Jun 19, 2019

IT'S NOT SPECIAL AT ALL

There's no special in this world, you think it's special that's why you feel it's special. Everything is normal, everything is plain. Even you... you're not special at all. Who do you think you are? stop acting like you're special and you need a special treatment. You are just an ordinary person, if you will always think that you're something special then you will always feel bad, it's because you will become very sensitive of what is going on around you. Just a little disrespectful act from other towards you will make you feel like a victim, it's not good to your health, it's not good to your journey. Treating yourself so special will make you unable to enjoy your life even more, it's because you will be scared of discomfort, you will always think if you want to face the challenge or not.

THERE IS NO SPECIAL PERSON

Never treat someone special because that person might abuse you, once you he see that you're running after him... he will treat you like a slave, he will always ask for a favor, he will be a toxic in your circle. Just treat him like ordinary and never let him control your life. There is no special person, even celebrities were no special, they were beautiful but their farts also smell bad, they also have some troubles in their lives, the also have some legal issues. You made them special that 's why they look so special but the question is... will they return the same favor to you? are they also going to treat you differently? No, they were just laughing at you, they don't even care if you got broke because of watching their movies and almost forgetting about your own dreams.

Treat every person as equal, even if he is he president in your country... don't give him special treatment unless he will give the favor back to you. Treating someone special means you're intimidated at him, it means you are willing to submit to his will and you will try everything just to please him.

Stop treating someone special because he will take advantage of you. He will abuse you and use you, he will treat you as slave.

Every person is just a human being, they were scared too, they feel fear too, they get depressed too, nobody is perfect in this world, if there is then that must be some kind of an alien human.

YOUR DISEASE IS NOT SPECIAL

It's not special, it's almost killing you, it's making you suffer so why give it some attention. You are treating your disease special that's why it's controlling your life. You're worried about it, you're feeding it even more by stressing yourself and not doing the right things to make it go away. You're focus on worries, you're making it special because you're feeling weak all the time. Why not just ignore it and focus on your strength? focus on what you can do to eliminate it, do what strong people does, stay busy and keep getting stronger everyday. Never treat your disease special, treat it like a garbage, just laugh at it and never think that it's more powerful than you. Be greater than your situation. Focus on your strengths, push your body and mind and your disease will go away. It's your belief that makes your disease stronger. Stop believing in your disease because it doesn't believe in you. Make your mind tough, train your mind to become brave so that you will be able to survive each day and live forever. Your body will follow your mind. Don't talk about your disease, don't complain about it, don't think it... just live your life and feel free all the time, feel powerful all the time.

SOMETHING DISTURBING YOU IS NOT SPECIAL

The annoying and noisy neighbors, the disrespectful drivers, your enemy in facebook, etc. They were not special at all yet you're giving them a lot of attention. If you will give someone an attention it means he is special to you. If you want to have a more peaceful and meaningful life then stop giving any attention to what is disturbing you. Focus on what you want to happen in life, focus on what you are trying to create. Never let anything destroy your peace, at the end of the day... the most important thing is your peace of mind. You don't know that you can focus your attention towards some other things that are making you happy and feeling great. You don't know that you are the one who's destroying your own peace by giving other people some attention that they don't even deserve at all.

If it is disturbing you now... forget it. What you want to achieve in life is more important. You can place your energy to different things and people that are really worth it. Those disturbances were all trash, they don't matter to your life so never give them any attention at all.

If something is making you angry, if something is making you feel bad... forget it, ignore it and never talk about it anymore. Never let anything make you mad, you know the journey that is worth it, you know what will make your life better.

YOUR PROBLEM IS NOT SPECIAL

What's so special about your problem? it's only making you go crazy, it's poisoning your mind. Face it, stop thinking about it and start doing something about it. All you can do is do what you can do, just give your very best and you will find a way. There is something greater than your problem and it's your duty to focus on what matters the most in your life and stop thinking about useless things. It's easier to become happy, it's easier to have an easy life. Stop focusing on your problem and it will go away, focus on the solutions and actions and that problem will be solved by itself. If you want to have a special life then you need to treat nothing as special, treat your life as the most special thing in your life, make yourself happier by doing the right things and focusing on the right people and events. Stop giving some time for people and things that will not even help you at all.

HOW TO HAVE A SPECIAL LIFE?

Focus on getting better everyday, place your energy to things and circumstances that will make your life even better, Stop focusing on something that will only make your life worse. Use your time for your own good, never use it to impress people or please people, never use it to make yourself angry, never use it to stress yourself, live life to the fullest by using your time to become better each day. Use it to develop your character and attitude.

Your life is special enough, you don't need to look for something special anymore. Even your lover or ex... they were not special at all, stop pleasing them or thinking about them too much because they're only making your life harder. It's ok to love but you have to love yourself first so that you can give the real love to another person.

YOUR PAST IS NOT SPECIAL

People who hurt you in the past were not special, your past failures were not special. Stop thinking about your past because it's only making your life miserable and sad. You could have been happier now if you're not thinking about your past. Your past is not even part of your life anymore, if it is then why was it not happening anymore? why can't you see it anymore? past is already an illusion, forget it so that you will be able to breathe freely and you can live a happier life.

It's ok to think about the past but only think about the happiest ones, only think about what makes you feel good and happy, stop thinking about what is making your life even harder.

Past is making your life difficult and you don't know that you're loving it.

MONEY IS NOT SPECIAL 

Don't be afraid to lose your money, invest it, buy it with the things that you really NEED in life, make it roll, use it in business, use it to make yourself better. Money is not special at all, don't ever think that it will run out, don't ever think that you can't live without it. Money is just a piece of paper, you can do a lot with it but the trick to stop being afraid of having no money is to always think that you don't need anything. You don't need a nice house, you don't need a delicious meal nor expensive dress, you don't need money to attract friends. Money will come and go, respect it but don't ever think that it's the only source of your happiness and security. The more you're afraid of losing money... the more you will lose money.

You can always find money anywhere, just think about it but don't worry about it. Money will come and go. It's normal to run out of money sometimes but don't ever lose your sanity because you don't have some money. Don't ever feel sad because you don't have friends because you don't have money.

TOXIC FRIENDS WERE NOT SPECIAL

You have toxic friends but you're still doubting if you can get rid of them, you're thinking that they will change if you give them another chance. You lend them money, do them some favor but did they return the love that you gave to them? they were still back stabbing you when you're not around, they're still making fun of you and playing you. Why do you treat them so special even though you know that they were no of good use into your life? they were no special, they were not even extra ordinary. Throw them away off your window. You can still find some new friends that will treat you right, that will give you the right amount of love that you deserve. Stop associating yourself with toxic friends that's main purpose is to bring suffering into your life. You deserve better than them, stop thinking that you can't find another set of friends anymore.

YOUR PAIN IS NOT SPECIAL

That stomach pain, that chronic disease, that toot ache, that sprain, that ACL, that heartache from your Ex... it's not special. Don't dwell too much about it, don't male dramas about it. Your pain is only temporary it will not stay forever. Stop thinking about it, stop making dramas about it. Even if it is really painful... just stop thinking about it and have peace with it, it's nothing, it can never kill you. What doesn't kill you only make you stronger. So stop dwelling about it, stop using it as an excuse to not live your life to the fullest. Push through pain, it is possible to succeed and be happy even if you're feeling a lot of pain.

Everyone is in pain, everyone is dealing with something painful in their lives. You're not the only one who's suffering so stop acting like you're being punished.

Happiness can overwrite your pain, good thoughts can erase all your pain. Stop focusing on your pain and it will go away anytime soon. You must put your attention to something else so that you will feel better now. Your pain is just a feeling, never attached any kind of fear to it and it will go away as fast as possible.

YOUR BOSS IS NOT SPECIAL

Your boss is just an ordinary person. He is nothing, he is not even paying you, the company is paying you. Don't be afraid of your boss, follow what he is saying but if he is forcing you to do things and you're already tired... go home. Stop agreeing with him that you need to work over time even if you will not get paid. Your boss is not a special person, don't be afraid of him, don't get intimidated at him. You can become your own boss if you will look for strategies that will set you up for a good and much lighter life, it's all about working hard now so you won't follow other people int he future. Look for something that will make you earn money on your own.

Your boss have no power over your decisions, it has only power over your work. If you're too damn tired and you feel that you need to go home then go home. Stop asking for permission, stop punching your card on the bundy clock, just go home and rest your body because you deserve it after hours and hours of hard work.

Just treat your boss as someone who is ordinary so that he will feel your confidence and get intimidated at you too. Your boss has some fears too, look for it and you will be able to control him and play him too.

YOU CREATED AN ILLUSION THAT IT'S SPECIAL

You're the one who created an illusion that someone or something is special and that you cannot reject it or contradict it. Nothing is special in this world, never get intimidated at anybody, you can scare them too if you want, you can become special too if you will treat yourself special and grow everyday so that your value will go up.

Stop illusioning that something is special so that you won't be afraid of making your own decisions. After all... if you will think deeply, it is not special at all.

Your car is not special don't be afraid that it might get scratched, your job is not special don;t be afraid that you might lose it, your girl is not special she might leave you one day. Stop thinking that you can't afford to lose what you think is special. There is no special in this world, you can live by having nothing in your life, you can lose everything and still manage to breathe.

Don't be afraid of something that is new to you, it is not special, you can adapt to it, you are still in control of your thoughts and emotions.

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