5 THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN YOU'RE ABOUT TO EXPLODE

Getting angry for no reason is a big sin, you might do stupid things, you might take actions that you will regret in the end. It's normal to get angry but you still need to think right, you need to picture what will be the outcome if you act like a savage and let your emotions control you and make you do regretful things. Acting like a savage will make you look like a fool and uneducated. It will put you on a very bad situation and the worst thing is it's hard to get out from that place, you will be needing a lot of time, explanation, process to put your life back to normal. As the saying goes "once the damage is done it will be hard for you to fix it". So think twice before you hurt someone, think twice before you kick something just to let your anger come out. Trust me, you will never feel good if you hurt someone, you will regret it right away, you will get lost, your mind will go blank, look at the NBA players after fighting... they were so quiet after the punches were thrown, they were just looking at something and it seems like they regret what happened. I am not saying that you should be kind and act like an angel that can't commit any sin, but the point here is you better control your temper or else you will end up living in hell. 

1. WAS IT REALLY A BIG DEAL?

Did it kill you? did you lost millions because of it? or maybe your ego is just giving you the illusion that it's really bad and you need to burst out in anger? It's no really a big deal so don't make it a big deal. Never let your emotions control your mind, I know you're feeling angry right now but you can always change that feeling. It's just a matter of changing your perspective and giving the subject that makes you mad a different meaning, a meaning that is less destructive, a meaning that doesn't come from hate. 

2. WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU SNAP OUT?

You might go to jail if you hurt someone, you might hurt the feelings of other people, you might hurt the feelings of people who are close to you. You might do things that will make you look so bad. You might get a severe punishment because of the trouble that you create, many ugly things might be attracted to your life. You will get hurt too, your life may change in an instant especially if the damage you did is  big. You may even hurt yourself because of carelessness and uncalculated actions. 

3. THINK ABOUT YOUR FAMILY

Think about your family, do you think they're going to be happy if you made a bad decision? do you think they will have a good life if you're put to jail? do you think they will not get affected if they see you getting punished because of the immature decision that you made? Your family will suffer too if you did something stupid because you can't control your temper. Your family is what matters to you, it's the more important thing to you than your anger. You don't want to hurt our family right? then stop trying to snap out and destroy something. Stay cool, stay composed, stay relaxed because you don't even need to do something stupid. Calmness will solve everything, 

4. WILL IT IMPROVE YOUR SITUATION?

Is snapping out going to make your life better? is it going to give you money or security? is it going to take your life to another level? of course not. The only thin that will improve your situation is your patience. Be patient, everything can be fixed, everything can end up nicely, if not nicely then peacefully and in a well educated manner. If you don't like something just ignore it and go back to your goals, go back to the things that are really valuable to you. 

5. REVENGE WILL NOT MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON.

Trying to hurt someone, trying to force them that you are right and they deserved to get hurt is not making you a better person, it's making you worse. Stop trying to make a revenge when somebody disrespect you. You're better than that.  You can do something much better in a well mannered way, you don't need to look like a rascal or an untamed beast. And the worst thing is... it will only put you on a bad spot that is very hard to escape from.