Being brave is a mental thing, it's not about how good the cards you are holding on, it's not about how big or savage you are... it's about having a strong mind and knowing what to do when fear strikes in. It's ok to become scared, there is nothing wrong with that, there is no such thing as a man without fear, this idea only happens on TV shows. But there is such thing as a man who is comfortable facing his fears, not feeling ashamed admitting that he is scared and still move forward anyway. In other words, you can still control your life and actions despite of feeling petrified.
Hard work creates confidence, hard work will make you believe in yourself more. Once you realized that hard work can give you everything... you will become braver, you will no longer be scared of your boss because you just knew you can outwork him and you can become a boss too one day. Hard work will make you brave because you already have an edge after working hard, you're already on a different level, you know that you can win by just purely working hard and staying focused all the time. Hard work is the separator from great ones to weak ones. The great ones can work hard to the point were they can't move anymore. Allow yourself to work hard, it will never kill you, it can only boost your confidence, you have nothing to lose by working hard. It can only make you better and stronger, it will give you knowledge, you will become braver if you know in yourself that you can work hard on nay given day.
2. Take risks and never mind losing.
Don't be afraid to lose because you really have nothing to lose, this life is just a game. If you can tell yourself that nothing is permanent and all you have to do is enjoy this ride then you will feel free, you will become braver, your mind will be on a state of freedom. The more you take risk, the more you will become experienced, you will enjoy more of life. Always take risk, bigger things take risk. Ask a hot girl for a date, ask a big raise from your boss, take the last shot in a basketball game, buy a ferrari, dream big, put all your belief in one thing and really believe it. Don't be afraid of losing because it's just part of the game, losing is normal, why are you so afraid of it? it will make you grow, it will make you something better than yesterday. Taking risk means you are looking for possibilities, you are open for big things and you are welcoming greatness into your life. So what if you fail? you can try again, you can stand up again, there is always a tomorrow where you can begin all over again and make the best out of what you have. Just take risk, but make sure that risk is worth taking, don't take risks that are useless and life threatening. Take risks that are related to growth and success.
3. Detach from anything, let go.
Detach from what people say, detach from what you have, detach from your name, detach from yourself. Never think that you are special and just live your life, never think that you are suppose to become perfect and just evolve. There is nothing you have to hold on to. Be happy having zero, be happy getting nothing and abundance will come to you. If you have a mindset of not being attached too much to anything then you will have freedom, you will become more creative, you will become a genius, you will have more power. Don't be scared to fail, don't be scared to get your efforts wasted for nothing. Just work hard and forget about what might happen in the future, keep loving what you are doing now, keep enjoying your life and simply give your best. You will become braver if you feel you have nothing to lose, you will be able to move faster and make bolder decisions if you are not so cautious of something that might went wrong. You are free to do anything with your life.
Detach yourself from judgement, critics and negative feedback from other people and just be yourself. Let go of the burden, hate, anxiety and expectations and just be yourself.
4. Keep rolling.
Have a mindset of just moving forward all the time, whatever happens... just move forward, do your best every single day and never stop. Take massive actions, if you can turn yourself from being a watcher or dreamer into a creator then your confidence will go to the highest level. If you fail try again, if you got rejected try again, if you didn't win try again, just move forward, keep rolling and never let your momentum die. Promise to yourself to never stop, if you have this kind of mindset then you will become brave, it's because you will always have something to do, you have a philosophy, you have a direction, you know it's only just a matter of time before you win. Moving forward and taking actions will make you feel invincible, it's because your actions alone is making you feel good, it erases all the fear and doubts. You are becoming more hopeful and motivated, you are seeing the light, you are building a strong momentum that you will be able to use in the future.
5. FACE EVERYTHING.
Life isn't suppose to be perfect, that's what life is all about... embracing everything and accepting the truth. Face everything, this is the best way to become braver. If you have a mindset of just doing it, just facing it regardless of how might you feel about it... you will have an easier life. Deal with everything that needs to be dealt with. Give your best in any situation, it's ok to get intimidated or overwhelmed but stay with it, stick with it and stay calm, be in the moment while facing everything and you will discover that you have the ability to handle everything no matter what the problem is.
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