The reason why you feel so weak, bothered and unfocused is because you always look at the outside, you never look inside. You're focused on what you can't control instead of controlling what you have power over with. If you will always look outside of you then you will never feel how strong you are, you will never express yourself to the fullest and stretch yourself to expand. The source of strength is on the inside, the default of power is inside of you. You don't need to look too far to know how strong you are, inside is your home, inside is where you will discover who you really are. And that's why people who are trying to impress other people are weak, they feel unappreciated all the time when nobody is clapping hands on them, they feel incomplete if they can't impress people, they feel useless if they can't win people's opinions.
Just like going to a party and you feel out of place, go inside, go home and you will feel safer. Again, you don't need to think if you got embarrassed because that's what weak minds do, you don't need to worry about how they think of you at the party. Just let it go, feel good being inside of your home and just do whatever you wanted to do. Just like a teenager being affected in social media because bashers keep attacking him, he feel so weak and helpless, he feels like a victim because he was too focused on the outside. But if he will just look inside of himself and be satisfied of who he is and not minding about what people say then he will feel powerful and unaffected. If you know who you are then there is nothing else to worry about, their words will never affect you, nothing can harm you. The outside is the people and external things, the inside is you and what you have. Focus on what you can control and you will feel like a king, the control is inside, you don't need to look for somewhere else.
WHY PEOPLE WERE SO FOCUSED ON THE OUTSIDE?
Because they don't spend time to work on themselves, they were so bored and impatient about themselves. They want to become great too but they hate the process and that's why they will just look for other people's lives because it's the easiest thing to do. You will have more power if you will try to improve everyday and simply focus on your own journey, never mind the journey of other people, never mind if they are doing good or not. Focus on your own life and try to love yourself as much as you can. Live every second of your life and never waste time minding other people's business, never mind what they say, don't get affected with their negative comments against you... focus on yourself, focus on getting better everyday and you will feel happier than before.
Spend most of your time grooming yourself, giving everything you can for your goal. Never get satisfied of being a loser, never get satisfied of having an easy life but not going anywhere. Do what is hard, do what is needed, follow your gut and never be afraid to express yourself without thinking that you need to impress people.
YOU ARE WASTING YOUR LIFE IF YOU'RE NOT ENJOYING YOURSELF
You're too much having fun supporting other people, following their problems and opinions, you're disrespecting your own life because you're not even supporting your own journey. You're more interested in watching sports, listening to gossips, supporting a facebook friend about his new business, making opinion about a corrupt politician. Yeah, it is entertaining because it's easy to do, loving other people is easier than loving yourself, and this kind of mentality makes you weak and lost. You will never improve or make a change if you're always interested with other people's lives. Does it matter if they are succeeding and you are not? does watching a celebrity makes you a better person? You know the answer, you need to go back to yourself, go inside of you and try to grow from there. It's never too late to be your number one idol, idolize yourself, feel good about yourself, be your number one fan, approve anything about you and never criticize your own work or personality. You have what it takes to feel powerful and successful too, all you need to do is focus on your own journey and never get interested with useless subjects that are just wasting your time. Never give your time to somebody who's not even worth it. It's not about being bitter or jealous with other people's success, you're just trying to give more time for yourself. Put all your money on yourself, bet on yourself, trust that you can make it on top too.
FEEL EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU
Feel your laziness, feel your pain, feel your fears and worries, feel the greatness itching to be achieved. Feel everything about you and enjoy the positive and negative, that's the only way to make a progress. Most people doesn't want to feel anything about themselves, they want their emotions to be controlled by other people or something that covers the pain temporarily. You can never escape the rut you are in if you're trying to escape your own feelings. Embrace your negative emotions but stay still, don't do anything, let it come and go and you will learn that it's not that bad at all. Being scared, lazy, depressed, feeling weak is not bad at all. You just need to watch it and never amplify it, watch it come and go and go back to your positive state being again. Admit that you've been bad, admit that you are not perfect but still trying to make your life a little bit better. Focus on taking it one step at a time, never rush the process, never take shortcuts, enjoy taking it one inch at a time because a small progress is still a progress. Feel proud if you're making small improvements every single day because that's all you need.
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