Being a loser of winner in life depends on how we feel, it's not about how much money you accumulate or how successful you become, it's all about how you feel. You can have all the money in the world but still feel like a loser. Feeling like a loser is feeling powerless and hopeless, you feel that you don't have chance of winning anymore, you feel that nothing good is happening in your life anymore. Basically, your dramas is overpowering your power to motivate yourself. You're looking at the bad things instead of placing your attention on the good things. Being a loser is a choice, it's either you enter a victim mindset or you use a winner's mindset, what option are you going to pick? The power is in your hands. Always remember that if you think your're a loser then you are but if you feel like a winner then that's who you are. It's all about how you feel, you can never trick your feelings, you can never fake emotions, it will come out no matter how much you fight it.
HERE ARE THE 5 WONDERFUL TIPS THAT WILL AVOID YOU FROM BECOMING A LOSER IN LIFE:
If you have an idea, if you think you can command your own life then stop being a follower. Being a follower means you're disrespecting your power to live in your own terms. Following who? your boss? the company? well, those fools will not be on your side if you're going down. They're only good if you're working hard and doing the right thing. There is nothing wrong with following someone if it's really that your thing, but if part of you is itching to do it your way or build your own empire then execute your wonderful idea even if it sounds crazy. Go all the way for your dream, you only have one life, why will you waste your life following somebody who will not even help you reach your dream. Follow your own intuition, follow your dream, follow your heart, never submit to somebody who can't work harder than you. Your life is so precious, don't be a slave forever. Work for somebody if you need to just to get some budget that you can use for a greater cause but don't ever stick with that job for a very long time. You need to grow, you need to try doing it your way or else somebody will make you a slave forever.
2. Master any craft.
Pick a skill, something that you love and can do it forever. Be very good on it, use it to give you some money, use it to become successful. If you're really good at something and you're doing it for so how many years... you will feel like a king, you will have your own domain, nothing can compete against you with that domain. Feeling great having strong skills, it will stop you from getting depressed because it's easier to improve everyday, you will see yourself growing. It can be painting, entrepreneurship, sports, writing, any kind of skill that will make you feel good... master it so that you won't feel like a loser again. Make that skill your bread and butter, dedicate your life to it, become the best that you can be with it.
3. Detached from anything that makes you feel bad.
What makes you feel bad? toxic friends? harsh environment? breakup with girlfriend? detach from it now, don't think about it, don't give any form of energy to it. If it makes you feel bad then what is the use of giving it some attention? you will only look and feel like a loser by doing that. Always remember that you have the ability to walk away, if something is not healthy anymore then leave it, as simple as that. You have the option where to place your attention, focus on what makes you feel good and you will feel like a winner in life. You have the ability to leave anything that is giving you a burden, don't forget about it. Always focus on the things that gives you happiness and freedom, never place your eyes on things that's making your life difficult. Drop the burden now, stop thinking about the things that are poisoning your mind. You will only feel regretful and hateful every time you stick with the things that makes you feel bad. You have the power to choose, use this power to give yourself some freedom.
4. Never give importance to what people say or think of you.
What they say against you is none of your business. Never mind what they think of you, who are they to judge you? they are entitled of making their own opinions and it's only a stupid thing to give them some attention. They're not important at all, what matters is your goals and the people that you really love. Their words are meaningless and powerless, it's only becoming powerful because you get mad about it. Just like the old saying "ignore the clown and it will stop dancing". what hurts you will stop hurting you if you will never look at it or even listen to it. Don't talk about it, don't complain about it, don't open a conversation about it and simply let it go.
5. Make a decision when you have the power to.
Decide now when you want to decide. Decide if you're going to do it, decide if you're going to leave it, decide if you're going to stop it. You will only feel like a loser even more if you have the power to decide but you let other people decide for you. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, don't be afraid of the future, don't be afraid of he consequences of your decision. Don't wait, don't procrastinate, the power to decide is now, you're already ready, stop thinking that you're not ready, stop thinking that you can't do it. You can overcome any situation, you can beat any adversity. Take matters into your own hands or else you will feel like a loser forever.
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