1. Your luck will only comeback if you're trying again and again.
Try again for one more time, never give up. Luck will only comeback if you have a positive spirit and the mindset to never give up. Keep trying, your situation will change in just a matter of time. It depends on how focus you are in changing your situation. Don't ever think that you're stuck on that situation forever, don't ever think that there is no way out, of course there is a way, all you have to do is find it and never stop working your way back to the top. Luck is just a matter of numbers, the more you try the more you will become lucky. So keep pushing, keep grinding and luck will come into your life again. So if you're still not lucky today it only means you're not giving your all, give your all and luck will be on your side.
2. You only need to weather the storm, things will get better again.
Sometimes you don't need to overthink or overreact, sometimes you don't even need to do something. All you have to do is weather the storm, wait for your turn, be patient. Take one small action at a time to avoid falling off a cliff. Just stick with the process and never get frustrated if you can't make something better, be patient, be still and always remember that victory belongs to the most persevering. It's only just a matter of time before things get better again. Wait for your time, just survive this day and tomorrow, just do something to make your situation a little bit better and things will become good again. Any storm will pass, the dark clouds will go away, the sun will shine again, just give yourself some time to breathe, you don't need to always force life to change, it will change if it's time to change.
3. Change some of your thoughts.
Maybe some of your thoughts is what's making you stuck, maybe you have a wrong mindset, maybe you're too focused on the things that are not helping you at all. Change some of your thoughts, choose the thoughts that are making you feel better, hopeful and motivated. Choose the thoughts that are giving you a little edge. Negative thoughts make you stuck, it stops you from taking action, it's giving you doubts, it's making you impatient. Your thoughts makes any situation better or worse, control your thoughts, stop the negativity, stop creating illusions that frightens you, always pick the thoughts that are empowering you.
4. Remember that you're still lucky.
You're still lucky because you still have a lot, you're still lucky because you can still move and change your situation, you're still lucky because you are still alive. Look around you, you have plenty of reasons to be happy. Focus on what makes you happy, focus on appreciating what you have in your life. Don't focus on the lack, focus on what you have and more blessings and opportunities will come. Always remember that where the focus go the energy flow, so if you keep on focusing on things and subjects that makes you feel bad and unlucky then you will receive more of it. But if you can find the lists why you are lucky then your life will become better each day.
5. Do whatever it takes to change your situation.
If you need to take a low paying job then do it, if you need to swallow your pride and ask forgiveness to other people just to get an opportunity do it, if you need to look like a clown doing something just to make your life better do it, if you need to work for more than 24 hours a day just to create a strong foundation and establish your rhythm again do it. There is something you can do, you can do whatever it takes to make your situation better. Don't be scared to try everything, don't be scared to look like a fool and low. Swallow your pride, don't be afraid to look poor or weak, don't be afraid to look like a helpless man. Just do something and never let this day be over without giving yourself a chance to have a better life.
6. Remember that you can survive anything.
You can endure anything, sometimes you feel that you can't take it anymore because you're focused on your weaknesses instead of focusing on your strength. You can withstand any storm, you can survive anything if you will only take it one day at a time. If you can't change something now then just let it be, you will be able to change it in the future. Look at the history of your life, don't you know that what you're experiencing now is nothing compared to what you experienced in the past? you already survived a lot of challenges, what is happening now is nothing new. Don't ever get overwhelmed with any challenge in front of you because you already survived a lot of more difficult challenges. So don't be afraid of any frightening situation because you can survive it if you will embrace it.
7. Ask yourself if it is really that so bad.
Is it really so big of a deal? was it really so bad that you can't live a normal life again? can't you just live in peace and just give your best? can't you accept that things will never be the same again? remember that life is simply about being alive, everything else was just a bonus. It's not bad at all, your perception makes it look bad, your judgement makes it bad. There is always a positive thing on any negativity, it is teaching you something, you're still gaining something from it. It's not bad at all, it's still giving you something and it's up to you if you're going to look for it.
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