ARE YOU PROUD OF YOURSELF?

This is the biggest question that you should answer honestly with all your heart and without feeling guilty regardless of the truth... are you proud of yourself? You can only say yes if you really give your all, but if you didn't push yourself to the limits and put yourself into extreme exhaustion then how can you become proud of yourself? If you didn't give your all then you will never feel proud of yourself. You can pretend that everything is fine, you can pretend that you're winning but if you didn't give your all then you will never feel how is it like to become great. 

WHY ARE YOU ASHAMED OF YOURSELF?

Because you know you can do better but you're not doing it, you're simply chilling and relaxing wasting your time but deep inside you feel you can have a much better life. You are lazy, you can do something but you are choosing to do the easier things that will never give results, and that's why you're full of regrets in the end. You take your life for granted, you didn't even scratch the surface of your potential. Deep inside you feel you can do something great or at least maybe even reach the 50 percent of your capabilities but you choose not not. If you want to feel a little proud of yourself then go hard today and give your very best, forget the past because it's already over, you can never get it back anymore, focus on the now and make this day epic, work as hard as you can without expecting for fast rewards. So if you really feel weak, if you really feel regretful and ashamed of yourself then it's time to make a change, what the hell are you waiting for? the help will not come, you have to stand for yourself, do it alone and create a miracle. 

So if you want to feel proud of yourself then do something different, stop living the same way as the past. Discover something new in your life by working your ass off. Go all out, see what you are mad of. 

SUCCESS IS SIMPLY ABOUT FINDING A WAY

Keel on trying, keep on pushing... Success is simply all about finding a way, look for the process that works, there is a designated technique that works for you. It maybe elusive and you can't find it fast but once you find it... Everything will be a lot easier. It's only hard in the beginning but eventually it will become easier and easier if you keep doing your thing. You can find a way if you will never stop looking for it, the right process will be revealed, you will be able to discover a technique that fits you and make you progress everyday. Just grind, just hustle and stay consistent, make it a lifestyle to put hard work on the pedestal, make it your number one priority. Anyone can find a way, anyone can look for something, it all depends on how hard working you are in finding a way. 

START NOW WITHOUT HESITATION

Forget winning, forget the outcome, forget perfection and just start now and make things happening. Once you start keep the ball rolling, never stop, never quit when it's hard... just start. Your journey starts now so stop feeling lazy, force yourself to just do the first step and keep following through. Once you start you confidence will go up, you will feel good, you will feel a little bit accomplished. So start now and go all the way, forget what may happen next. Overthinking is just a waste of time and energy, it will only make your mind negative. You have to focus on taking actions instead of thinking about what will happen next. The future will come, life will go on, what will happen will happen but you need to focus on what you can control so that you can put yourself on a better position to succeed. If you want to take massive actions then forget about the outcome, just focus on the process. 

DEVELOP THAT ABILITY TO FOCUS

Once you start something... never stop until it's done, as simple as that. Embrace the boredom, embrace the suffering and pain. I know you want to do something else that is more enjoyable and fun, I know you're looking for a flashy entertainment. But having fun will never get any job done, it will never make you improve, you really have to stay disciplined and force yourself to do the things that are not fun because those are the only things that will give you a better life. Studying is not fun right? looking for a job is not fun, exercising or meditating is not fun, hustling is not fun but these are the things that will put you to another level. Discipline is what you need to make a progress in life, embrace the grind and force yourself to enjoy it. Always look at what you want and never focus on what you don't want... as simple as that. 

SHOW SOME STRENGTH

Stop playing the weak game because you are powerful more than you think of yourself. Show some strength, move and force fate, change your destiny, be the decider of the outcome of your life. Stop pretending that you can't do it, you will never know what you can do unless you try. Embrace the unknown, look for possibilities, test every data that come across to your mind. Feel free to do anything because you are free, you're the only one who's stopping yourself. There is something you can do about your situation, there is something you can do to feel proud about yourself... do it, stop holding yourself back and just do it, you have what it takes to make something happen. Focus on moving forward, focus on feeling good about taking actions, you can only feel proud about yourself if you're doing whatever it takes to win in life. 

FORGET THE BALANCE

They say that you've got to have a balance to become more successful, what if you need a lot of time to become successful? what if you have to drop everything just to get what you want? Stop believing in balance, if you need to become insane in something then do it, big amount of sacrifice is needed to become successful. Forget the balance, if you need to go to the extreme then do it.