If you are making progress you will always doubt yourself, it's impossible that a disbelief will never form, it's part of the process, it's part of the game... you will always become scared for whatever reason. You will see things that are not working, you will feel like you're just wasting your time, you will feel tired, you will feel that you can't do it anymore. And it's good, if you're moving forward and doubting yourself then it means you're already making a progress. If you're really grinding and pressing forward like hell and giving everything you've got... you will ask for more results, and if you can't see it you will feel frustrated, the doubts will start to build up. It happens to everyone, it happens to every great person in the world. Just like in applying for a job... you go door to door, you apply online for multiple websites and when nobody is entertaining you doubts will be felt. And that's progress already, all you have to do is kill that doubt and you're already on a different level, you already completed the progress that is happening. It's impossible to not doubt yourself if you're looking for something, if you're going after something big.
YOU WILL DOUBT EVERY ACTION
You will doubt the way you speak, move, do something, basically you will doubt everything about you if you can't make results, you will doubt the whole process but it's ok, it's normal so there is no need to panic. You just need to be aware that you are doubting yourself and you need to use your willpower to fight it. Just keep going, you may have no confidence for now but just keep going. That confidence in yourself will soon comeback and you will feel good again. That's what progress is all about, there will be small voices whispering you to stop and and just quit. You will think that it's not for you, that you are not good enough, that it's not worth it but it's ok. You just need to deal with that roller coaster of emotions, just embrace all the doubts and go back to the game plan... and that is to never stop and never quit. All the doubts will be overpowered by your actions. Just take it one step at a time, be patient and you will see that you're confident again.
IT'S OK TO DOUBT YOURSELF BUT...
Never doubt the process, follow the game plan with all your heart and never quit. It's ok to doubt yourself, it's ok to become scared but never stop moving forward and giving your best. You have to go all out even if fear is disturbing you. Because that's what great people do... they keep trying even if they feel that they're not going to make it. Elon Musk almost lost all of his fortune because failing big time in Space X, the space ship explode and it happens twice, if it happens again for the third time then he will lose all of his money but it became successful. Do you think he is not doubting himself just for once? David Beckham was once hated by his team for not playing good, they are burning his jerseys and criticism is everywhere but he keep fighting until he score a goal and carry his team into victory, do you think he didn't doubt himself just for once? they are just humans, they were scared too but they keep moving forward until progress was attained.
So be happy if you're doubting yourself because it means progress is about to happen. Just move and do something about it and you're already there. Because the frightening scenarios have no power over you if you will stay still and stick to the game plan, remember who you are, remember how brave you are, keep in mind that nothing can stop you if you will just believe in yourself a little bit. The world is yours, claim it.
BE AWARE IF FEAR IS THERE
First of all you need to be aware that you are scared, that you are hesitating to move. And make a decision to just move forward and try again, go with all your might, don't hesitate or hold yourself back, just do it, make it happen. Never let fear stop you, there should be a separation between you and your fear, you must be aware that the situation is not really that bad and fear is the only thing that's making it look worse. You will never gain any momentum if you will not face that fear, you will never make any progress if you will let fear stop you. So just move, just show up, jump in and never be scared to fail or embarrass yourself. People hates a failure but success loves a trier. Once you were able to detect that the fear is there... take actions right away, it's a signal that you must move. All you have to do is stay calm when fear is there, don't resist, don't panic, stay calm and admit that you are scared and simply take one small action at a time. Confidence will start to kick in, you will start to believe in yourself and get excited with the process again. Fear is just an illusion, if you will focus on the now then everything that scares you will go away.
DOUBTS AND FEARS CAN NEVER STOP YOU
Just go further, keep going further and further. Don't stop and just keep moving forward, push yourself, you have the ability to create a break through, you have the ability to change your life and avoid being stuck forever. You can do something now, it's all up to you if you will choose action or idleness. Nothing can freeze you, nothing can stun you if you will use your willpower. You can break any resistance, you can block any obstacle. Just keep going further and never quit. All it takes is having that burning desire to keep pushing when there is doubt and fears. Remember who you are, remember the things that you can do. Thoughts can never control you, you can control it. You are unstoppable, that's your true nature so choose to become it. Never stop yourself, never make excuses, never submit to pain, embrace pain and do something to change your situation.
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