Jun 30, 2019

IF THE PAIN IS NOT SCARY YOU WILL FACE IT

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The reality is... if the pain is not scary then you will face it, that's why it is so hard to face the truth... it is painful and at the same time it is scary. Just like a man who feels that his life is in danger and has a terrible disease... he will be so scared to face the pain, he will be afraid to consult the doctor because he thinks that he will get a very bad news. But if he feels that his life is not in danger and his life is not at risk then he will become more confident to go to the doctor. 

Pain is only scary if you know that it your life is in danger but if not then you will face it. But sometimes you're the only one who's creating that it's too dangerous, you keep on being scared about it although there is nothing to be scared about. And that is why pain grows bigger and bigger, that's why it becomes more painful... it is already poisoning your mind. Your psychology and physiology is being controlled by fear. So if you want to feel better then stop focusing on fear. Fear is what makes the pain more painful, it is what's controlling your life. 

So if you want to have a breakthrough all you need to do is stop thinking that it's scary, think that you are safe and think that it's safe. It may harm you a little bit but it will never put you in danger at all. It becomes dangerous because you think that you're in danger. But if you will think that it's all just a process then you will feel much better. You can feel good while in pain, it's simply about relaxing and focusing on the things that you want and not on what you don't want. 

Pain is just a feeling, there is no danger on it. Mental, emotional or physical pain... it is nothing if you will not make it a big deal. Once you focus and identify what you want... the journey will become much much easier. 

Even if it looks too painful, never create an illusion that it's life threatening, never think that you will fail. Always think that you can conquer anything and simply focus on being positive. Believe that you can overcome it, believe that you are powerful than any kind of pain. 

Some pain are not even painful at all, your fear makes it three times stronger than what originally it is. You need to learn how to handle fear first before you break any kind of pain. Pain will go away if fear isn't there anymore, no matter how painful it was... if you're confident that it can never harm you then you will win, you will become triumphant in the end. It is not painful if you're not fearful, it is not painful if you will just face it and learn how to manipulate your feelings towards it. 

Not all pain is scary, your illusion towards it make it scary. So beware of your thoughts, control the negative thoughts and you will control your destiny. 

All pain will subside, it is never permanent. So don't dwell on it too much, stop talking about it, stop making dramas about it. Everyone who's chasing greatness is in pain, everyone is having a hard time. Some people's pain is even painful than your pain but they were too optimistic that's why they can't feel it anymore, they were simply focused on what they want. If you're focus on what you want you will forget every painful feeling that you have, you will survive any problem, you will feel much much better and confident. Your pain is not special so stop giving it any attention. 

So don't be afraid of any kind of pain, it's just a feeling, you can overcome that scary feeling with an optimistic feeling. Stop thinking about the future and face the pain now, feel good about it, just relax and replace it with a more wonderful and attractive feeling. It will only become possible if you will think about beautiful and positive thoughts that already happened or may happen in your life. 

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