DON'T BEG FOR HAPPINESS
You don't need to beg for it because it will come, stop being needy because the more you show that you are needy the more you will be deprive from what you want. Just let it happen, if it didn't happen now then so be it, you may feel happy tomorrow or the next day. Small things can make you happy, you don't need exiting and powerful events to alter your state of mind. Never use your knees to beg for happiness, if you can be ok with being lonely or being a loser... now that's power. What you're going through right now is not forever, time will come and your wounds will be healed, your sorrow will go away and your pain will be relieved. All you have to do is stay alive and breathe. You can weather the storm, you can survive any problem. Happiness is for everyone, wait till you get yours, don't be too impatient because that will lead to misery. Patience is the partner of happiness, after being patient for a long time comes happiness. Just wait, actually you don't even need to wait, just believe, just live your life and take it one second at a time.
DON'T BE DEPENDENT FROM THE OUTSIDE
Don't look for a hot girl before you become happy, don't look for a Red Porsche car before you become happy. You don't need to date a hot playboy model to feel good and confident about yourself, you don't need millions to feel blessed, you don't need respect from other people to feel powerful, you don't need to win to feel good about yourself, all you need to do is be yourself and accept yourself. Accept yourself for who you are, what you have and can do. There is nothing else to worry about. You don't need to become unique, rich, popular, strong or something. Just be who you are and appreciate everything about your life. You don't need anything or anyone to become happy, it's just a state of mind, you can even laugh while badly struggling, you can entertain powerful and positive thoughts even if you're going through a lot. Look at those people whose happiness was based from external things... they were always jealous and sad, they envy other people who have more than what they have. Their state of mind can be shaken easily, they were sensitive and always unhappy. Your mentality alone can make you happy, if you can be ok having zero then you're already invincible.
YOU ONLY NEED AIR
To make things easier, think small. It's not that you're not dreaming big, what I mean is... just make life simple so that everything else will become easy. Dream big but always think that you don't need those dreams, you're just up for the challenge, you're not up for the reward. You only need air to live, everything else is a bonus. You can even survive without food and water for a couple of days. Make life simple by thinking simple. You can ask for more, you can dream big things but don't cry if you can't get all of it, focus on the process of getting it, enjoy your journey and appreciate what you have for now. You don't need anything, you only need yourself and the thoughts that can make you happy, happiness happens inside of your head, if you can train your mind to become happy all the time then you will become happy regardless of what is happening around you.
HAPPINESS IS OVERRATED
It's what people want, it's what all people need but the truth is they can live for a very long time being sad or depressed. You don't need to look for happiness, you can feel it everyday if you will just learn how to manage your thoughts and make life simpler than what it used to be. Be appreciative of what you have and you will become very happy. Happiness is not that hard to get, happiness is not the only thing you need in life. So if you can be ok with losing, being at the bottom, working hard, being underpaid, not getting what you want but still trying, not being popular, not getting the opportunity then you can become very happy easily. Happiness is in your command because you're not dwelling on things that are outside of yourself. Always remember that happiness is just a state of mind and it happens because of the thoughts you entertain, you can feel it over and over again if you can discipline your mind and focus only on the things that you want.
FAST ENTERTAINMENT MAKES YOU SAD AND WEAK
It's not really entertaining you, it's not really making you happy, it's making you weak. What if alcohol is not available anymore? what if elite bags, shoes, clothes etc. cannot be afford anymore? what if you don't know what entertainment to make you happy anymore? what if you're sentenced to jail? what if there is no available form of entertainment to access? entertainment makes you weak because you can't live without it, and not only that... it also makes you lazy, not creative and stupid, it's playing with your mind and you don't know it. Learn how to entertain yourself with the right things, learn to work hard, learn to practice delayed gratification. Happiness comes from things that you don't need to hold.
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