WHY PEOPLE ARE HAVING A HARD TIME TO CHANGE?
1. They don't want to hurt people, especially their loved ones.
They don't want to hurt their family, it's because their families want them to stay where they are, their families were so scared that they might move to another place or change into a different human being or maybe get hurt when they change. They want to stay the same so that people that are close to them won't say anything. Stop caring about what people say, their comments is none of your business, you have to live your life the way you wanted to live it. Just keep moving forward all the time and stop focusing on their nasty comments, after all... they don't have power over you if you will never listen to them. The power is in your hands, you have to power to change if you will believe in yourself rather than believing in what other people say.
2. They don't have the courage to force fate.
They don't want to take risks, they feel so comfortable where they are right now. If you want to change then stop believing in the saying that just go with the flow, you need to force fate and use brute force to create something. It is what it is, it's going to get brutal and bloody, it's going to get messy but life is more fun if you're having troubles and trying to survive. Life is more colorful if you will be able to overcome a lot of challenges and tribulations. If you feel so comfortable with your life now then it means you're not making any progress, it means you're going down. Even the most successful people are trying to make themselves uncomfortable by learning or trying new things, it's because they knew that if they get stagnant then their lives will collapse.
So always make yourself uncomfortable by working hard, by doing this you are progressing, don't be afraid of getting exhausted because you will regain your energy later, you have unlimited energy if you will just embrace hard work and accept that chasing success is hard.
3. They were so afraid of failing.
People were so terrified of failing, they feel that it will be the end of the world when they fail, they don't know that it's going to be the start of a new world if they fail, it will give an opening, it will create more opportunities and understanding of oneself. Failing is normal, every great ones experience it, the most successful person has the most number of failures. So if you're not failing then it means you didn't try anything, you didn't evolve, you're just same person as yesterday or even worse. If you're so afraid of failing then just try, forget about the results, just try and give yourself a chance to win, don't focus on the results, focus on making small progress at a time, focus on taking actions one day at a time.
Always remember that if you fail over and over gain then you will no longer be scared of it anymore, you will embrace it and that kind of mentality will result to success. It's because failure will get sick and tired of you, success will come next. If you're still afraid of failing then it means you only failed a couple of times, you're not yet numb with it.
There's nothing so special about failing so don't be afraid of it, it's not even a big deal. The more you embrace the possibility to fail and take actions anyway the better of a person you will become. So don't be afraid of failing because it's a win win situation for you if you just take actions and do what is necessary.
CHANGE NOW!
You can change a little bit, you can improve a little bit, you just can't appreciate small progress that's why you can't change. Big change, big results will not happen so fast but small change and small momentum can happen right away, it's all about doing what you need to do and following through. Stay disciplined, stay committed, stay solid to your dreams, be loyal to your dreams. Stick with the process, once you start something never stop until you finished it. A small positive action can make an impact, it can affect something. So don't underestimate a small action because it's too powerful, multiply it by ten and you will already create something great.
NOTHING CAN CHANGE YOU EXCEPT YOURSELF
Your're the only one who can change your life and nobody else. Some people might help you and show you the way but they will never work for you, you will never be spoon fed all the time so embrace walking alone and doing it by yourself, the time for being a spoiled brat is over, you're n longer a child. You have to start now and make things happen, stop acting like a helpless little kid, you can do a lot if you will allow yourself to become free and responsible for the outcome of your life. The choice is yours, are you going to change now or are you going to delay it? Yourself is your only ally so don't wait for any help because it will never come, you have to take matters into your own hands.
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