THERE'S ALWAYS A SOLUTION FOR A WORST CASE SCENARIO

The truth of the matter is... there is nothing to be afraid of, there really no is. If you will just accept that everything will be fine at the end of the day. That's why it's very fascinating why a lot of people were so attached to the outcome, they were so attached to what will happen or what people might say. For example Lebron James, he is so attached to what people might say that's why he cannot take the last shot when needed, he is so attached to the idea of being the Greatest of all time, what the hell was that? Maybe he didn't know that his legacy will also be forgotten one day, look at the most popular players 30 years ago, we didn't even know them anymore, we are not even mentioning the names of Magic Johnson or Bill Russell anymore, were talking about them sometimes but their presence doesn't matter anymore. People were so attached to the outcome and that's why they can't be themselves, they were so afraid to lose, they were so afraid to get embarrassed, they were so afraid of getting criticized and that's why they're not free, they lose their freedom. 

The thing is this, if you lose you still have a chance, and there is nothing anymore... what is the big deal, you are still alive, you still have something, you are not literally empty handed because you can still hold something, you don't know how fortunate you are, you are suffering because of thinking too much what might you lose or what is missing in your life. Even if you lose, you really lose nothing because you really can't keep the things that you have right now forever, time is fast, one day you're already 90 years old and will die, now tell me... what's the reason for holding on to those things for so tight? it's not yours, you only got to hold it for a matter of time. 

DON'T BE AFRAID TO TRY

Don't be afraid to try. Try something bigger than your fear, be better than your situation, be better than your weak thoughts. You've been afraid for so long and where did that mentality take you? you didn't go too far right? you're on the same place ten years ago, it's time to make a move now, it's time to set yourself free and try everything you can with all your might. Give yourself a chance to shine, give yourself a chance to succeed by giving everything you've got. You are here for a reason, you're nit in this world just to watch your life come and go, you are here to do something great and discover your full potential, you are here to see what is possible for your life. 

There's always a solution for a worst case scenario. If you try building your own business, don't be afraid that you might get broke. If you got broke you still have tomorrow, you're still living, you can still try something again that might work. If you want to take the last shot then take the last shot, feel being under pressure, see how it feels to be facing your fears, and even if the ball didn't go in... what's the big deal? some of your teammates will blame you but at the end of the day you give yourself a chance to shine, they may blame you but that will soon pass. See... you didn't even need to do something to solve it, just let the bad day pass and you can try again for one more time. 

If you want to have a house then go and seek for a house loan, what's the baddest thing that could happen if you can't pay the mortgage? you and your family will settle for a smaller house or end up sleeping on the street, was it really that bad? no, because you're still alive. What will happen will happen, the idea here is don't be afraid to try, don't be afraid to take risk because it's the only thing that will take you to another level. 

CHASING A BIG GOAL

Chasing a big goal, chasing your dream, what's the worst thing that could happen if you fail? people will laugh at you? you will feel devastated? you will feel that all of your efforts and time were just wasted? Stop fooling yourself, you didn't lose anything, you just didn't get what you want. You will never become a loser for as long as you're trying. Losers are the ones who didn't try or will not try again. For as long as you're trying... you will become a winner one day. So go ahead and try because there's always a solution for a worst case scenario, you can survive, you can try again, you can live again, there is nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain so stop wasting your life for nothing, you have what it takes to become successful. All it takes is correcting your mind, adjusting your perspective and giving yourself a chance to shine, it will only happen if you will detach from everything, you will only feel free if you will never think that it's too bad. The truth to the matter is nothing is bad, it's your judgement that makes it bad. 

Just like taking care of a baby, you're so afraid that your baby might wake up anytime soon and you haven't done anything yet, what's the big deal? if the baby wake up so be it, take care of him and try to put him back on sleep again. There's always a solution for everything, life is not that hard, all you need to do is adjust your perspective and never take anything seriously. Give your best but don't ever feel bad if you come up short, don't put too much pressure on yourself. Life is just a game, play it the right way, have fun along the way.