DON'T THINK THAT YOU'RE SPECIAL
If you will always think that you're special then you will become sensitive and that will make you avoid taking actions. You will feel entitled of something even if you haven't work very hard yet. Because you're really not that special, you're just an ordinary human being.
Forget your identity so that you will be able to take actions without attachment from other people. You will evolve easily if you will not think that you're special because you will never be afraid to take risk, you will expose yourself to failure because you have a mindset of nothing to lose. Let go of the idea that you need to win all the time, sometimes you just need to face the pain, face the reality. Not all the time you will get a special treatment, you will never evolve if you're always expecting perfection and smooth sailing journey.
Because the reality is you're just a human being, you are not invincible so who are you to ask for a smooth ride? who are you to ask for a freebie? who are you to feel entitled of something you didn't work for? be real, accept that life will throw bricks at you and you must be strong to deal with any of it. So stop spoiling and pampering yourself, you need to face the reality, face that you need to work and sometimes be treated unfairly, life is not fair and you have to deal with it. You are not special, you're just the same decaying organic matter like others so don't ever feel that you have the right to act like a king and just ask for an easy ride.
FOCUS ON THE SMALL PROGRESS
The truth of the matter is... you can never make a big progress on one day. You can never have 1 million subscribers right away in you tube, you can never earn 10 thousands of dollars in one day, Rome was not built in one night. You have to be patient and focus on the small progress... this is the best and most effective way to evolve. Enjoy a slow but consistent journey, take it one inch at a time and never get frustrated whenever you see someone succeeding fast and you're not. Remember, it's not your business to get jealous with other people's lives, focus on your own path and just try to grow one day at a time. Learn something, do something, grow a little bit, improve a little bit and have fun seeing yourself evolving day by day.
BE DECISIVE
You always hesitate, you always think twice if you're going to do something or not. And that makes you stuck all the time. Be decisive, if you need to do it just do it even if you will fail, even if there is a high percentage that you're not going to make it... just do it. Because even if you fail, at least you stood up for something and trusted yourself, you somehow evolve and become tougher, you somehow learn something that you can use in the future. Decide fast if you're going to try and just try, forget about what might happen, forget about the problems that may come and just jump in. Success loves speed, if you can do more and decide boldly then fate will favor you, you will be rewarded, so stop thinking about a lot of things and just push yourself to win, do whatever it takes even if it takes not sleeping for 5 days.
ACCEPT THAT LIFE IS HARD
Most people can't evolve because they were spoiled brats for whatever reason, they think that life is suppose to be easy and there is always a shortcut to success. But guess what? life is hard, it will kick you on your face, it will challenge you and if you're too weak to fight... you will be eaten alive, you will end up like a loser. Accept that life is hard and everything will be easy, accept that you need to work hard and you will no longer be afraid of any difficulty. You should not differentiate what is hard and easy, if there is a work you need to do.... do it regardless of what the level of difficulty is. Just do it, start now and just do it, you will discover later that it's not that hard, your thoughts about it makes it hard. Forget about how you feel about something, disregard your emotions because it's not a factor when chasing success, you have to push even if you feel tired or stress because that's the best time to evolve.
ENJOY FAILING
Failing a lot means evolving a lot, it means you did try to stretch yourself and see what is possible, it means you take risk. Failing doesn't really mean you fail, you just didn't get what you want, the good thing is you can try again tomorrow, you can make your life epic by trying a lot, it's only just a matter of time before success falls on your hand. Enjoy failing and never get frustrated. You are becoming stronger and stronger every time you fail, and the reward for failing a lot is your courage building up, your confidence is going higher and higher because you will feel that there is nothing to lose anymore. You've already tasted a lot of defeat so it won't scare you anymore, you are a becoming a beast that fears nothing because failing doesn't threaten you anymore.
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