OPINIONS OF OTHERS DOESN'T MATTER
They can say bad things against you, they can tell you that you're no good and not going to become successful but at the end of the day they were entitled to make their opinions and you are also entitled to ignore and never listen to them, you are entitled to keep pushing forward, if they can't stop you then that's their biggest problem. You have to free your mind and detach from what other people say. Because even if you're the greatest you will still hear some nasty words coming from others against you, you can never please anyone, the only person you can please is yourself. Are you happy with your effort?, can you look infront of the mirror and say you give your all today? You don't need to prove yourself to anyone, you only need to prove yourself to yourself. Because you know you can always do more, you know you can go further but you're not doing it, you're not giving your best because you hate being uncomfortable.
And the truth is... opinions of other people is a trash. Most of them were just trying to make you feel bad, so don't bite it, never give it any attention because it's taking away your power.
GIVING YOUR ALL REALLY MEANS DISCOMFORT
Giving your best, giving your all is really uncomfortable, but after you did it... you will feel really good, you will feel free and amazing. You will have more confidence in yourself because you knew you can what other people can't do. So look at yourself, if you see yourself as so comfortable then it means you're not growing, you're not learning anything, you're not evolving. With growth comes pressure and frustration, there will be a lot of resistance and it's your duty to break it. Just persevere and you will get there, you will win. Because what you can do now is not all you can do, you can do more if you will just look for something to do, go find a way how to go to the next level. Don't be afraid of feeling the pain because it will only make you grow, it is guiding you to the right path, it is making you learn, it's making you tough, you have nothing to lose if you're embracing comfort and still pushing forward.
WHY SOME PEOPLE WANTS TO PROVE THEMSELVES TO OTHERS?
They want to become popular, they want to feel appreciated, they want to receive standing ovation. And this is a bad mindset because they are not expressing themselves honestly, they are not giving themselves because they are tied up to what people are going to say. And this makes them conservative and reserved, this makes them stiff and always cautious about their movements and decisions and in the end they were not happy with what is going on with their lives.
You don't need to prove yourself to others, you don't need to force them to realize that you are right or great. Just give your very best and that's it, no need to put too much pressure on yourself. If they like you they like you, if not then so what? it's not going to be the end of the world if they hate what you do. If you know that you're really good then there is no need to force them to give you some attention. The world sees your hard work, the world knows if you sacrifice to become great. The rewards will come, the fruit of your labors will come so be patient and just keep doing what you love.
IT'S JUST A DISTRACTION
Trying to impress everyone will only make you lose focus on what you do. It's a waste of time, it drains a lot of your energy. Why not just give your best and let the results come in? you will feel much better if you will stay humble and committed to your dream, you don't need to inform them that you're winning, you don't need to impress them with what you've learned. Just be yourself and never let anyone's opinion bother you. It's not a smart move to always mind what they are thinking, you will not be able to live your life to the fullest if you keep on thinking what they are thinking. It doesn't matter if they like you or not, what matters is you're having fun on what you do and you're expressing yourself honestly.
PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOU MORE IF YOU'RE BEING YOURSELF
Doing some weird stuffs, doing your own technique, implementing your own style... people will love you more if you're true to yourself and always detach from the outcome. Because they will see your true colors, only few people can show their true colors, and if you're one of them... you're a rare individual, do what you want even if nobody likes it. Express yourself, try everything you can to succeed without having to beg for their attention or approval. Look at those needy people... they were always hated, it's because they always want attention, they're doing things that are not needed, they're too desperate to get help or attention that's why they have negative vibes, most people doesn't like them at all.
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