Most of you are looking for what is missing in your life, it maybe a car or money, or a love life or even a dog. Some people are looking for happiness, success, or just a simple meal for the day. And if they can't find what they are looking for... they feel like it's the end of the world, this is funny, it's because their happiness depends on external things.
THERE IS NOTHING MISSING IN YOUR LIFE
Your perspective and focus makes yo feel that something is missing. Look at you, you are still alive, you become happy anytime you want to. Just think of someone you deeply love and you will feel happiness. Nothing is missing in your life, you're just focus on what is lacking, you're too focused on having the big things right away without having to work hard for it. And let's say that you really miss something? was it really so bad not to have it? can't you breathe without it? you were able to live before without it, so how come you can never live again today without it? Stop focusing on what is missing and simply focus on what you have, appreciate what you have and try to make it grow. If you want to change your situation then you have to accept it with all your heart, act as if you choose it. Look around you, there are many things you can be happy about, happiness is everywhere you just need to lower your standards about happiness. It's up to you if you will look for something missing in your life, my advise is focus on what you have and appreciate it and you will never feel bad again.
NEVER LET ANYTHING MAKE YOU FEEL BAD
No fancy shoes, no girlfriend, no car, no money... it's ok. You can have all of these things in the future if you work hard. You may not have it for now but eventually you will on the right time. Never let anything make you feel bad, it's ok if you have nothing, it's not the end of the world. You are still living, your breathe is the most important thing in your life. Your happiness lies in your head, it depends on how you think and see things. You should let emotions controlled by you and not be controlled by some random wishes that you really don't need. You don't need what you don't have because you have everything you need for now. If you can't have what you want, if it's really impossible to make it yours then just let it go, set it free, never hold grudge nor ill feelings, just let it go, it may come to your life one day if you stay positive. Stop being a wish washy, stop letting something control you or set your temper. You have the power to feel good anytime, yo just need to correct your mind and know what is it that you really need.
YOU WILL NEVER GET SATISFIED
Always remember this so that you won't feel so bad if you can't have what you want... YOU WILL NEVER GET SATISFIED, this is the truth, even if you get what you want today... tomorrow you will look for something else, you will wish for something new that you think will make you happy. The truth of the matter is you don' need anything just to become happy, you just need yourself. There will always be another form of desire, another wish list, another something that makes you go crazy for it. So don't ever feel bad if you can't have it because your feelings towards it will change when you already have it, you will never get excited about it anymore. Always remember that something will make you crave, something will make you chase so if you can't have what you want now just be happy because it's just another thing that is trying to control you, you think you need it, you will find every reason in the world why you need to have it but months or even weeks will pass and you're already looking for something else. Because you're weak if something is making you feel bad, you're soft if you're letting something control you. It's our human nature to always look for more but if you can control your eagerness to have more then you're already rich, you don't need to work for more. It's because your belief is making you feel abundant.
LIFE WILL NEVER BECOME PERFECT
There will always be something that will distract you, there will always be something that will catch your attention, there will always be something that will make you crave, in other words you will always feel that your life is not perfect. But that's how life was designed... it's not suppose to be perfect because if it is then it will become very boring. Problems makes your life more colorful. So don't ever feel frustrated if you can't get what you want to have because it's just another thing that's playing with your mind, you don't need it at all, it's ok to chase it but don't ever feel so low if you can't make it yours.
Life is not perfect so deal with it, accept it or else you will have no peace of mind. You can feel that you life is perfect if you will accept everything about it, embrace everything including the imperfections. Life will become much simpler and easier if you will accept the fact that no matter how hard you try... you will still feel that something is missing in your life.
A real happy person doesn't look for what is missing in his life, he just use what he have and make the best out of it. He is simply happy having less, and he doesn't even know that there is something missing in his life, he's just focused on what he have and trying to enjoy himself with it.
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