know what may happen next. So regardless of what is happening to you... embrace it and appreciate it. Even if it is really bad... still be thankful of it because at least you are still experiencing life. Anything that happens to your life is still part of your life so be appreciative about it and never complain.

Never think that you are being cursed or punished. It is what it is, life is full of surprises, you can never make a correct guess about what's going to happen in the future. You can never have full control of your life. All you can do is live it and be thankful of it.

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME WHINING 

Your life will never change if you keep on blaming other people or things, you will never make a progress or move on if you're always playing the victim role. Only victims complain, only victims ask for sympathy. You can only have a better life if you stop whining and cursing your situation. Why not make the best out of your life? why not do something positive instead of crying and making dramas? look for the next step that will improve your life, look for something to chase, improve your life day by day and try to be at least happier by taking positive actions. If you're sad, if you're depressed, if you're full of problems... you can never change the outcome of your life if you'r always whining because it will become your habit, you will become a pessimist forever.

THE BEST THING ABOUT LIFE

The best thing about life is you can also win, you can also become happy if you will give yourself a chance. Never count yourself out, do something, create and innovate, invent something, go hard and try. Life will reward people who were positive and taking risks. Life is not all about pain, you can also become really happy and successful if you will just do the right thing. You have a chance, you are qualified to live a better life, all you have to do s work hard and do the right thing. 

WATCH YOURSELF IF YOU'RE ON AN AUTO PILOT MODE

Sometimes you're doing something even if you don't like it, you're moving into a direction of nowhere and you don't know it. You're not aware that you're doing the same thing over and over again because you're so comfortable doing it, sometimes you don't like it anymore, you hated it but because it's already ingrained into your sub conscious mind... you can't stop it anymore, you are doing it everyday already.

THE MAIN REASON WHY YOU'RE NOT WINNING IN LIFE

The main reason why you're always failing is because you're always on an auto pilot mode, you're doing the same mistakes over and over again. You're stuck in a habit that is making your life worse, you don't know it because you're having fun with it or maybe you don't like it but you're too addicted with the emotion that it gives to you that's why you keep doing it. Just like a heroin addict who will take heroin everyday, sometimes he hates it already because he still know that it's damaging his life but he can't resist it because somehow the emotion that it gives to him feels like stress reliever, he ca't stop it anymore because it's already in his system. But don't get me wrong, he can still stop it only if he face the pain and discomfort of not taking heroin for a day. Once he stop it for a day then the journey begins, he has a big chance to get rid of it from his system if he keeps facing the discomfort of not tasting it anymore.

CHANGE WILL ONLY HAPPEN IF YOU'RE TOO UNCOMFORTABLE

If you want to change your life but you're too comfortable with it now... change will never happen, you can only experience change if you are wiling to embrace the discomfort that the process of change brings. Just like a fat diabetic kid who wants to become healthy... he will forced himself to stop eating cakes and ice creams, he needs to force himself to feel good eating carrots and grasses, he needs to enjoy the pain of not eating his favorite diabetic foods anymore... that's when change will take place. If you really want a new life then embrace pain, embrace the process of doing what you don't want to do that are necessary and important and stopping what you love to do that are useless and making your life miserable. Look at yourself, are you comfortable or not? if yes then you better look for a process that will make you feel 

THE MAGIC OF NOT THINKING BIG

They say think big so that you can become successful, they say dream big and let your imaginations play inside of your head. They say always think big so that you will become successful but most of the time that quote never work for other people, most of the time people will just think big and not do anything at all. Sometimes thinking big only happens in the beginning but it ends so fast and the journey of a particular person end so fast and he feels like a failure forever.

I SAY STOP THINKING BIG.

Stop thinking that your opponent is big... just fight him, stay competitive and always give your 100 percent. Stop thinking that your dream is too impossible and big, stop thinking that you don't deserve it... conquer it and chase it, never stop. Don't think that the price of what you are trying to buy is too big and you can't afford it, of course you will be able to find a way to raise some big money, all it takes is the willingness to work hard and look for it. Never entertain a thought that will overwhelm you. Never underestimate yourself because every time you do that... you're only making matters worse, you're not progressing by doing that. Stop thinking that you're not good, always think that the challenge in front of you is beatable and there is always something you can do about it.

Just like a student who's doing a thesis. He should not think that the task is to much and it will take a lot of time, he should focus on what he can do and go further and further each day. If he will just start something and enjoy every little steps that he can do then it will become easier for him to finish the task. It's all about conditioning the mind, if you can trick your mind that the task is easy then you will take actions, but if you will believe that it's hard then you will get overwhelmed easily and will never take actions anymore. So don't respect your challenges too much and just do it, never think that it's hard, never think that you need a lot of time and effort to accomplish it. Forget time and just do it.

PERSEVERANCE IS THE BIGGEST KEY 

You have to persevere and keep moving forward even if you feel like you're about to give up in a second. Perseverance is the key here and nothing else. It doesn't matter what you have, what matters is you will persevere until you finish something. Don't be afraid of going hard all the time and not getting anything, don't afraid to exhaust yourself and push yourself to the limits. Take it one step at a time and never be afraid of looking like a loser. You maybe slow, you may not get anything but if you will force fate and take matters into your own hands then you will become free, you will thrive in the end.  So keep going no matter what, keep going even if you feel that it is impossible to win. Always remember that every suffering has an ending, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

STOP THINKING ABOUT THE PRICE

If you want to buy something let's say a house or a car or just a simple fancy shoe... never think about the big price of those items. Never think big, never get overwhelmed that you can't buy those things. you have to stop thinking about the price and start thinking about your effort. Ask yourself, are you doing whatever it takes to succeed? are you going all out and giving full maximum effort? it doesn't really matter if the price is big or small, what matters is are you taking actions to make your dreams come true? are you willing to go the extra mile and face greater amount of pain? the process is hard, it is given, but what are you going to do about it? are you just going to watch and waste time? you have a choice, you can procrastinate all day long or at least give yourself a chance to succeed by working extra hard and taking it one day at a time. The key here is to forget that it's too difficult and keep moving forward, never mind if you need a lot of strong effort and time to make it... just do it.

FACE THE INCONVENIENCE NOW

I know it's hard to take the first step, I know it feels so heavy and uncomfortable to start something especially if the task is so big that it overwhelms you to death. But you have to keep in mind that the more you delay something the bigger the problem will be. Time will come and you will be running out of time, there will be complications, there will be changes that you must do but you can't do it anymore because you don't have enough breathing room. So you have to face the difficulty now, face the challenge now and never think that it's too big to finish. You can accomplish anything if you are focused and determined. Never mind your feelings, forget your emotions, forget about feeling good and just do what you need to do . You will feel even better if you're already taking actions and building some momentum to succeed. Embrace the pain now because if not then you will be dealing with a more frightening fear later, you will be dealing with a more complex problem. So if you can do one positive small step now then do it, what are you waiting for? stop waiting for the right time and pull the trigger now. Be fast in starting, be strong in finishing. Nothing is big if you will think that you can do it, always think positive and believe in yourself, believe in the power of taking one small step at a time. You can do it if you really want it, the question is how bad do you want it? what level of sacrifices can you offer to make your dreams come true?

Thinking that the challenge is not big is not being arrogant, it's imply conditioning your mind that it's possible and will always be possible if you act now and stop wasting time. Focus is a very powerful thing, one small action can make a huge difference, what more if you are consistent and showing up everyday. Just do it, just aim for it, just finish it. No matter how big the problem or the challenge is... you can thrive if you will just try. 

FOCUS ON YOUR OWN CREATIONS

If you want to become the best in what you do... focus on your own creations, focus on your own work. Stop looking at other people's work, stop imitating, stop belittling yourself because you see that the work of others is better than yours. So what if they're better than you? it doesn't matter at all, you have your own journey, you have your own timing and you can define your own success. Focus on your own work, focus on making yourself better, focus on your ideas and intuition, make your life a masterpiece because every time you focus on your own life... your life is getting better. Ignore other people's work, forget other people's journey, it's time to live your own life and stop giving a lot of your time to other people. Nothing should take away your time, you're the only one who should use your time and no one else. 

ENJOY YOUR LIFE

The best way to enjoy your life is to live your life, use it and never let other people use you, never let other people manipulate you. The news, success of other people, other people's journey and dreams, emotions and problems of other people... you're too interested with these subjects and that's why you can't live your own life, it is the main reason why you can't become better. But if you will focus on your life and enjoy everything you do may it be a small activity then you're really living life to the fullest. Being in the moment, focusing on how you feel and how you think is the real living in the moment, it's living life to the fullest. Even if nothing good is happening now in your life... face it, face your problems and never try to do something else that will numb the pain. Face your adversities and never shy away from solving your own problem, never let other people solve your problem because they will never solve it, they will only make it worse because they're teaching you to become lazy and irresponsible. Face the pain, face the difficulty... doing these things is also living your life to the fullest. Living your life to the fullest doesn't mean being happy all the time, it also means you need to embrace every kind of situation and stay still despite of difficulties. 

DISCIPLINE IS THE KEY

It's every often that you don't know you're wasting a lot of time. You're giving away your time for free and you have no idea it is happening because you let any random situation occupy your mind, you easily forget your goals, you easily forget that there are some better things to do. Force yourself to stop watching news, sports, dramas etc. Force yourself to stop being concerned with other people's lives, focus on your own life, focus on your creations and activities, enjoy what you're doing, enjoy living your own life and never let other people or things affect your emotions. 

You will only become successful if you're disciplined enough and giving high quality time for yourself. Discipline is freedom, discipline is that path to greatness so if you can discipline yourself to focus on the most important things of life then you will become happier than ever. 

HOW TO DISCIPLINE YOURSELF?

Just do it, if there is something you need to do... do it, do it without hesitation, do it without thinking twice, stop procrastinating and simply do it... that's how to discipline yourself and win over laziness. It doesn't matter if it feels good or not, of course you will feel lazy and heavy but if you will start now and focus on the tiny steps that you can do then you will feel good in a while, that laziness will turn into motivation. Disciplining yourself is only hard in the beginning but once you become used to it... it will be a lot easier, you will become fast, you will become better, you will feel that nothing is impossible because you can always make yourself move despite of feeling bad and weak. 

Discipline is what it takes to become great, if you can master discipline then you can do anything you want, you will be able to do something for so long even if it's already too painful and tiring. 

FOCUS ON YOUR CREATIONS EVEN IF IT IS NOT WORKING YET

Don't give up, make it work, keep pushing and pushing, never stop when it's hard... stop when you're done. It is not working yet but it doesn't mean it will never work forever, time will come and you will be able to figure out how to make it work. Keep creating it, keep tweaking it, never stop and never settle, always find a way how to improve. It will only work if you're working hard to make it work, the reason why it's not working is because you're not focused, you're doing something but you're thinking about something else, you're not fully committed to it, you're not treating it seriously. And even if people were laughing at you... still focus on what you're trying to achieve. The greatest key is to never give up, keep doing it, keep working on it until you finally become successful. 

Keep pounding it, keep grinding it, look for a way, never give up even if it looks so impossible, always remember that victory belongs to the most persevering. 

NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS

Let them do their thing and let yourself focus on your own thing. Stop comparing yourself to others because it is the stupidest thing to do, you're only wasting your life by doing that. Comparing is building insecurity, it is making your confidence level go down. So stop comparing yourself to others because you are different from other people, you have your own thinking and creativity. What is working for them may not work for you and what is working for you may not work for them. We have different journeys, never get jealous with other people's success because you're only wasting a lot of energy and time, you will never get started and focus every time you got jealous. 

YOU NEVER KNOW IF IT'S YOUR LAST DANCE

Give your best, you never know if it's your last dance, give your all, it might be your lat opportunity. Most people think that they have a lot of chance or opportunity tomorrow or next week, they think that it's ok to give a mediocre effort now because they're on a comfortable situation right now, they never feel that it's an urgent to give their all now and that's why they're not pushing themselves to the limits. They think that fate is always on their side and they don't need to leave their comfort zone anymore. and when you're too comfy with your place and you're not exerting an effort anymore... you will go down slowly, you will never even notice it because you're addicted with comfort and you don't want to alter your psychology a little bit by facing discomfort and pain.

Just like an NBA player who thinks that he can still get another contract next season so it's ok to play mediocre now, it's ok to just chill and prevent injuries. But sometimes a lot of NBA players were not given a next contract anymore. They were completely left behind and no team is interested with them anymore. And when they realized that they have to work harder it's already too late because they already lost their momentum.

You have to take risks whenever you can because you never know if it's your last dance or not, opportunities may not come back again. A lot of random events may happen, a lot of change may happen instantly and if you're too relaxed with your situation then you better worry because it means you're not progressing or pushing yourself to get to another level. Just because you're successful now doesn't mean you're going to become successful forever. You think that success gives comfort right? no success will test you if you can sustain it or not. Success is hard to get and it's harder to maintain it. You will be tested all the time and if you're not ready for it then you're in big trouble. So always be aware if you're taking risks or not, be aware if you're pushing yourself to the limits or not because you may lose your edge very fast.

ALWAYS THINK THAT IT'S YOUR LAST

Always think that it's your last opportunity so you will never take any moment for granted, always think that there is no more next time, put pressure on yourself, make yourself uncomfortable by taking risks and working really really hard. Because you need to feel that it's urgent, you need to feel that the opportunity may not come back again. And if you don't want to live a life full of regrets... you better allow yourself to shine and forget what the outcome might be.

Always enjoy the moment, always enjoy the process and never feel lazy for a second, it's ok to become a little bit slow but never take the situation for granted and just let life pass you by without doing something magical. Always think that there is no more next chance and give your all now, give everything you've got and never feel conservative about using your energy. Never care if you run out of energy, never care if you get depleted or super exhausted... just go all out and feel what it feels to be great.

YOU ARE LOSING EVEN MORE IF YOU'RE NOT TAKING RISKS

You will lose more if you're not taking risks, you will feel so weak if you just let an opportunity pass by knowing that you can make it better or you can succeed by pushing yourself a little bit more. You have to take risks win or lose because if not then you will always think about it in the end, you will feel so sorry for yourself by not going further. So take risks and don't be afraid to fail, fail a lot of times, the best time to fail is now so you can learn a lot of lesson, stop playing safe because it will never give you what you want, you don't need to seek for approval... just do what you think is right.

So if you don't want to become a loser in life... take risks, forget about the pain of failing, you will feel pain even more if you just watch life pas you by without doing anything, make a move, pull the trigger... stop waiting and keep moving forward.

Go all the way, use everything you have. And even if you feel weak already, still keep moving forward and use every ounce of energy you have. There is something you can do, you can still think positive and take small actions.

DECIDE FAST, MOVE FAST

Decide now and never let you remind think never let yourself worry, just do something, move and show them what you've got. Decide now that you are going to take chances no matter what the outcome maybe, it doesn't matter how hard you fall, what matters is you stand up again and you're doing the right thing again. Don't be afraid to try over and over until you succeed, don't be afraid to try a million times. Because you will lose an opportunity if you're not moving fast. Moving fast is simply doing it, you don't need to become lightning quick here, just do it and never stop... that's it. Always stay focused and committed, move as fast as you can and never stop until you're done.

DON'T GET TOO EMOTIONAL HERE

Never let your emotions control you, stop dwelling too much with your emotions, stop making it a big deal. You may win, you may lose, you may feel bad, you may get rejected or disappointed but don't ever feel depressed, don't ever feel like a loser, try again and allow yourself to win. It can be a very painful and hard process but it will be easier if you don't let your emotions sink in, never get fooled by your emotions that are telling you to just give up, emotions were fake, it is never real. 

MINI ACTIONS CREATES HUGE RESULTS

Never hesitate to take small actions, those mini actions will create huge results in the future. All you have to do is be consistent and never give up. Small actions lead to bigger actions, small actions creates powerful momentum, it creates strong foundation that will lead you to greater heights. Start now, stop waiting to feel good before you start, stop looking for any motivation or spark before you draw the first blood. Stop thinking and just start, once you start never stop and keep moving forward all the time... that's how to get the job done. When you fast start you will finish start, you will be able to do more things. The first step is the hardest but once you were able to do it... everything else will be easier. 

BE A FINISHER

Have that killer instinct, have that assassin mentality. Once you start... you will finish no matter what, you will never leave it hanging in the air, you will push yourself to the limits until it is done. Be a finisher no matter what, look for a strong finish. Most of use were only good in starting, were only good while were having fun, were only good when were are in control of the situation but when the chaos comes in... were not interested in finishing anymore. If you can't finish then you will never win, have a mentality of a strong finisher if you wan to go further in life. Once you start something... never think about anything else other than finishing it. Focus, take it one step at a time. Develop a habit of finishing something because you will feel weak once you start something and didn't finish it. So if you want to feel powerful all the time... be a finisher, always look to finish and never stop once you start something, always look for the next move and execute the next step. Being a finisher will raise your confidence to another level. Because one great quality of successful people is they have killer instincts, they don't start something and just leave it unfinished, they don't have unfinished business, they were serious in finishing something, they can't sleep if they can't finish. 

So change yourself, make yourself a finisher, I know you're just good in starting and very poor in finishing. It's ok if you're like that, you can always change yourself, you can change now. Pick something, pick a task, start it and finish it no matter what. Never eat until it is done, never rest until you finish all the steps. Finishing is all about facing the pain, it's really difficult to work in the end because you're already stressed and tired but if you want to separate yourself from the pack and become one of the kind then you need to stick with the process and do whatever it takes to finish the task.

LOOK FOR THE SMALLEST STEP THAT YOU CAN DO AND DO IT

You get overwhelmed with the task in front of you because you're thinking about the steps, I mean hundreds of steps to finish it. The best way to make the task easier is to dissect the steps, look for the easiest steps first and then do it. Once you establish a momentum then look for the other steps that you can do and do it. There is something you can do, you can always make a progress, it's just a matter of choosing to move and stop worrying too much. So what if it is difficult? so what if it is impossible? it doesn't mean that you can't move anymore. You can always do something, you can always make a move, you have to decide now and move fast before it's too late. Just do it, stop thinking and just do it, commit to actions, stop over planning because it will make you stuck. Choose action over procrastination, if you're planning too much and thinking about different things for so long then you're already procrastinating. If you're talking too much and not doing anything then you're wasting your time. 

Trust the small actions that you can do, trust the process, begin now and never stop until you're done. Even if the task is so difficult there is always a small action that you can do, and once you do that small action, once you're done with that easiest step... you can still do more, your ability to do something is infinite, you just think that it's hard because you're limiting yourself too much instead of pushing yourself and going further. Success is about who can push harder, it's not about how talented you are, it's about how much you can push and how much pain you can endure. 

DON'T FOCUS ON THE OUTCOME, FOCUS ON THE PROCESS

Sometimes the reason why you can't succeed is because you're focusing too much on the outcome, you're too hooked with the prize and that's why you're not moving anymore. But if you focus on the process and simply enjoy it then you will achieve more. The truth is, you can never always control the outcome, sometimes the results will not fall according to your plan, sometimes you will be disappointed, you can never control everything. The only thing you can control is your effort. So focus on working hard and let the results come to you naturally. You will get something if you're really serious about it, you will be rewarded, it's impossible to fail if you give everything you've got. Trust the process and keep doing it. Never stop, forget the outcome because you can never control it, look for what you can dominate and that is your ability to move and do something. 

So convert yourself from being a watcher to doer, convert yourself from being a procrastinator to an executor. Execute all the time, once you have an idea inside of your head do it right away and never think about anything else. Never think that you are wrong, never judge yourself. 

BAD LUCK WILL QUIT ON YOU

Have you ever find yourself stuck in a rut? you're stuck in a quicksand and you feel like you're going down every time you move, you feel like there's no way out, you can't see the sun anymore, you can't breathe anymore, you feel like in any moment you're about to get swallowed by bad luck. Don't worry, you still have a chance if you have a positive mind, you can still change your situation if you keep moving. Keep trying, keep pushing because bad luck will quit on you, if you're working hard enough and you have the mentality of not quitting then you will be able to change your situation. Because not all the time you will experience bad luck, not all the time you're at the bottom. One day is going to be your day, all of your efforts will be rewarded, all of the hardships and pain you faced will turned into something beautiful.

THE ONLY THINK YOU SHOULD DO IS NEVER GIVE UP

They can laugh at you, they can mock you, the world can kick you in your face but the one thing you must do is never give up. Always go further and see what is possible, the universe is watching you, it will go on your side if you show an incredible tenacity and determination. If you want to succeed then you need to face the pain, you need to stop making dramas and excuses and simply push forward. It's too simple right? just don't give up and that's it, go hard if you can, you can even go slow if you're so tired but don't ever give up because the moment you do that then it's over, your journey is over, you already lost. Not giving up is hard because you're always thinking about comfort but if you will disregard comfort and just face the pain then you will be able to move faster and enjoy the process even more. Breathe if you need to, pause a little bit if you need to but don't ever ever give up. Little steps will accumulate in the end, all of your efforts will be seen, you will learn something from not giving up, you will become something, you will turn into a beast, you will be able to transform into a super human if you don't give up. Not giving up is giving you the power to keep moving forward, you think you're weak? you think you're depleted? you think you've had enough? NO, just try not giving up and you will be able to gather that strength again, you will find the energy that doesn't exist.

BAD LUCK IS JUST A STATE OF MIND

There is no such thing as bad luck, it's only your perception. You may keep losing but it's not a bad luck if you think that it's just another experience, it's a learning curve. So stop thinking that you're bad luck, stop thinking that the world is punishing you, you are only being tested if you really want it or not.

Countless rejections, missed opportunities, getting sick, getting fired on your job, missing the last trip, losing your money, losing the battle, unable to get your goals... these are just normal situations, everyone already experienced these kind of situations. If you want good luck to go on your side then you need to work hard, if hard work is not working then double the hard work, it's about showing how tough you are, it's about showing that you're never going to quit... ever. Even if there is no more chance to win, even if the whole world turn its back on you... still keep moving forward and find a way. You will prevail for sure, bad luck will quit on you, success will submit itself for you. Success has no other choice but to bestow itself upon you.

So change your mind and never think that you're experiencing multiple bad luck. Shift from being negative to positive. Time is fast, your situation will change if you have a positive mindset and always working hard. Any bad situation will change, you will feel better in just a matter of time, you will experience better situations.

ACTION IS THE GAME CHANGER

Taking action is the only way to experience a new and better situation. If you keep on being lazy and procrastinating then you will become stuck in a mud forever. You have to be fast, stop waiting because waiting is the number one game of losers. You have to move fast, act fast and never stop once you get that momentum. Start fast and finish strong, you have to trust that speed and discipline is the name of the game, discipline your mind to focus on the things that you want and ignore the things and people that are not making you feel good at all. Focus on what you want and never give any attention to what you hated the most. Ignore your enemies, ignore your mistakes, ignore what is bugging you, ignore the toxicity surrounding you, ignore the happenings that you don't want and focus on trying to build a better life.

Action alone will make you feel good, it will give you confidence so just keep taking actions and make yourself one step closer from your goal. It doesn't matter what kind of action you take, what matters is you do it and you free yourself from procrastination and stagnancy. So if you ever find yourself getting lost... move, stop thinking and just move, do whatever you can think of, free your mind from idleness and laziness, because you will get stressed even more if you're not doing anything. Take actions, massive actions and not just a weak effort. Stay consistent all the time, elevate your level of hungriness to win, be a mad man who's on a mission. Keep pushing forward all the time, drag your feet and hands if you need to, never stop believing yourself, never stop creating something.

THE WORLD IS REVOLVING

Sometimes you're on top, sometimes you're at the bottom. You can never control the outcome of your life all the time, the only thing you can control is your effort and beliefs. Believe in yourself and work like hell if you want to get on top. And once you're on top... tie yourself there, create a very strong foundation so you will never fall again. The world is round, there is no such thing as permanence in this world, life can change all the time, you can change your life, you have a chance if you will work hard and feel unstoppable, and speaking of unstoppable... it is possible to feel it, it's possible to become it if you will start now and have a mindset of not quitting until the end. 

CREATE A NEW MIND CREATE YOUR OWN ENTERTAINMENT

To have a new life you have to create your own mind and create a  new entertainment. You've been entertained by a lot of useless activities and hobbies before that is why your life is the same as your life ten years ago, nothing changed, nothing improved. Avoid wasting your time, avoid wasting seconds of your life, those seconds will accumulate and you could have use it for a useful project.

CREATE A NEW MIND

You're a negative thinker before, you're always thinking about past, you have the same thought patterns the moment you wake up until the end of the day. Look at your mind, was it thinking properly? are you focusing on what you want? or is your mind crowded with negativity and pessimism? To create a new life create a new mind, once you create a new mind you will have new habits that will lead you to success. It's going to get uncomfortable once you started creating a new mind, it's really going to get hard but it's worth it. You will become more productive if you have a new mind, you will become more persevering, you will never quit even if the challenge in front of you is really scary and risky.

Think differently now, if you're thinking about thousands before think about millions now. If you're always thinking about the past and have a lot of regrets in your life... replace those thoughts about past and think about how are you going to create a new life. If you're thinking about other people before then it's time to think about your own life now, stop thinking about them and just focus on your life, think about the life that you really want to create. Focus on what you want and never think about your enemies, the bad past, tragic events, failures, traumas etc. Focus on what you want and think about it the whole day, do something to get it, make yourself really closer from it. A new mind will create a new reality, a new mind will make you experience a new experience. Again, it's going to get uncomfortable but feeling uncomfortable means you're evolving and growing, you're slowly becoming a different person.

HOW TO CREATE A NEW MIND?

It's too simple, stop thinking the way you think in the past. Entertain new and positive thoughts, always be in the moment and be mindful of the thoughts that are entering your mind. Persevere more and stay disciplined, always be aware if you're not thinking about what you want. Stop thinking about what you don't want because it's leveling down your confidence level. Yeah, sometimes it's fun to think about what you don't want because it's easier to think that way, but it has no benefits, it's only sopping you from taking actions. But if you will focus on what you want and think about it everyday then you will become a much better person, you will change for the better and you will take more actions so that you will become closer from what you want.

It only takes a few weeks to create a new mind, just remember to stop being negative and stop thinking about what you don't want, stop thinking about failing, your enemies, the people you hate, the situations that you are afraid of and start thinking about how can you make your life a little bit better.

CREATE YOUR OWN ENTERTAINMENT

Stop being hooked with entertainment that will not serve you at all. Stop giving away your time for free for TV programs, known personalities, news etc. Your time is so precious that you should be spending it only for activities that will make you better and will give you something. The best form of entertainment is chasing a goal, or studying a new musical instrument or studying business or arts. Whatever entertainment that will teach you how to become more productive and useful is a good form of entertainment.

You can simply chase an impossible goal and take it step by step to get there. Your goals will save you, it will make you a better person because the failures you experienced by reaching your goals will teach you a very important lesson.

Me, personally my entertainment is pushing myself to work hard, I wanna make sure I will work hard everyday and stop wasting a lot of my precious time. I don't want to waste my time. Sometimes I am still wasting a lot of it but the good thing is I am aware of it and I feel so guilty about it and that makes me more productive, that makes me cut a lot of time wasting activities. My awareness makes me start fast and focus on the task that I am doing until I am done.

You can create your own entertainment too, make sure it's not something that is fun but has no benefits. It's ok to choose a boring entertainment but offers a big room for growth and self development. Don't worry because it's only boring and hard in the beginning but once you repeat it a hundred times then it will become a lot of fun especially if you are seeing yourself growing from it. Your own entertainment even if boring is the best entertainment that you can have because you are really living your life by doing that, you are not being controlled by anyone or anything, you purely love your work and you can do it all day long, you grow from it, you make yourself successful from it.... how good was that?

KILL THE HABITS THAT ARE NOT IMPORTANT

What you do not know is you have a lot of bad habits that are making your life worse. You just can't admit it because you're having a lot of fun. If you want some change then you need to get rid of the bad habits that are making your life miserable, admit that it's a bad habit, be honest with yourself and never lie to yourself. Even thinking about negative thoughts and entertaining a lot of useless thoughts is a bad habit, you need to get rid of it, you need to think about better thoughts that will help you improve your life.

Killing bad habits is also part of creating a new mind, if you have good habits then you will have good thoughts, a new mind will be created... something that is more useful and clean. 

WHEN THINGS ARE HARD ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR FAVORITE QUOTE

Things will get hard and that is normal, that is part of the game, you can never refuse to experience difficulty at one point in your journey especially if you're chasing a big goal. The only thing you must do is to stay positive and keep yourself a little motivated. So you must remember your favorite quote when things are getting harder, recite it, embody it, believe it, feel it. Your quote will save you, it will give you strength, it will make you push harder and do more.

My favorite quote when I am having a hard time with a certain situation is "keep going further". I just go further because I know good things will happen once I push myself to the limits. And also when I am so afraid to take risks my favorite quote is "forget your identity". Once I forget myself and I stop being perfect... I begin to take actions and take risks, I don't care about the outcome anymore, I don't care about what people say anymore. When I am having a hard time focusing on something, I always recite the quote "face the pain". These quotes were helping me to think right and move, these quotes always save me every time I am in trouble.

IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT KIND OF QUOTE YOU HAVE

It doesn't matter what kind of quote you have what matters is it affects you, it manipulates your brain and make you a functional human being. Most people were stunned when they face stressful times. Most people will quit and give up once they feel a lot of pressure. They let their minds control them instead of controlling their minds, their minds own them and freeze them. They can't find what words to feed their minds so that they will be able to move.

It's all about looking for the right words, it can even be a single word that will make you feel something so that you will be able to move again. It doesn't matter what kind of quote you have, it can even be a negative word, for as long as you feel good about it and it's triggering your desire again then it will work. Some people will even use a single and simple words such as "go", "fight", "win" to keep them moving and running, once they hear one of these words they immediately turn into a beast, they feel so unstoppable, they feel like a man on a mission again.

You can have the simplest quote in the world but if it is making you feel something then use it over and over again, don't forget it, recite it everyday, recite it in your brain and use it when the going gets tougher than what it use to be.

YOUR QUOTE IS WHO YOU ARE

If your quote is about motivation and having a fighting spirit then you're a fighter, if your quote is about being  happy go lucky guy then your life has no direction. Quotes such as "yolo", "beer is the solution", "burn your money because you can never bring it to heaven" etc. are quotes of the people who have no direction at all. They think these quotes are cool but the reality is it's only making their lives worse.  Your quote is who you are, if your quote is about love then you want romance or you are in love, if your quote is about trying again then you're a goal chaser, if your quote is about money then you're a businessman or an entrepreneur. Your quote is who you are so never memorize a useless quote because it will be embedded into your system, you will use it in your daily life.

WHAT IF YOU'RE QUOTE IS NOT WORKING?

It only means you don't believe it, it only means you're not reciting it enough, your quote will only become effective if you're reciting it everyday. Believe it so it will work.

Some people believe in a quote but they are not believing it. For example, a person believes that hard work pays off but is not working hard, this person will never make the quote work, this person is a fake. A quote will only work if you are working for it, if you are really living it and not just saying it. If you want to make a quote work then try it everyday, believe it and fully give your heart and soul into it. Your quote will only help you if you will help yourself.

So make your quote work by working on it, by living it and breathing it, make it as your heart and soul, make it as your belief that fuels your motor.

Never doubt your quote, even if people is laughing on it and not believing it... still believe it. It will work in the end if you believe it hard enough, fully commit on it and embed it into your system.

YOUR QUOTE WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE

It will give you a direction, it will save your life, it will make you thrive during the hard times. One of my favorite quote is "victory belongs to the most persevering". This quote is making me work hard twice, it is giving me a motivation when things went wrong. So if you want a better life, if you want to change then pick a quote and fully believe on it, never doubt it nor disrespect it... fully embody it and attach it to your daily life.

So when things are hard and you can't see the sun anymore... always remember your quote, trust it and repeat it a million times... your mind will change, you will feel much better, you will start to believe in yourself again.

FABRICATE YOUR OWN QUOTE

You can invent your own quote, you can choose your own words. You are free to do it, just make sure that you will really believe it and use it in your daily life. 

YOU CAN CALL YOURSELF #1

Call yourself the number one, call yourself the greatest, call yourself a phenom or something special, you can even call yourself the chosen one. You can call yourself whatever you wanted to. Just make sure you are calling yourself the right words, it's better to call yourself the greatest rather than calling yourself stupid or dumb or a loser. Making dramas about yourself and having self pity will never help, it will only lower your self esteem, bad things will be attracted to you. Because words can become things, it can become a reality if you believe it hard enough. Because at the end of the day you will believe in something... why not believe in yourself? it's free to believe in yourself, nobody can stop you from believing in yourself. You are allow to call yourself whatever you want, you can call yourself superman, or the greatest, or even the best. Make sure you are choosing the right moniker for yourself because it will be ingrained into your brain, you will remember it and how you call yourself will affect your level of confidence.

NEVER LET OTHER PEOPLE CALL YOU WEAK

Never let them call you weak or some funny names, you are here to create something special, you are here to prove yourself that you can become great too. Never let them make fun of you, you are here to showcase your skills and abilities, show them what you've got. And never believe that you are weak, if someone called you weak... never believe him, never entertain a thought that is making you feel inferior... ever. Because believing is the key to success, the more you believe in yourself the more you are likely to succeed. If you are doubting yourself then you will never even dare to try. You have to idolize yourself and appreciate what you can do.

You don't know how strong you are until you are forced to become strong and use all of your skills and strength. You feel so weak because you're not allowing yourself to stretch a little bit, you're always staying on your comfort zone which is a very bad thing to do because it is limiting your abilities, you will never discover your full potential if you always play safe and stay on your comfort zone. So leave your comfort zone and do what you haven't done before. Do something different this time, call yourself the best and give your best effort.

SOME PEOPLE WERE CALLING THEMSELVES THE WRONG WAY

They were calling themselves stupid, they were calling themselves not enough, I don't know if it is their way to show humbleness or they really don't believe in themselves. And that is why how they called themselves is manifesting in their reality. Words are very powerful, how you call yourself will be remembered by your system, if you keep calling yourself stupid or dumb even if it's only for humor purposes then it will become your reality so be careful. Avoid using weak words to describe yourself, avoid believing people who doesn't believe in you.

So stop playing with yourself, stop belittling yourself, confidence can be developed through self talk and affirmations. So if you want your confidence to develop then call yourself "the greatest".

YOU CAN REALLY BECOME THE GREATEST

Anyone can become great, anyone can become the greatest. Just like what Muhammad Ali did to himself... he called himself "the greatest" everyday and that's why it manifested in his reality, he bring that idea into life, it really happened in his life, he experienced being the number one. Just work hard and keep calling yourself the greatest and one day you will really become one. It all starts in words then paired with actions, call yourself the greatest and then work insanely hard, work like hell, work like you're addicted to what you're doing, work like you're already succeeding because you will in just a matter of time. People who become great believe in themselves too much, you too can become great, just raise your level of belief and call yourself the greatest all the time, do it everyday, until your mind finally believes it and you can't forget it anymore.

JUST KEEP IT AS  A SECRET IF YOU'RE SHY

If you're afraid to be labeled as arrogant because of calling yourself the greatest then just keep it to yourself, you can call yourself the "number one" without people knowing it, just say it inside of your brain, think about it and embody it. It will still work even if nobody is hearing it. Some people were succeeding even if they look arrogant to others, and some people were also succeeding by staying humble... whatever works for you, do it. Just secretly call yourself the greatest and never stop doing it even if you're not succeeding, the power if repetition is very strong, what you repeatedly think of will become real one day so be mindful of the words you are using to describe yourself.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF EVEN IF NOBODY BELIEVES IN YOU

Believing in yourself is the best reward you can give to yourself. What is the use of your life if you will just doubt yourself and hold yourself back. Believe in yourself even if nobody believes in you, just keep believing, keep grinding and pushing. And even if you doubt yourself a little bit... still do what you need to do, don't worry because you will become more confident later especially if you don't stop.

Some people will doubt you but just ignore them, listening to what they say is none of your business, focus on the main thing and that is to become ultra successful. Their words doesn't matter, your word does, watch yourself, watch how you call yourself and always see to it that you are calling yourself right. Call yourself the best words that you can think of, use powerful words, never use something that is making you feel bad.

Having that self belief is your greatest weapon, if you believe in yourself too much then you will become successful in anything that you do.

IF YOU CAN BE THE HARDEST WORKER HERE YOU HAVE A CHANCE

Let's face it you don't have a star power, you're not even gifted, you're not "blessed"nor born rich. You're an underdog from the very beginning, I know you're even asking yourself what chance do you have? but you do really have a chance if you work hard, you have a chance if you become the HARDEST WORKER IN THE WORLD. It is what it is, you don't have talents right? you don't have the skills right? you're not even rich, the only choice you have is to outwork them and be the best that you can be. It's so simple right? all you have to do is focus and work hard, even a man with no read and no right can do it. So don't ever think that you don't have any chance to succeed, of course you do have... all you have to do is bust your ass and be the best that you can be, grow as much as you can, push yourself to the limits and never stop working. It's really hard but what other choice do you have?

So if you want to have a chance to become successful then be the hardest worker in the world, never complain about your work, never make excuses, just do every step and see where your hard work can take you. Just test it, test this process, test this very simple technique that works every now and then. Hard work fails nobody, everyone who use it become successful. It is not a lie nor hype, hard work is real, it can change your life and turn you into something special only if you commit fully into it. `

WHY IS IT SO HARD TO WORK HARD?

Because all of the people wants entertainment, they get bored easily. They want fast results, they can't discipline themselves, success is simply disciplining yourself to do what is needed and stop wasting your time for useless activities. If you can just enjoy taking one small step at a time and stay consistent then you will never fail, you will become ultra successful. If you can learn how to enjoy hard work then everything else will be easy, you will never have to worry about anything anymore. Every work is easy work if you will just learn how to enjoy it and stop rushing it, don't fast forward the process, you can get any job done if you will just have fun and stop complaining about the difficult steps that you may encounter. But if you can force yourself to work hard on any given situation then you already have an advantage. It doesn't matter if you feel good or not, emotions has nothing to do here, what matters is you're moving forward all the time and not thinking about quitting. Make hard work as your serious business, push yourself and never give up when the going gets hard. Feel the pain of hard work until you can't feel it anymore.

PULL THE TRIGGER AND JUST START

Tap the beast inside of you, pull the trigger and just start. I don't care how you feel, I don't care if you're motivated or not, if you really wanted to win then just start and be the hardest worker in the world. Look at the most successful people in the world... they work so hard, they even work during holidays. They never stop, they go all in, they do whatever it takes to succeed. So if you can have a mentality like that then you will prevail, you will never fail, it's all about the mindset, it's all about the level of your hungriness, if you're so hungry of success then you can do impossible things, you will never accept NO as an answer, you will never accept defeat, you will go the extra mile, you will push yourself to the limits. So wherever you are right now... stop what you're thinking and just start, start even if it's too uncomfortable, start even if you don't know how are you going to win.

So stop thinking and just pull the trigger... now, stop worrying, stop doubting yourself... pull the trigger and never stop, never mind about losing or failing... just do it.

FOCUS CAN GIVE YOU ANYTHING

Focus is a very powerful thing, focus can give you anything, it can give you your dreams no matter how big it is. If you're dreaming about millions then simply chase millions, look for a process that can give it to you. You can never dream about millions if you're just a street sweeper, there is nothing wrong about it but it's not related to millions. Your focus should be insane, your focus should be one of a kind, it's all about thinking the subject or dream you pick and doing whatever it takes to get it. If you cannot get what you want then it means your focus is not strong and your work ethic is not serious, you have to have that very strong work ethic, you have to work like hell and forget about living in heaven, it's going to get hard all the time but if you really want it then you will make sacrifices for it.

MAKE AN INVENTORY OF YOURSELF

Watch yourself and be honest with yourself... are you really working hard or are you clowning around just like other people does? are you giving everything you can and make your dreams come true? You can never lie to yourself, you're the number one reason why you're failing but the good news is you can also be the number one reason why you will succeed. It's all in your hands, it all depends on how hard you work and how dedicated you are for your dreams. Whenever you're not working hard and feeling lazy, slap yourself and continue to do the hard work. So stop being lazy, if you need to do something just do it and never stop until it's done, as simple as that. Make hard work as your culture, make doing whatever it takes as your mindset, if you're not brutally working hard then you will never achieve anything, you have to be something special, you need to respect hard work and make it as your number one priority. It doesn't matter if you're succeeding or not what matters is you're working hard and giving everything you've got. 

BE THE MAIN CHARACTER OF YOUR OWN LIFE

The problem why you can't become happy and satisfied with your life is because you're not the main character of your own life. You're always letting something dictate your life, you don't own your time, you're not in control here. You don't like your job but you're still doing it just to earn money, you don't like your boss but you're still kissing his ass, you don't like your life but you're still living the same way as before, you're not the main character of your own life because you're letting other people control your life, you are powerless, they are the main characters of your own story, you're just the supporting cast in your own life... how sad was that? You're letting them control you because you have no confidence in yourself, you think that your destiny is to just follow others and become mediocre like others.

TAKEOVER

You need to take over now, you're the one who's in control here, reclaim your life, take your power back. You can only do that by creating a system that will give you all the leverage that you need, set up a life that is less stressful and has more room for creativity. Because you only have one life, why not give your best? why not give yourself a chance to become successful? stop living the life that you don't want, stop being not in control. You have to take over of your life, you have to reclaim the throne. Show them what you've got, show them that you're not a joke and you're not some kind of a garbage that they can throw away whenever they want to. Be the main character of your own life, feel like a super hero, make it a play to live your life to the fullest everyday, what if your story can have a very good ending? so work hard and give your best. Grow as much as you can, learn as much as you can and never let life pass you by without feeling great or doing something big.

TRY SOMETHING, DON'T BE LIKE OTHERS WHO FOLLOW THE CROWD

Invent something, try a new process, invent a new technique, study your life very well, study yourself and see what you can do with your life that will make you very happy. Unfollow the crowd, they were doing the same thing, they have the same likes, same passion and same results. You have to separate yourself from the pack if you really want to live your life to the fullest. You can succeed in this game of life too, all you have to do is be something that the world hasn't seen before. Be extra ordinary, do what you really love, express yourself and never stop yourself from doing something weird, if your heart is telling you to do it then it is right so do it. Following the crowd means getting the same results as theirs, what if it is possible to live your life the way you wanted to live it and at the same time also being successful?

Don't be afraid to fail, keep climbing that mountain, keep disciplining yourself to take actions that are only related to your goals, you can become big if you want to, all it takes is a little bit of confidence and hard work. And even if you're not confident at all... you can still succeed if you don't care if you fail or not, just keep trying because you have nothing to lose... you have everything to gain. Understand that you already won if you try, you already succeed if you dare to give everything you've got for something you really want in your life.

Don't be afraid to look like a weirdo, it's ok, you should be the one who's laughing at them because they're all the same and doing the same thing.

STOP BEING THE SIDEKICK, BE THE STAR NOW

You are the star of your own life, you only have one life so why choose to become a side kick? why choose to become a follower instead of a leader? Most people don't know that they only have one life, they play safe and follow other people because they can see immediate results there. You have to believe that you can create your own destiny, just focus on what you want and try to make yourself closer and closer from it. Never give up when it's hard, stop when you're already successful. You can become a star, you can become anything you wish to, all it takes is hard work and determination. All it takes is patience and perseverance. So give up the supporting role, stop playing the sidekick because you are the star of your own life, create your own story, direct your own fate and never stop until you have a happy ending. You've been doubting your abilities and potential for a very long time, it's time to believe in yourself now and see what is possible for your life. Be the start of your own life even if no one supports you, keep being a star even if you don't have your own sidekick, walk alone if you need to but don't ever follow them, stop taking commands from other people... make you own rules and be the captain of your own sheep.

You will never regret that you take matters into your own hands, you will feel really good and proud of yourself because only few people can take full control of their own lives. Most people were like slaves, most people were living in their fears, they want something but they can't even start.

START NOW

Do something, start now and never stop. This is going to become a very long journey so you should start now. Take it one step at a time, move forward slowly if you need to but don't ever take a step back, always push... that's how your mindset should be. If you will not start now then you will never start forever, start even if it's too uncomfortable, start now even if you don't have any idea how are you going to do it... just do it. The best time to start is now, the right timing is now, stop waiting for tomorrow, stop tasting another year, stop lying to yourself that one day your life will become better even if you're not doing anything, start now and set yourself free. 

THE ONLY WAY TO WIN IS TO DESTROY YOUR IDENTITY

Stop thinking about looking cute or perfect, stop staying on the middle, if you wanted to win then you need to destroy your identity, stop trying to perfect the self image that you are dreaming of. There is no way you can become perfect, and even if you are... people will still criticize you and stay bad things to you. You will still hear negative comments. You will never look perfect... ever, if you want to become happy in your life... take matters into your own hands and forget what other people might say, do what you think is best for your life, take risks, and even if the whole world hates you... at least you try being a star in your own rules. Because even if you feel perfect, even if you do something great... people will still say something against you, you don't have choice but to be yourself if you want to win. Free yourself by doing the things you want, follow your instincts, never let the comments of other people affect your decision.

FORGET WHO YOU ARE

The reality is you are nothing, even if you already became successful... you are still nothing, if you always think that you have a big name then you will never take risks anymore, you will always play safe and take the easier path, and that kind of mentality will lead to failing. You have to keep taking risks, you have to destroy your name. If you always think that you have a name to protect then you will become conservative, you will never go the extra mile anymore, you will never accept big challenges anymore... it's because you're already afraid to fail big time. So if you wanted to feel free, if you want to feel loose and express yourself again... forget who you are, that is the path to freedom.

THERE IS NO ROOM FOR PERFECTION

Stop looking for perfection and focus on taking action... that's it. If you're always caring about your identity then you will never succeed, it's because you are focusing on what other people are saying, you're not focusing on what you really want. Because you will become stuck on the same place if you're always looking for perfection, nothing good will happen to you, you will never make any kind of small progress, you will become stuck in a mud, do you want that? so if you want to win you have to DESTROY YOUR IDENTITY. Stop trying to look cool, stop trying to stay perfect all the time, stop trying to look cute because that will never get the job done, the only thing that will get the job done is by trying and looking like a fool out there, it's ok if you look stupid, it's ok if you look bad... just try and destroy your identity, be rugged, be rough, get your hands dirty. You really want it right? so you have to forget what people say and never mind if they appreciate you or not, just go all out, go all the way. Perfectionist people never get any job done, they don't want to risk at all, they don't want to start, they were afraid of failing that's why they don't even try.

SO if you're this type of guy who always wanted to look perfect then you will never achieve anything... ever, it's because you're so afraid to mess things up, you're so afraid to make mistakes that's why you can't even pull the trigger. Success is all about making mistakes, it's all about failing over and over again and learning how to stand up again. You will never win if you never lose, you have to endure the pain of losing and learn how to learn something from it.

You don't need a perfect start you also don't need a perfect finish, all you need is to give your best and give everything you've got every time you are facing a challenge.

ALWAYS FACE THE PAIN NO MATTER WHAT

It's going to be hard, that is the reality, if you're trying to win then it's really going to get hard, face the pain no matter what. Face the pain of failing, face the pain of exerting too much effort. Face it, just face it... no matter what happens you need to rely on your hard work, rely on everything that you can do. Because you can always do something, you're just afraid to start because you don't want to fail, you don't want to feel the pain. This is a process, this is not a destination, you have to face the pain of working hard or else you will face a more painful emotion later and that is called... regrets. If you don't want to have any regrets in your life then face the pain now, do something now and never take your chances for granted. Pain will give you growth so don't be afraid of it, it will give you an experience that has a lot of lesson, it will give you power and tenacity... face it and you will become a better man.

Forget yourself forget your emotions and just do the process... that is how winning is done , you become mentally tougher every time you face the pain so don't be afraid of it. Pain is just a feeling, it can never kill you, it can only make you grow if you realize that it is part of the process and there is no way you can't fee it if you want to grow. Nobody is immune from pain, everyone will experience, so experience it now and try to grow from it, endure it and see what can it make you.

FORGET YOUR MISTAKES

Forget the mistakes that you did in the past because it will only destroy your confidence. Focus only on the good things that you did, focus on the progress. Your mistakes were normal, it's not a big deal so forget about it and just move forward. Your mistakes were part of the game, it is all part of the design, don't dwell on it too much because it is only making you learn something, move on and do the next step right away. What is done is done, you can never change the past anymore, it can only give pain to you if you're always thinking about it. Forget about it because you are making your confidence level go down every time you think about it. Everybody makes mistakes, nobody is perfect in this world, even the riches man in the world is not perfect so why make it a big deal?

DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME

Forget about what may happen, forget about what may they say, detach from the outcome and always go further. Because if you're always thinking about the results then you will become conservative, you will never be able to give your very best. Focus on taking actions and just give your best win or lose. Because at the end of the day... winning or losing is never an issue, the only issue is... did you give your all?, did you allow yourself to  use all of your strength? The outcome is just a bonus, it is never really an issue, you have to go all out and give everything you've got.

THRIVE WITHOUT ANYTHING

The greatest thing you can ever do to make yourself proud is to thrive without anything. You don't have money, work hard and get money. You don't have a good support... stand up on your own and become something great, become something else that people who didn't support you though you will never be. You don't have shoes? run fast and go to your desired destination, win the race, outrun everyone else, you can thrive without anything if you will commit to the process and give your full maximum effort. There is no excuse for not thriving into this world, the power is always yours, you can become anything you want if you will push yourself to the limits and work extra hard. People who were making excuses were not moving at all, they were on the same place as yesterday. But if you're the type of guy who really wanted to change his life then you need to make yourself one of a kind, you need to destroy all of your excuses and stop looking to what is lacking in your life. Make a difference by working hard and going all out, be the best that you can be... show the world what you can become from your efforts and sacrifices.

ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE IF YOU WILL TRY

Just try something, anything is possible if you try, try going all out, try giving everything you've got and never stopping until you become successful, try as hard as you can without giving up.  Never quit, never settle for something lesser than your goal. All you have to do is keep trying again and again until you succeed... that's how to win in life. If you try then you already won, as simple as that. Just do it, try hard, keep kicking the wall until it breaks, keep pushing the door until it opens, never think that you're wrong, never think that you're on the wrong path... just keep trying again and again until you finally succeed. Trying will never hurt you, it can only make you better and stronger, it can only make you a better man. So keep trying and keep failing, there is nothing wrong if you fail a million times, there is nothing wrong if your face is covered with mud because of trying, you will succeed in just a matter of time, you will succeed even if you have nothing.

You can try as much as you want, nobody can stop you, that's the best thing about life. But only few people have this kind of mindset because they want results so fast. Trying should be fun, you should do it slowly and never rush the process because by doing so will make you impatient. That's the key... patience and nothing else.

Even if the challenge is so big... still try to win, never give up, never get overwhelmed with the challenge in front of you, you can do it, just work hard and give your very best, you will succeed in just a matter of time.

BECOME A RAGS TO RICHES STORY

Being one of the rags to riches story is amazing. Prove to the world that you didn't waste your life doing stupid things. A lot of people already did it, it only means you can do it too, what they can do you can do better if you will just allow yourself to take massive actions so you can attract massive results. Be confident with your skills and abilities, if you think you don't have the skill then just use your willpower, you will learn the skills needed if you persevere enough and focus on becoming successful. Anyone can thrive, there are even some people who don't know how to read and write but were able to become successful. Never count yourself out, never under estimate the power of perseverance, always remember that victory belongs to the most persevering, you will become successful if you will never quit, so have that never say die mentality and you're already there... success will submit itself to you.

Don't be like others who were looking for help or support or material things before they act, those people were weak because they thought that power comes from external things, real power is coming from the inside and not from the outside. Success is just a matter of being tough and not a quitter, it's all about moving fast, deciding fast and not quitting.

MARCH FORWARD, ONE FOOT AT A TIME

It's ok to be slow, it's ok if you're not succeeding big time yet but don't ever stop. Take it one step at a time and enjoy every action that you are doing. Never get bored with the process, never quit when it's hard... push harder when it's hard because it means you're almost there. The most successful people never become successful fast, they just keep pushing even if they are slow, they were consistent and they never skip a day of work. You can do something now, so stop waiting and simply give your best. Stop making excuses, stop thinking that you don't have any chances of winning. Use your time to take one action at a time, never settle, never get stagnant or complacent, always be on the move. And even if your actions were not producing big results... still move, still give your very best because that's the best thing to do.

DON'T TRY TO BECOME IMPRESSIVE

The reason why you can't thrive is because you're always wanting to look impressive, you don't want to go hard, you're always cautious, you're always holding yourself back. Just do it, do it even if it doesn't feel good, do it even if you feel not perfect at all. Because if your mindset is to become impressive all the time then you will try to please people, you will try to look good, you will look for comfort and advantages, and what if you don't have those things? the mindset should be... you still push even if you don't have anything, you still give your all despite of having zero in life. You build your own empire, you create your own momentum, you never stop until you become successful... that's how your mindset should be.

YOU ARE ENOUGH

You're skills were enough, everything you have is enough, don't look for what is missing in your life, don't complain about it...get it. If you really want it then you need to work hard for it, don't expect someone to hand you freebies or assistance because it will never come. Don't ask for food stamps, don't ask for sympathy and create your own destiny. Trust me... hard work and perseverance will get the job done, it will give you everything you are wishing for. 

IT'S JUST ANOTHER EMOTION, IT'S NOTHING

Stop being too emotional, stop being too dramatic and cry baby, stop feeling regrets or feeling incomplete... after all, it's just another emotion, it's just another day.

You win you're happy, you lose you cry, what's the difference, it's just another emotion that will go away. You're sad for now you can become happy again tomorrow, you're happy today you will become sad again for whatever reason, just being tired will make you sad if you work hard so the conclusion is never make your emotion a big deal because it is nothing, it's controlling you for whatever reason because you prioritize it too much. You are getting weaker and weaker because you feel too much, you are being overly too dramatic about your emotion thinking that it's the most important thing in the world.

It's ok to get overwhelmed, it's ok to get tired, it's ok to feel the pain, it's ok to become scared, it's ok to get stunned or stressed or lost. It's really ok, it's ok if you're embarrassed or humiliated or criticized, if you will stop being too emotional then you can live forever, you will never feel weak, you will never care about what people say anymore.

Your emotions has no price, it can't be sold so why dwell too much on it, it will not even make you a better person, all it does is control you or stop you. It will control you and make your decisions go wrong, it can also stop you because you're not focusing on the process instead you focus on what is making you feel something.

FORGET ABOUT YOUR EMOTIONS

If you want to become something else, if you want to become bigger than yourself then you need to forget your emotions, you need to feel like a stone, there is no room for emotions if you're chasing success, it's not time to become emotional nowadays, you have to stay still and stay committed to your dreams. You get scared because you're scared of feeling something, you don't want to take the blame, you don't want to get criticized, all you want is to look perfect. Your emotion is nothing, you will feel something everyday, you will feel negative or positive, it's all up to you how to handle those emotions and still make good decisions in life. Stop getting addicted with activities that is giving you a temporary high, stop getting addicted with good emotions... these emotions were not real because it's not forever. Your emotions are controlling you, sometimes the worse is you're making bad decisions because you always wanted to feel good right away, you always wanted to become comfortable. That's why you're not working hard, you choose to become lazy, you choose to not go the extra mile because comfort is available now. You allow yourself to quit now, watch TV, not do your tasks on time, not push yourself to the limits, it's because you choose to feel good now but the bad thing is it has an effect in the end, you will suffer more because you want instant gratification.

THE ONLY WAY TO SUPPRESS ANY NEGATIVE EMOTION

The only way to suppress any negative emotion is to stay calm and move forward, do something positive, may it be cleaning your room or sweeping the floor... trust me it will make you feel good. You need to stay busy and stay active all the time, never let your mind think because it will make you feel worse even more, your mind is full of negative juices right now... you need to take one positive action and live in the moment so that you will feel good again. Motivation will only come out if you're taking action, watch yourself... are you moving or not, if not then you're in big trouble, you need to force yourself to do something or else it will be game over for you. So move forward and stop thinking too much, worrying is the playground of the devil, idleness will poison your mind, you have to take charge now and do what is right for your life, work and do something that will create something in the future. Because actions will entertain you, it will help your mind to stop from worrying and thinking about the future, a single step will put you back in the moment. Son't worry because any feeling will soon go away, all you have to do is keep moving forward all the time and never stop, exhaust yourself, if you really want a different life now then focus on the process and not on how you feel. The process is the most important thing and not what you see, feel or hear. Doing the process has benefits, dwelling with your emotions has none.

It's ok to feel everything, it's ok to feel sad, mad, overwhelmed, scared, excited, happy, depressed, exhausted etc. It's not a sin to feel something but just make sure that you'er still thinking right and you're still following your philosophy and goals in life. Because any emotion is dangerous if you get addicted with it. And even happiness, if you're addicted in being happy then what if you can't become happy anymore? it will back fire on you. Same as depression, if you're comforting yourself with dramas and laziness then that will make you sick and weak, it will really make your life miserable.

So simply focus on taking actions so you will be entertained, never stop when you're sad... keep moving forward so sadness will turn into happiness. Taking action is a very powerful thing especially if you're taking positive action. So do something so that you will become more motivated and inspired. Take inspired actions, turn your passion into something. Go all the way and see what will you become if you work super hard and push yourself to the limits, you can become one of a kind if you will forget your emotions, forget that you are tired, forget that you haven't been rewarded yet for your efforts, keep pushing forward and turn into a beast.

BE AWARE IF YOU'RE STUCK

Sometimes you don't know that you're already stuck for too long and you're not doing something about it. You're freeze, you can't move, you're allowing the situation control you instead of trying to control the situation. And sometimes you already know that you're stuck but still you're pretending to be making progress, it's because you don't want to move, you don't want to go the extra mile. Anything can happen if you're moving, you are giving yourself a chance to succeed if you're taking steps that are related with your goals. So you need to be moving all the time if you don't want to become stuck forever, have that shark mindset... you die if you don't move, you have to be moving all the time so your mind won't think about negativity.

JUST DO SOMETHING

Do something positive, whether it's about opening your computer and looking for a job or tying or shoes and starting to walk or maybe just saving a little money that you can use for the future... just do something positive. It can be a simple reviewing of your lessons or practicing your skills, or maybe simply cleaning your room. Doing something positive will give you a progress, it will create a momentum that will carry on for the next challenge or task. Doing something positive is much better than not doing anything at all, doing something will give you confidence, it will give you a good mood and a positive outlook in life, it will make you motivated. Look at a person who is so lazy... all of the negative situations are being attracted to him. If you're not doing anything then there is a big chance that you will get broke, crazy, insane and attract unlikable circumstances in life. Life will only become better if you're taking actions so never stop. If you want something go and get it, if you want to improve your life then you better be taking actions now and never stop until you finally get what you want. Have fun with small actions, entertain yourself with small progress every now and then. Life is happening when you're moving, if you're not moving then you're dying... as simple as that. You can always do something, it's impossible that you can't move and improve your situation a little bit. You can learn, you can become great, you can earn, you can stop losing, you can master something, you can simply clean your own room and start something positive. Never under estimate the power of taking small actions, once your small actions accumulated... you will see a huge result. All it takes is patience and perseverance, it will be hard sometimes but if you persevere then it will become easier again.

So look at yourself and be honest with yourself... are you stuck? are you lost? don't worry if you're lost, all you have to do is move and take chances, take risks, don't be afraid to ask, don't be afraid to do small things for your life. Eat your pride, stop being arrogant and do something. It's ok if you start from zero again, it's ok if you're at the bottom for now, you can climb that mountain little by little if you will start moving now.

BEING STUCK IS OK

It's ok to become stuck for a very short period of time, let's say an hour or two, what is wrong is you keep yourself stuck forever and you don't do anything about your situation. You have the power to move, once you're moving then you're improving, once you're taking actions then you're not stuck anymore even if you haven't see any results yet. 

FINISH STRONG EVERY YEAR

It's in my tradition to finish strong every year. I will work hard, I mean really really hard in December. I don't care if it's Christmas, I don't care if it's new year, I just wanted to finish this year strong... really really strong. I don't care if it's yuletide season, I don't care if the relatives are in the house to bother me. I will just finish strong because it's already a tradition, it's already a culture. And I don't mind if I am having a hard time balancing celebrations and work, I just wanted to finish strong and see what is still possible for the remaining days of this year.

Don't be like others who will just drink and party right after the start of November, they feel that they were entitled to celebrate because they work hard for the first ten months. This is an ugly way to finish your hear, if you work hard on January you need to work hard and finish strong this December. Because this kind of style will make you carry a very powerful momentum for the next year. That is why new year's resolution never works. You don't need to wait for January 1 to change your life, you can do it now. Let's say you plan your new year's resolution on December 20, you say to yourself that you're going to change your life on January 1 and when that time come did you manage to do what you said you're going to do? Of course not, it's because you didn't build a habit, there is no foundation, you're still lost, 99.89% percent of people who said they're going to change on January 1 never change at all, they live the same life as the previous year. 

CHANGE IS REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE

If you want to change your life then you will feel weird, crazy, deprived and suffering. Change will not take place if you're too comfortable with what you're doing, change is simple but really hard because you have to create a habit that you wanted to adapt into your system and make it strong to the point where you can't get rid of it anymore. So if you're waiting for January 1 before you change it means you're too comfortable now waiting and celebrating the holiday season, that is why change will never take place, if you want change then you need to start now, whatever the date of the year now... you need to start now and forget about partying, eating or celebrating. It is what it is, if you're doing now is too easy then your life will never change. Always remember that there is no evolution without sacrifice, there is no progress without pain. You have to stop doing the things that are pleasurable and seek for those uncomfortable moments.

Feel the pressure of change, feel the uncertainty, irregularity, weirdness and discomfort. If you're not feeling uncomfortable then you're not changing. Speed is the name of the game, speed is the requirement of change and success. If you're not fast then you're the same bum as yesterday.

CONSISTENCY

Most people don't know that one of the most important requirements of change is consistency. They were always looking at the results that is why they can't change and will never change, you just need to be consistent here, you don't need a starting date to make a change, you don't need a perfect start. All you need to do is to start now and stay consistent. If you want a perfect body then start exercising now and do it everyday, you can just walk for 15 mins a day, you can just pick a simple exercise and do it everyday, never miss a day... that's how transformation will take place. If you can just pick a process and do it every single day for one year then you're already a different animal, you're already a new person. Consistency is a long and forever process but it is the most effective one. All you have to do is do it, show up and never make excuses... that's it, you don't even need a genius mind here, you don't need to be super talented here.

BE SATISFIED WITH IMPERFECTIONS

It doesn't matter if you're perfect or now what matters is you're giving your very best and you have no plan of stopping anytime soon. Just start something and stay imperfect, imperfect but moving, imperfect but consistent and doing his best. Because wanting to become perfect too much means wanting the results right away which will never happen, it is wanting to reach the finish line without doing the work. Perfectionists  were always looking for the results and not the process, they don't want to feel the pain of taking the steps one by one, they were always looking for the end results and that is why they can't start something. It's better to be imperfect but moving than trying to become perfect but not even taking a single step, you can only make progress if you will embrace imperfections. And so what if you are imperfect? at least you're giving your very best, at least you're not wasting your time for nothing. It's ok to look imperfect but the intention to win is very strong and solid.

FINISH THIS YEAR VERY STRONG SO THE MOMENTUM WILL CARRY ON NEXT YEAR

Just finish this year strong, don't slack off, don't be lazy. Earn as much as you can until December 31, work as much as you can, exercise as much as you can. You need to create a very strong habit that will carry on for the next year, you need to build a very powerful momentum so that the start of your year next year is very strong. Just give your very best until the very last day of the year and never slow down... that is how to create greatness, that is how to make a change. Start now, stop waiting until January1 before you start, change should be forced right now or else it will never happen.