The only way to beat procrastination and laziness, the only way to discipline yourself is make an ugly start. Just do something, just do it even if you look like a scrub. Starting now, starting something will give you a small momentum, it will give you confidence to finish something. Stop looking for perfection, never consider yourself as someone who always need to be perfect. Consider yourself as nothing, never think that you are great, just do something regardless if it is ugly or not. Because starting right away is a very strong momentum builder, it will save a lot of your time, don't you know that you're wasting too much time thinking how are you going to do it? the worse is you're spending a lot of energy thinking about the outcome, hours and days have passed and you haven't done anything yet. You're living like a douche bag for overthinking and worrying how the outcome will be. You can never control the outcome, you can only control your actions, if you will just go hard, start fast and give your best then the outcome will become much much better.
LOOK FOR A PERFECT FINISH WILL MAKE YOU HELPLESS
There is no such thing as a perfect finish, you are only making yourself helpless by doing that. All you can do is focus on what you can control and that is your thoughts and actions. If you focus on what you can control then that is power, you will have more confidence, you will become more creative, good things will happen to you. All you have to do is move and that's it, keep going further, keep pushing for more. The more you move the more you believe in yourself. If you're always thinking about the outcome then you will never get anything done, as simple as that. Stop being a perfectionist, no matter how hard you try you will never become perfect. All you can do is give your best and work insanely hard, push yourself and never quit until the job is done. And the truth of the matter is any work is about the journey, it's not about the outcome, if you really give your all for your work then there is nothing else to worry about. Feel ok in failing, embarrassing yourself or making a mistake.... well at least you try, if you try then you're already above other people because most of them couldn't even get started. They have ideas in their minds but something is stopping them and they can't figure it out. The truth is... the more you stop yourself, the more you will feel weak and useless, you will become depressed and frustrated. So you better start now and do something because your mind will start to go crazy if you are always delaying what you are suppose to do.
FORGET YOUR IDENTITY FORGET YOUR REPUTATION
You think you're too good to be avoiding mistakes, you think you're too great and popular and that's why you can't even start something. Your mind is focused on what people are going to say, you are stopping yourself because of the idea of getting criticized or judged if you didn't perform that the highest level. You have to realize that you will never get anywhere if you didn't start now. You have to unleash the beast inside of you and do whatever it takes to finish the task. Just focus on the present step and then follow through, never stop, never judge yourself if you're right or wrong and just keep going. Giving your regrets will erase all worries and regrets, you just need to go all out and everything will be fine. It's all about moving forward and nothing else. If you're moving forward then you will be fine rather than worrying about what is right or wrong. Just do it, forget about anything else and just do it. Be fast in starting, be strong in finishing, the best time to start is now, not tomorrow nor later... only now. Believe in the power of now, the present moment will give you everything, possibilities can only be found in the present moment, you can never see it in the future... it is all happening now.
NEVER CARE ABOUT THE OUTCOME
Detach yourself from the outcome, focus on the process. You can finish anything and everything if you will just take it one step at a time. You will reach the finish line if you are focused, anything is possible, anything is achievable. Because always thinking about the outcome is only creating fears, it's making you worried and stuck. It's messing up with your mentality, you can't become creative if you're always thinking about the future. What will happen will happen, all you can do is enjoy what you're doing now. Be happy with the smallest progress that you are making, be appreciative of the small development and keep following through. Don't get stagnant, don't get idle... keep going no matter what. People can judge you that your work is not good enough and just be ok with it, it's just their opinion, who are they? you are the one who's working here. If you really give everything you've got then there is nothing else to worry about, you will only have a peace of mind if you really give your very very best.
IT'S ALL ABOUT HAVING FUN WITH THE PROCESS
Have fun with the process and success will come easily, you can finish tasks faster than expected. Get serious but learn how to enjoy every step. Be playful, be creative, always stretch your abilities and put yourself on the edge of your skills. Because you can do better than yesterday, it's really up to you if you will give and do more or be satisfied with the same effort that you exert like yesterday. Enjoy everything, it's all in the mind, you can have fun with everything in your life, it's just a matter of enjoying it and being in the moment. Never think that you are tired, never think that you are giving more but getting less... it's alright, trust me it will really feel good if you will go all out for something rather than holding yourself back and thinking what could have happen if you give your best.
HAVE NO CONSCIENCE IN MOVING
Be ruthless, be aggressive, be assertive, be bold. Have no conscience in moving, you just do it and you never regret it. You're not even checking if it is right or wrong, you just give your best and you don't care anymore what will happen next. Have this kind of mindset and you will become very productive, you will accomplish a lot of things. Allow yourself to move and move and move, become a relentless hungry lion... you keep hunting for meat, you go after the next victim once you're done with the present one. Because you are the only one who's stopping yourself, your built in excuses, your lame attitude, your soft work ethic... you're better than that, if you want a new life then change the way you start... start fast no matter how ugly you look.
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